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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am i being petty when it comes to my brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Now a month ago i split from a year long relationship and after a bit of a rocky ride things are settling down after he admitted he had lied a few times during the reltionship. Nothing major, just little things. Which i kinda knew, my instincts told me and this was the main ... (501 words)

has he cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, After I broke up with my ex he had another gf the very next day! I was really mad, because people were saying he was cheating on me, he only asked me out b/c he felt sorry for me, and that he really liked her. So I got really mad, and decided to hate him. I verbally... (97 words)

Been thinking of sleeping with this guy... but know it will wreck my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my husband for 7 years and we are married for almost 5 years now. We have a 6 year old son. I recently met this guy who is married for 2 years now at my work. Lately, we have been spending time together during lunch. This guy flirts with me a lot and giv... (210 words)

Why do I keep pushing him away, picking fights, and how do I know he is the right one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 and have been dating the same man for a year and a half. I love him a great deal but our relationship has always moved very slowly, which is very unusual for me. We only said the "L" word a month or so ago and have never said it since. We are both divorced and were ... (136 words)

We're both too shy to make the first move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey The guy i love has recently told me he likes me, he says he has never loved anyone this much before, so all is good there. But the problem is we are both to scared and shy to make the first move. I txt him all the time, but when it comes down to face to face and stupid t... (86 words)

A male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out I fancy him! what can i do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - a male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out i fancy him! what can i do?... (19 words)

He's moved on after 3 months of separation from me and said that if I wasn't so abusive he would have come back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, i was with my ex for just over a year, we have been broken up 3months I have a 7month old baby by him, but the thing is he has moved on already with someone else, im heart broken has i still love him, i don't no how to handle him when i have to see him because ... (117 words)

my wife wanted to know my past, now she cant handle it. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) age 51-59 - my wife and I are married 2 years. since the begining she has asked about my sexual past. not really feeling comfortable with this I reluctantly started to discuss my past. I am one that believes in not discussing this. my wife wants to know how many and what ect. since then ... (320 words)

I'm just so scared of losing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this is following my question I wrote the other day. It was titled "I have developed a need to be with my husband, I miss him even when he's at work" They may not be the exact words but I posted it on the 26th July if that helps. Anyway thanks for the answers I got, I t... (303 words)

It there any way my sister can stop talking in her sleep?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid my sister sleep talks in her sleep and does not know what she saying. is their any way of stoping this?... (26 words)

My girlfriend and I still haven't had sex. She's never in the mood!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I've been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and 2 months. We still havent had sex, we're both 18. She isn't "in the mood" very often and we always stop half way through foreplay because she isn't in the right frame of mind or she gets sore. She gets sore really ... (217 words)

I'm really under weight. I'm scared, but I won't eat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im really under wieght i come in about 6 stone maxium i dont fit in to anything im below a size 0 in the uk im scared but i wont eat...what should i do?... (34 words)

This guy I like says he loves someone else, but lately he wants to be close to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey theres this guy i really like, but im really confussed, he says his true love is some other girl, but she turned him down. We have always been really close but recently he keeps hugging me and wanting to be close to me. Weve just been camping together in a big group, a... (67 words)

There definitely seems to be something between us but nothing's happened so far; I really want it to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - HI me and this girl have been best friends for ages and afew yrs ago i developed feeling for her but i wanted to make sure it wasn't just a crush as i didn't want to hurt her. I've also ben told by afew of out best friends that she loves me but doesn't know how to go about it. ... (295 words)

I can't decide if I love my husband or if I'm just used to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone i have another question. i sent in a question early about marriage and 3 kids. in respnose to the answer someone gave me. It is not the problem of having time alone we have babysitters it him. i have been thinking about this for at least a week and i have come ... (84 words)

Sex was too painful for my virgin girlfriend so we stopped; how can I help her stop feeling like she failed me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf decided we were gonna have sex last other night but when we started it was hurting her and she said she wanted to stop for now so we did. I told her we could stop at any point and that i wouldn't think any less of her. We have been friends all through out our ... (219 words)

I'm craving the affection my husband doesn't give me and have been offered it from my first love; what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I get no affection from my husband at all. We have been married 15 years. Recently I came in contact with my first love.I want to see him really badly. I'm not sure if this is the thing I should do since I have been getting alot of effection from my first love. I really like ... (84 words)

He can't get an erection so I can't pleasure him like he pleasures me and I don't want him to resent that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 6 months and we haven't had sex yet. At the beginning of the relationship he had a problem with getting an erection so we decided to leave the sex issue for a while and concentrate on the emotional aspect of our relationship. F... (208 words)

She needed space to work out her feelings for me and her ex; I've heard nothing back from her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, I met a girl about a month ago. She is almost everything I could want in a woman and we spend alot of time talking things over about how drawn we both are to each other. She had only been apart from her ex' of 4 years for a couple of months and was 'over him' etc. Anyway, ... (242 words)

Could I be pregnant? How can I tell my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad found me with a guy making out in my truck. and now he doesn't let me do anything with out someone with me well me and this guy have had unprotected sex before and i haven't got my period this month and it really scares me because im not ready to be pregant and i know im ... (89 words)

Do you think this is a weird, freaky thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend likes for me to go down on him while he is watching porn. I figured at least he isnt doing this be himself but is this a wierd freaky thing to do?... (34 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I just realized I'm not over my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i left my boyfriend we werent happy any more and started seeing a guy id fallen for. that was 6 monhs ago and i love him very much. my ex has a new girlfriend and when he told me i was so crushed i realise i still do love my ex. not cos im jealous of the new girl, i really love ... (93 words)

We tried to have sex, but it just did not work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - well i am a bit stuffed atm lol, me and my girlfriend (both near 16) have bin going out 2months now and it just feels so right. we recently tried sex after a couple of drinks but it just did not work. i can easily fit my finger in but only one at a time as more than 1 she gets ... (91 words)

She loves me because I'm Asian!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend of 3 years Just confessed That She Only Loved Me Because Of My Japanese and Chinese Background (She was drunk).. i fell so hurt I've Been with her Since i was 17 She took my virginty and i took hers...I havent been wtih anyone eles and i want to end it...Is Her ... (66 words)

I slept with another man, who is threatening to tell everyone what I did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been on holiday and just come back, but whilst i was on holiday i got very drunk and ended up sleeping with a man, even though im not gay. But i gave him my phone number and addess and everything. The thing is he wont leave me alone, he says if we dont hav sex again he... (75 words)

My husband loves me, but he is horrible at showing affection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been with my husband for five years and we just got married last month. He is the perfect husband other then the fact that he has A HORRIBLE time showing affection. I've confronted him many times over the years about this and he will be great for a few days and then ... (389 words)

I love my girlfriend, but sometimes I have very serious doubts about us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old (female), and have been with my girlfriend on and off for 15 months. She cheated on me over xmas/january time, and after alot of agro i took her back. Her mum is a reformed jehovah's witness and contacting her is so hard as her mum is so upset about it and she... (265 words)

I think I'm acting normal, but he thinks I'm cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Am I jealous or is my fiance jealous? My fiance always says that I get jealous. If getting a little angry and annoyed if he checks out and acts differently around attractive blondes is jealous then maybe I am. But isn't he jealous when I go out to a bar by myself and he asks if ... (134 words)

He says I'm being silly. I say he's mad that I went out. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Should I apologize? My fiance went away for a few days and on a friday night i called him and he was at the bar at the hotel. i felt stupid for sitting home watching t.v. on a friday night so I said I was going to go out too by myself. I am new to this area in new york and he ... (181 words)

He wants to start dating me when he starts driving, but that's 3 years away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy that i like, likes me also but he doesn't want to go out right now. He says that he wants to wait untill he can drive soo then he can see me everyday. I think it's pretty logical buut i'm not going to wait thaat long for him that's like 3 or more years and it would be ... (232 words)

Should I give him a second chance after he cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age - I love this guy i been dateing for awhile.He cheated on me and i told him i didn't want to see him anymore.Well we did see eachother again just to talk and it was then he told me that he Loved me very much.Do you think i should give him a second chance.... (53 words)

Could I be pregnant? Please Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay .... I'm really scared .. I had unprotected sex a couple weeks back ... i didn't think anything of it cause i never had an orgasm... and well i haven't got my period this month could i be pregant .... plz help... (43 words)

After a two year relationship, he's already moved on! How do I let this go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I split up almost 2 weeks ago, after a two year relationship. He's already over me, and has moved on with his life, while I seem to cant let it go. It's eating me on the inside, and I hurt so badly, I know I'm holding onto air, but my heart is still trying. ... (138 words)

Should I try again for the sake of the baby??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 and have been with my boyfriend [he's 36] for 5 months. He has 2 children from a previous relationship. I have found out recently I am pregnant, it is my first child. I have always lived a very independant life but since meeting him, I have curbed my social life as he ... (184 words)

I feel she's pressuring me into marriage but I'm just not ready yet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - We're almost breaking up with my gal now since I requested her to wait since am yet not ready for marriage as I feel my self. I am 25 she is 30. She says time is running out and she is ready. We've been dating for the last year and a half now. How do I work it out? And ho... (92 words)

At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now but somthing's not right at all. At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all. We still get on really well and are very much in love but we haven't had sex in 8 ... (95 words)

Am I being selfish here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of 6 years had a row. We lived togetheher (house in his name). Both decided I should move back to my parents. I did. He also bought me a car (he is self employed and earns a comfortable life). That was left behind. At the time I had just got a job I had been... (158 words)

I keep lying to my boyfriend and it's now getting out of hand. How can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy that I like a lot, but I don't know what's wrong with me. I keep telling lies. Like I made up this guy to get him jealous and I ended up making up that he went too far so I hit him. I even cut my hand to make it look like I hit him. I think it may be a... (91 words)

My ex contacted me saying she had made a terrible mistake, thing is I still love her but can't hurt the new girl I'm with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I wrote in a while ago because my ex fiancee and myself split up, we was together for 3 years and I still very much loved her and I was advised to give her space because the split was her choice. In the time apart we still spoke to each other but I could not persuade her to ... (178 words)

Is it normal to have orgasms at my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - this is abit embarresing for me but is it normal to get orgasms at my age? ... (16 words)

Recently he rung me asking me not to get in contact for some bazzar reason but then after 2 weeks he rung and I was so happy for about a week..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii... I'm 17 years of age, and I was in a 5 month relationship which fell to pieces and then I got over it when somebody else came along. He had a girlfriend and I asked him about her and he told me he had left her. We started seeing each other and then soon after I found ... (327 words)

He wouldn't use the words "breaking up" or "dumping", but that's pretty much what happened. I'm distraught.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I'm new here, and in need of some advice. My boyfriend (my ex now, I guess) and I have been together for 10 months. Things were a bit rocky when we first started dating, in that I knew he was very different from anyone I'd dated and I wasn't sure if I was able to hand... (1414 words)

Could my ex have been right? Is she really going to dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6114 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend (whom I can't stand) and I got into a fight the other day (this isn't the first time this has happened) so I blocked her on AIM. A few days later she told my girlfriend about the fight and she said she was going to dump me. I didn't know if I should believe ... (104 words)

What really happens to the soul when we die???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know someone who commited suicide. Now that I am dealing with ok - she had a pretty hard life; I often thought - I wonder how she copes and carries on with life. So that I do not need advice or counselling for - I am ok with it. What I am concerned is what happens to her s... (117 words)

After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago).

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age - After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago). His behavior during the first 20 years of marriage was selfish (did what he wanted all the time) without regard to me and our children. His actions in those years made me think he was having ... (124 words)

Any tips on how to memorise lines for a big part in a play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just got a big part in a play im doing in my drama group. Its Gwendolen from The Importance of being Ernest. A girl dropped out so my teach gave me the part. the play iso n Friday. So i need help on ways to memorise my lines. does anyone know how to help i would appr... (70 words)

I fall for guys really easy and have 2 that like me just now, I just don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and fall for guys really easy. I have a guy back home wanting to make a go of me and him but I was back in England (in Spain atm) we always hit off, got along and everything but earlier this week I met a guy and he´s eveything I want. He is so sweet and treats me so ... (119 words)

A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend. She said he kissed her and she didn't kiss him. I'm finding it hard to believe because she didn't tell me about this, I found out, it's as if she ... (205 words)

I'm bussing everywhere. But I'm scared witless, as I've never travelled more than 50 miles on my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll soon be going on holiday with my boyfriend and his parents. Let's call him P. He lives in Kent now, his parents live in Birmingham and I live in Cornwall. See the problem already arising? The original plan was: P picks me up, we go back, rest for two days, go on holi... (405 words)

He spends far too much time round at his ex's house and I feel I can't put up with it any longer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we don't live together but we spend a couple of nights each week at each others home. I love him very much. He is very quiet and I'm the opposite I guess. I'm beginning to get bored as he rarely makes me laugh and I feel our ... (338 words)

No-one will talk to me because I laughed when I heard my mum had died

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My Mum just died and i laughed when i found out my friends and family where there and now nobody will talk to me and call me sad and fake i dont think this is fair i didn't mean to laugh i did hate my mum but i should'nt of laugh what should i do.?... (55 words)

I'm afraid to tell my friend I like him but I'm going mad not being able to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate some help. I am having difficulty telling a male friend that I have feelings for him above friendship and I am concerned that if I tell him it will put him in a very awkward position if he doesn't feel the same way. At the same time, my inability to ... (87 words)

I did ask to see him this weekend but he never called me. I feel like my world is ending as all my friends have boyfriends and now I have no one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I'm Katie, I'm 20 years old and was in a relationship for the past year and half, I loved my partner very much and I decided I would not carry on my career I have always wanted to do so I could make it work with him, as I would have never got to see him. We used... (451 words)

My boyfriend refuses to say sorry when he's in the wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - why is it so hard for a man to say sorry especailly when he knows that he was in the wrong? it always seems to be me that has to approach him when he has done wrong and he will wait it out weeks and months, even when he knows he was in the wrong!... (55 words)

I have no idea what I should do about this. Can anyone help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have no idea what I should do about this. After years of denying her feelings, my first love confessed how much she loved me. We originaly split up after she cheated on me and got her mate to call me while she was having sex with someone else. After this I couldn't form a ... (477 words)

I've never cheated on anyone ever and don't understand why these feelings are so strong....help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Any advice would be gratefully received.... I'm a woman in my mid thirties with three children and a lovely man in my life. Recently a new guy started work where I do. The attraction was almost instant and as the weeks have gone by the flirting is becoming very intense.... (199 words)

I broke up with him but now I want him back, trouble is he's not answering my texts now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age - I was with this commitment phobic guy for 7 months, we really hit it off, and there was talk of moving in together, he kept messing about saying he didn't know what he wanted. He didn't treat me too well and after a while, started making excuses not to come round. I finished ... (166 words)

I started dating a guy who is engaged but ended it recently, cos I know he's still going to marry his fiance; what do we do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been seeing a guy frm work for about a year now, we started off as really good friends and we confided in eachother with everything... As time went on we become very close and basically could not go a day without seeing or speaking to eachother... Over the last yea... (236 words)

I'm 14, how do I ask my parents if I can go on birth control pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you ask your parents for control pills when you are my age. wich is fourteen.... (17 words)

My boyfriend is going through a divorce and is sometimes moody with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of two months is pending divorce from his wife. He is sometimes attentive and loving, sometimes moody and distant. I have done everything I can to show how I feel for him. Is this a lost cause or should I be more patient?... (47 words)

I like my sister's roommate but I'm afraid of spoiling their relationship if something goes wrong bewteen her and I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

- What should I do: Date my sisters roommate/best friend or forget about it and find someone else. I really like this girl but I am afraid of ruining my sisters friendship with her if something were to go wrong. ... (46 words)

I've told my crush I like him but he hasn't said how he feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i met this guy maybe 3 weeks ago at the mall and we've been talking on aim and all and im starting to get this huge crush but sometimes when we hang out at the mall he walks offcuz of another guy friend but if i would pass him he'd come to me. its just i want to know how u ... (93 words)

I like my best friend's younger sister; should I tell him, or her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i have liked one of my best friends younger sisters for awhile ( me and my best friend are both 14, and she is turning 13 in august ) i was at his house today and i was flirting with her in there computer room well my friend was with are other friend watching tv in the other ... (116 words)

My boyfriend called me a slut but he cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - wat if my bf told me dat im slut? and he said he doesnt want me to go back in the club. does it min he loves me and care for me??? i did everything he wants for me. but he cheated on me wid my frend...i love him so much. and im begging him to go back. but he reject me. im ... (78 words)

Do my symptoms sound like pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay hi every one! well here goes i had sex with my fiance about 6 weeks ago and well he forgot to pull out and long story about every thing else, i started really getting sick to my stomic and my breast are tender and even grew a bit but i didnt miss my peroid yet so could it... (110 words)

Back together now but everytime we argue he throws 'past issues' in my face. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have had a very up and down relationship. He's about 6 years younger than me, and when we first got together, everything was perfect. He was thoughtful, caring, did everything and anything to make me happy. We started having problems when I developed a little ... (264 words)

I have the 'hots' for her bf! How do I break them up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know its wrong but I have the ''Hot's'' for my friends boyfriend... What can I do to break them up???... (21 words)

What are his true feelings for me? How do I figure this guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - In 2002 I met and fell in love with a guy who was recently separated with 2 kids. For the first year he wasn't really sure what he wanted. He went down home for 2 weeks and I went there to visit on my holidays. Before he came back he mentioned about moving in together, but 2 ... (193 words)

Which is safer? Online dating sites or a match making agency?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - which is better and safer online dating or go to a match making agency ? i want whats best for my daughter a good man and her safety .... (29 words)

Married but had a lesbian affair! We broke up but why is it so hard to forget?

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28 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married 18 years with 3 kids. I recently had a lesbian affair with my best friend of 16 years. I confessed to my husband, who forgave me and since then we have been trying to put our marriage back together. I have always been attracted to other women but never acted on it. ... (156 words)

14 and confused about whether I want sex or not! Help!

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28 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am fourteen years old and i want to lose my virginity to a guy that i really like and he likes me to and i am totally confertable with him. i'm just not to sure i'm ready for the pain of it. I have given oral sex before to two guys and i have done pretty much everyone except ... (107 words)

She has so many problems..but I can't get her out of my head! Help!

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28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl who I posted about here: http://dearcupid.org/question/i-met-this-girl-about-4-months-ago.html and now she's even more f**ked up then I thought. On top of being bulemic, anorexic, suicidal, self-harming, she's also apparently still completely obsessed wit... (172 words)

My cultural tradition is, we look after our elderly parents..my husband wants them out! What should I do?

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28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my husband for 12 years married for 10 years we have 4 children. I come from a filipino family and it is our tradition that we take care of our parents. my husband and i have been living with my parents for the last 4 years while he is finishing up his master ... (170 words)

Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life and not be with any body ?

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28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life until i die and not be with any body ? i am only in my 20's and since the time i was in my teens i decided not to be with anybody . this guy i know at my job says that i am crazy and then he said what are you a lesbian , which i am ... (98 words)

I get too serious-too fast! How can I stop doing this?

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28 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Just wondering, since I have come out of a serious relationship, when I finally get into a new realtionship, is there anyway that I can settle with the idea that the relationship will not start seriously? I have only ever really been in a serious relationship, ... (222 words)

I'm 20, in university and I want to start a family so badly! What can I do?

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28 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I wonder if anyone could help me. My partner and I (both 20 years of age) have been together for over 5 years, we have been engaged for about 1 1/2 years. We have both just completed our first year in Uni and plan to marry afterwards. However, recently I've been gettin... (147 words)

Do I still love my boyfriend?

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28 July 2007 (F)

- Im about to turn 18 and start college soon and i have this boyfriend and well i came to realize i dont think i like him anymore. Now this would be easy for me to break up with him but we been togetther for a while and he really loves me and has done noting wrong but i just dont ... (145 words)

Does she mean it when she says we're too good friends to bring in intimacy, or was she just rejecting me nicely?

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28 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - OPEN TO ALL AGONY AUNTIES. i had a girl i had held as a friend for over 6 years coz we had gone thru the same primary school. This girl is remarkably well behaved but has some problems arising from the unstable marriage her parents have had since she was a kid. Feeling we had k... (108 words)

My wife is pregnant with her lover's child!

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28 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife began an affair beginning in May of 2006 with a co-worker. I found out about it a couple of weeks later and confronted her. She said that she would stop seeing the guy, yet within a few weeks apparently continued the affair. I confronted her a couple of other times in ... (501 words)

Does he want to break up, or is he unsure? Any advice?

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28 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - He does not manage to break-up... why? I have been dating a guy for about 1.5y including 1y on a distance relationship. We now live back in the same city. Things are not going well. We are getting closer and closer to breaking up. Still, he does not get himself to do it. To g... (217 words)