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writes:HeyFor the last couple of months no matter what my boyfriend does and how long he does it for I just can't seem to orgasm!! I really enjoy it when he gives me oral and for ages he used to be able to satisfy me in every way but at the moment I just can't seem to get there! we thought it may be because we use my vibrator quite a lot during sex so I stopped using it for a few weeks but still nothing! is there anything u can suggest
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the suggestions guys!!I know I should relax but it's hard!! (no pun intended) he is expecting something from me and I am hoping for something from him!! He knows that I love the physical contact becuase I pratically beg for it!! I actually can't get enough of him. Maybe that is the problem!! : )
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 make sure he knows that you love him touching you, and that it feels great! I couldn't orgasm for the first several months my boyfriend and I had sex- and it took me a while to relax. But I still enjoy the contact. He knows it, so he doesn't feel bad if I don't get "the big O" every time.
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reader, lukabazzoo  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 HI,If it isnt due to medication(anti-depressants can cause this) or change in contraception...it could be a slight hormone imbalance.(blood test can check this)Also, concentrating too much or pressure to orgasm can cause you not to have one!!RELAX!!hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn reply to the recent answer I have had no change in contraception!! I think it's been going on for so long now that when we r in the moment I feel too much pressure!! I think the worst thing is that I know he worries because he think he isn't pleasing me but I really enjoy it!! Thanks for your help!!
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reader, _kylie_ + ♥, writes (26 July 2007):
 just a thought but have you changed Contraception or started taking any type of medication, i tried the contraception that they inject a few yrs ago and it lasts for 3 month, i could never orgasm while that injection was in my system and i think it took 6 month before things where back to normal, using sex toys wont cause that so dont worry, only other thing i can think is maybe theres something on your mind, not necessarily about sex, your boyfriend or you, just something that your worried or concerned about.
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