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writes:i have been with my partner for 5 years i have a 4 year old daughter with him. i love him to bits but 2 years ago i cheated on him with my ex husband. my ex mother in law knows this. last week we fell out. i am scared that she will tell my partner as she is a very spitefull woman. i carnt break away from her as i have her grandughter and only live down the road from her. do itell my partner or do i just let it be and see what happens? i carn't be with out him and he will leave me if he finds outNote from moderator: Please use punctuation in all your posts or they may be rejected!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): i dnt think you shud tell him just dnt let her get to you take it comes thats what im doing im in the same kind of situation and if my boyfriend finds out i will just have to let him go but just make him happy and u will feel better x
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 i think that you need to be honest with him and tell him yourself - if he is going to find out its best he finds out from you. if your mother in law tells him it will no doubt look and sound worse than it was. i know you are scared to tell him but honesty is the best policy and everyone deserves a 2nd chance. tell him, apologise, and give him time to think things over. assure him that it was a mistake and that you love him and only him. after all you are human and can easily make mistakes. talk to him, and tell him everything. hopefully he will forgive you and give you another chance. i hope this helps hun xxx
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