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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband doesn't respect that I'm a teacher! Tonight he said he's leaving!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of two years is great, except that he does not and never has respected my profession as a teacher. He wants me to quit my job and go back to school to "do more" with my education. He says that life is too routine and he is not staying in the home town that we ... (109 words)

Is our relationship illegal if we are not having sexual relations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend soon to be fiance is 18 and i was just wandering if it was illegal to date or to get engaged if there is no sexual realations?... (37 words)

Can you love your boyfriend but still have feelings for your ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you still have feelings for your ex and be in love with the boyfriend you have now? I'm in love with my boyfriend and we have a great relationship but occasionally memories of my ex come up and sometimes I've dreamt about him occasionally. I find myself thinking that if I ... (151 words)

I didn't show up for my class reunion because I don't feel like I have achieved anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My high school just held their 30th class reunion. I was a no-show because it occurred to me that I have done nothing with my life that would impress anyone and you know, reunions are all about showing off your kids, your careers and your life-long accomplishments. I don't have ... (307 words)

My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. How do I tell my mum I'm going???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 28. I love him so much and he loves me. He wants me to move in with him b/c my stepdad treats me bad and he just wants to be with me. i don't know how to tell my mom i'm moving out.... (49 words)

After 17 years we broke up and my partner found someone else within weeks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 17years spilt up and found another guy within a few weeks. I didnt get any closure and she has not made any contact for a good few months. I was extremely hurt and have had counselling. I just wondered if she might have cheated on me or is she on the rebound? Is ... (65 words)

After 6 years we broke up on New Years. He's now married with a child on the way - how do I get over it!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - On New Years Day of this year my boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me. He actually told me on Christmas Eve that he was interested in someone else. I've been through this before, so I just thought he was going threw another one of his crisis and he needed a few days to ... (248 words)

My 16-yr old son is in a cult!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age - Apologies for the length of this, but the problem is really worrying, and I can't deal with it! I'm a father of two, with one 16-year-old son, and one 22-year-old son, at university in Manchester. My 16-year-old son has joined a dangerous cult. The cult is apparently very ... (554 words)

What exactly is the coil?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've heard this alot on this site, can someone tell me what "the coil" is? [moderator notice: You would quickly find the answer to this question by typing "What is the coil" or "contraceptive coil" in to Google.]... (41 words)

I kept asking for breaks and eventually he didn't want me back! Now he's with someone else, can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my boyfriend for 6 months and i kept askin for bearks so i could meet other people (which a regret) he took me back evertime then the last he did'nt i was heart broken then a week later i found out he was with someone else !! after a month i wouldnt leave him alone 2 ... (115 words)

Is He Blowing Me Off Or Generally Busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've Just Started Seeing This Boy And We Spent Some Time Together On A School Trip. Now We're Back At School We See Eachother At Break And Dinner. Well Anyway The Problem Is I've Asked Him If He's Wanted To Go To The Cinema 2 Weekends In A Row And He's Said He's At His N... (69 words)

I moved back from Australia after having a breakdown... should I go back and try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved to Australia with my partner a year and a half ago, but unfortunately found the experience very stressful and had a break down! I had to come back to the UK to try to gt on my feet again, and I do feel somewhat better, but desperately want to be back with my partner. I ... (114 words)

How do I tell my inexperienced boyfriend how to do things the way I like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently started having sex with my boyfriend and we are both 17. he was a virgin before he met me and hes not to clued up on what to do. i dont know how to teach him to do things the way i like it without sounding patronising as ive never been anyones first before! how do ... (72 words)

I found out from my friends that my boyfriend kissed a girl who I hate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago, my boyfriend went to Ireland for two weeks for a school trip with other class mates. During this time, everyone was drinking alcohol. One night, he got really really drunk and so was everyone else. So because he was drunk, he kissed another girl! A girl who ... (168 words)

We broke up recently but I can't seem to let him go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a break-up recently and im having a hard time letting my man go,he seems to move on but im still so hang up on him what should i do? i miss him when and i often gets lonely but he wont answer my calls... (46 words)

I got really wet, and now my boyfriend thinks I cheated on him. What could have caused this amount wetness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What would cause me to be wetter during sex than i have been before? My boyfriend and i had sex last night. I left for an hour and came home and we had sex again and he got real mad and said that i was not right down there because i have never been that wet before. He thinks ... (124 words)

If he pulls out does that mean that you wont get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on the pill, but I just started using it a few months ago and I am not very good about taking it at the same time everynight (next pack I will take in the AM so I do better) And there have been some times where I have forgotten until the next day and had to get caught up. ... (108 words)

She's 13 and wants to give me a handjob. I haven't met her yet and I'm worried about this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - well u c im 12 and my gf is 13 i really like her but dont know her yet....... i met her on mysapce but she doesnt live to far from me... we always text and call and then she brough up that it would be fun if she gave me a hand job and if i fingererd her.... i have no idea wat ... (132 words)

He's freaked out that I finally responded to his crush on me! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

- why does it freak a guy out when a girl they've had a secret crush on finally shows an interest back and flirts with him, especially if he has no problem with the other ladies that flirt with him?... (39 words)

My girl friend's 15 year old daughter does not like me..so my gf just wants to be friends! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girl friend's 15 year old daughter does not like me. As a result my girl friend has chosen for us to be just friends and nothing more. Her reasoning is that she does not wish to jeopardize her relationship with her daughter. We dated for 7 months and are now just friends. I ... (104 words)

Update: Is six to eight bottles of alcohol a weekend-every weekend too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i posted a question to you yesturday asking if 6-8 bottles of alcohol a weekend,every weekend was too much. firstly i would like to thank everyone who replied to my question,your advice was very much appreciated. i shown my husband the question i posted to you in an attempt to... (149 words)

After we lost our viginity to each other-she stopped talking to me! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i have been with my gf for nearly a year now and we lost our virginity's to each other the other day and now she wont talk to me ,what have i done wrong i didn't force her into it and i made sure she was ready plz help ... (52 words)

He signed up on a swingers website and talks to my friend who sleeps w/ married men. Am I making too much out of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and have been living together for 10 months. He's in the military and travels alot. I do trust him and i know he hasn't cheated on me but right before he left to go on course he joined a swingers website called ... (233 words)

I have fallen for a lady I work for, but I am too shy to do anything about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have fallen in love with a lady that works in the same shop as me but i'm really shy and i'm not sure if she really likes me or is just being friendly. every time we do'nt see each other for a few days she really smiles when she see's me and her eyes seem to light up.... (59 words)

How do I have phone sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I 'make love' to my girlfriend on the telphone? We have kissed each other this way. Has any other boyfriend done this with their long distance girlfriend?... (36 words)

My boyfriend is verbally abusive when he is drunk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound like quite a minor problem but it really gets me down - my bf is lovely n kind etc and ive bin with him for over a year. but when he gets drunk he completely changes and is really nasty to me. he calls me a slut/whore etc and just basically slags me off and ... (176 words)

I suspect my partner may be cheating - again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner had an affair a year and a half ago.He acts like it was nothing..i have had serious trouble 'getting-over it'. Thing is i am convinced he is at it again...no particlar reason other than 2 main signs that were there the last time and i never realised.. HE is extra at... (69 words)

Is she just on the rebound with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My good friend of 2 years and his girlfriend, who I've been friends with for 6 months, just broke up. And now she's going out with me and he's upset about it. She broke up with him because she has a lot of issues of her own and so did he, so she couldn't cope with the s... (382 words)

They call or text a few times and then just stop. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive had enough of meeting men who I really fall for and then they dont contact me. Theres been a couple of guys over the past 2 months who Ive met whilst out with friends. At the time they seem to be really interested in me, we swap numbers and text or ring a few times. Then ... (119 words)

I have been having an online affair and I need to end it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am deeply involved in an online affair with a much younger man - Im 35 - he is 21. He thinks I am his age and unattached. He says he wants to marry me. I am married with 4 children and I want to end the online affair. It has been going on for 2 and a half years. I know I have ... (170 words)

He says he is ok with me wanting to with him or someone else. He doesnt care either way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age - I just got back with my boyfriend of two years after a month and a half break-up. Now he says that he learned that he doesn't own me so that's why he doesn't care if I was with someone else because I can do whatever I want. He says that if I want to be with him that's OK and ... (88 words)

My boyfriend doesnt show me any affection

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend says he loves me but never shows any affection to me. Could there be anything that im doing wrong?... (21 words)

I am in love with a close friend and the godfather of my children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - okay i have an issue i could really use some help with. i have been very close friends with a man for several years. back before we were all divorced, he and his wife, and me and my husband all lived together. we are godparents to each others children. i see him all the time. ... (198 words)

I am in love with my teacher. How can I get through summer holidays without him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i'm in the most awful, emotionally-depressive situation. Now as you're reading this you'll think that by my first sentence i'm over-exaggerating! But trust me, if you are or have been in a similar experience to this then you'll hopefully understand me...though, to my kn... (438 words)

My thief of a stepson wants to come stay with us for a month!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What do I do?? My step-son, he is coming to stay with us for a month as his mother is going away. I have 2 children one from my previous marriage and one with my husband and our son has special needs. My step son is out of control teenager who has in the past stolen his dad's ... (174 words)

Two exes want me back. How do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused. I have an ex who is trying to work things out even though we had a lot of drama in our realtionship of 2 years, but I still love him. The other problem is that I have two kids from my ex prior to this relationship and he wants to make it work out for the kids. I ... (63 words)

Can you get pregnant without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. well about 2 weeks ago my boifriend and i had a small encounter we didnt actually have intercourse but i feel like im experiencing signs of being pregnant can you get pregnant this way or is a very very slim chance?... (43 words)

She broke up with me because she isnt ready for a relationship. How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi my problem is that after going out with this girl for 4 weeks she has said to me that she is not ready to have a serious relationship and that it could be because of family or other reasons. she said that I would be the one if she was ready and that she still wants to be ... (105 words)

Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy? ... (13 words)

He wakes me up for unsatisfying sex - how do I approach him without him getting offended?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wakes me up in the middle of the night to have sex. He pokes me so I can wake up. He does not perform foreplay ever, and I have to get him aroused. Then I must get on top and do all the work, always. I'm really tired of this. He doesn't perform oral sex on me. When ... (89 words)

My gf broke up w/ me because I'm too overprotective. Right now she hates me, should I not text her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey! 3 weeks ago while i was on holidays my girlfriend broke up with me! we are only 15 but she was going out to a disco that night and said i didnt trust her and she said that i was too over-protective! at the moment she hates me. do you think i should just not text her at ... (67 words)

How long after my break-up would the next relationship be considered a "rebound?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I've just broken up with my girlfriend of just under 2 years. There's nobody I have my eye on as such, but if there ever were; how long after my break-up would it be considered a "rebound"? I'm told rebounds should be avoided, so how long do you think until i... (63 words)

Should I apolgize to the new guy I'm seeing for sending him a drunken message?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - Hey there, I wrote not so long ago with a dilemma in that I liked a guy who was best mates with a guy I had been seeing altho I have now stopped seeing the first one so no problems there. I am due to see the guy I like next wkd but have done something very stupid! when I g... (133 words)

What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?... (16 words)

He's getting over me by pretending like we never existed and ignoring me. But I want to talk to him and get closure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship of almost 2 years broke up only a few days ago, and naturally I'm heartbroken. I dont consider how he ended it really closure for me, I want to talk to him alone, but our friends told him not to contact me, so when I IM him online, he of course didnt respond. ... (132 words)

Guys don't like me b/c of my hair color, so how do I get the boy I'm after?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - None of the boys on my year seem to like me because I have ginger hair. I also really like this one boy. How do I get the boy I'm after?? Please help... (34 words)

My 16 year old son is very verbally abusive with me! How do I deal with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel very embarrased about having to ask for some advice on here regarding my 16 year old son. whenever he doesnt get his own way or he is in a bad mood he is becoming very verbally abusive with me, by calling me names such as dickhead and slut etc... i dont know what to do, ... (162 words)

My bf said he didn't think being with me was right. Then he changed his mind! It's messed w/ my head and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hia, i have a bad relationship problem not last thursday the thursday before my boyfriend told me he didnt know what he wanted, he didnt think being with me was right, which partially broke my heart i love him so much and i dont care how young i am it took me a year and a half ... (135 words)

I think he is cheating with his ex but have no proof.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 8 months and things were great for the first 6 months. The past 2 months he has become distant, lying and not wanting to see me, also he goes to see his kids at weekends but lies about it telling me he is working. I don't know what to do ... (109 words)

Do I take it she’s just not interested and move on; as if she was she would have been in touch right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey! Thanks for reading this, hope you can give me some advice. Ok so I posted recently how I was having trouble with my ex, she dumped me claiming she didn’t have time for a relationship, but then a few weeks later made it obvious she wanted us to start seeing each othe... (516 words)

I feel like my husband hates me. When I walk into the room disgust comes over his face.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like my husband hates me. When I walk into the room disgust comes over his face. We have been struggling financially because I was in nursing school. Since graduating I am working 2 jobs, raising 3 kids, running the paperwork end of a cleaning business. We have not had ... (99 words)

I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm losing her, it seems we can't communicate properly! HELP !!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Me and my girlfriend have been going out for the last 4 months. It has been a very passionate, deep, caring relationship, but it came with a lot of squabbles, arguments over little things. My girlfriend has the tendency to go quiet on me if I start getting vocal ab... (201 words)

Is he right for calling me selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My man admitted to me that he has second guessed our relationship because I asked that we speed up the process of us getting married so his insurance will cover my infertility treatment. He says I only think about myself Is he right for calling me selfish?... (48 words)

He keeps threatening me all the time and I don't know what to do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I've been dating my fiance for 4 and a half years and it was a bit tough first year cos we were tryng to get to know each other from different backgrounds. He is a sound engineer, I'm an artist musically. I'm really not sure what the problem is right now but lately his ... (150 words)

It's been 5 days should I leave it longer before I take a home pregnancy test?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How long should I leave it before I take a home pregnancy test. Me and my boyfriend used protection but the condom split. It's been 5 days should I leave it longer?... (34 words)

I keep dreaming that my ex husband is being emotionally cruel to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex husband was very emotionally cruel and sometimes physically. I was with him for a long time and have been seperated from him for 3 months and not seen him at all in this time. I am determined never to go back this time but the thing now is that I am sometimes having ... (84 words)

What is the correct way to give a guy a hand job and more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am very inexperienced and have a few little questions... How do you go about giving a guy a head job? Like how do you get started? What do you do first? Do you start by giving him a hand job? Usually how long does it take for him to get an erection? Do you give him ... (94 words)

Is it true that even psychologists abuse their patients/clients for the sake of making their own credit rise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Is it true that even psychologists abuse their patients/clients for the sake of making their own credit rise? IS it possible to trust anyone for that matter in this world?... (30 words)

How can I last longe in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm with a new a new girlfriend and have started to suffer from premature ejaculation... it is really gettin me down.. How can I fix this?... (26 words)

I'm having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend, how can I move on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend. We broke up over 15 months ago. I've dated a only few (less than 3) girls, but no-one compares to her. She recently met a guy and I know she's dating him, but I can stand it. How could I let her go? I still love her and I ... (137 words)

Is my relationship over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Is my relationship over? My girlfriend of 10 years has gone away for a few days to spend time with friends and family. Since she left I've had unexpected feelings. For the first few days I felt a sense of relief, and really enjoyed having our home to myself. Aft... (163 words)

He feels that I have so much more to experience in my life and if I ended up with him I would leave him when I grow older... he feels he is too old for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy who is engaged. We met about a year ago, and over time we have become so close, we started off being great friends but it just went too far... now we are so in love, we have everything in common and have not once been sick of each other, we cry to each ... (263 words)

She called her boyfriend by MY name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I sorta found out that my really close friend called her boyffiend my name by accident I believe. We have been friends, even before they met. We're really close and she has told me that they have talked about me, and that he knows we're really close but I feel bad about ... (74 words)

How can I let me friend see he's no good for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best mate is with a really bad guy, he lies to her, he over reacts, he plays to the fact she is sweet and feels guilty easly to get his way. We can all see how bad he is for her but she can't or won't. I really hate seeing her this upset it's destroyed her, she used to be ... (82 words)

How can I find out whether he loves me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know how would I know if someone loves me? I broke from my fiance a year ago and now I see him regularly but each time he sees me he just runs away. we were on bad terms when we broke but now I have feelings for him and I want to know if he loves me or not. How would ... (70 words)

I didn't want to tell her and throw it in her face so to speak...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I have started to see my ex girlfriend again. We had talked before on the phone and have asked different questions about what we have been doing. I had told her that I went on a trip to see fire works. She asked who I had went with and I had lied about who I took. ... (138 words)

I still can’t seem to let go of the fact that the man I truly loved and gave my whole entire life and being to and made future plans and left me for the mother of his unborn child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I still can’t seem to let go of the fact that the man I truly loved and gave my whole entire life and being to and made future plans and left me for the mother of his unborn child. I keep wondering whether this child really is his or whether she just didn’t tell him about it ... (225 words)

How long should I wait for an answer? Should I just move on? Is there a way to ask for his answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We broke up three weeks ago. When we broke up he said he didn't have the same feelings for me that he used to. A lot of the reason we broke up had to do with my excessive calling, my clingy tendencies and my arguing. After the ... (253 words)

I want to end it with her, but I'm not sure I could forgive myself for breaking her heart!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

17 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years. She absolutely adores me and would do anything for me. I love her, she is such a wonderful person. However, over the last year I've found myself less attracted to her and wanting to see what its like to be with someone else. Sh... (236 words)

How, if I cant even get a tampon in, am I supposed to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Im 15 and have a super huge problem with the whole tampon thing. I never knew how bad they hurt; so i just let my mom put it in and dear lord it hurt like hell. I went and threw up because I was so shocked and scared. I couldnt get it out and started freaking out, so my sister ... (262 words)

After the lease is up, my bf wants us to continue living with his chauvinistic friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do? My boyfriend has all really wonderful friends but one. One of his closest friends has little respect for women and thinks that his %$#! doesn't stink. People just seem to be drawn to this guy, but I don't think that he is a good influence on my man at all. He ... (231 words)

When's the best time to have children? During college or after?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been with my boyfriend for 2yrs and we plan on getting married in the future. we also plan on having kids. but the problem is. i dont know when is the right time to have kids?? during college? or after?... (42 words)

What do you do when you're boyfriend is impossible to keep aroused??

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so i'll make this straight to the point, when me and my boyfriend fool around he only gets turned on when he's pleasing me. If I just want to concentrate on him he cant stay hard...it's as if he's not touching me and trying to get me off, he isn't interested in sex at all. He ... (161 words)

My bf said he liked another girl that goes to his school! I trust him, but not her. What can I do?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my boyfriend told me the other night that he liked this girl and im going to 9th grade but he has to stay in 8th grade with her so we will be in 2 differant schools and im afraid that they will go out while im not being able to see him im mean i think i trust him but i ... (71 words)

Her family has a history of divorce and she's slept with over a dozen people! Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?

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17 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a great girl for 6 month. We get along quite well and are getting more serious. I am having reservations however. Both her mother and father have been married 3 times a piece, and her brother and sister are both separated from their spouses. I know I ... (146 words)

Why are my ears ringing?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I hear something in my ear, its like a ringing noise. It goes on and off. What should I do? Could it be a bug?... (25 words)

My guy is almost perfect...except he still hasn't divorced his wife! Am I wasting my time?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my guy have lived together for 8 years and he is almost the perfect guy he supports me and my children, we have never spent the night apart if he is not working we are spending time together.My problem is that he has not divorced his wife am I just wasting my time? ... (55 words)

My crush says he likes me like a sister! Is he saying that because I've already got a bf?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this crush. I have my own dancing group and I'm the leader. He is from the other dancing group and he's the leader. We're the choreographers of our own group. And we always see each other in the battle dances. I really like him. When our groups need to study in far ... (255 words)

He abused me! ...or did he? Also, I've cheated on him, but he wants me back!

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - During my first five years of my realationship my husband kicked in the side of my car once when he was mad and grabbed me and held me by my throat once when he was pissed off at me. Is this abuse if these things only happened once in five years? Should I believe that he is ... (106 words)

I slapped my bf and he kicked me out! Any advice on how to make him reconsider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of just over three years and I had a fight. I slapped him and he threw me out and told me it was over. Any advice on how to make him reconsider? ... (36 words)

He only sees me as a friend, but I feel by having sex with him I can keep him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been close friends with this lad for about 18 months and have always been sexually attracted to him and we have always had a sexual tension between us. The night of my 21st birthday I slept with him (obviously I was very drunk!)and slept with him a couple of times (u... (221 words)

The woman my ex-husband cheated with got pregnant so he left me. But the child is not his! I got remarried but still love him.

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - OK Check this out!!!I was married to my first love from highschool and we had 2 kids together and we both had a child from previous relationships.After being together for eight years he cheated on me,and the woman became pregnant, even though he cheated i forgave him,yet hated ... (131 words)

I panic before a first date and cancel - how do I stop this behavior?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 year old virgin, and I never had a problem with this as I was happy with myself. Now though I am getting lonely and want a boyfriend, however I am so nervous and unexperianced I normally panic and end up not even going out with them on the first date. I have a new boy ... (82 words)

Should I be jealous if my partner kisses someone else as part of an acting class?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is interesting in acting classes. I'm concerned because part of these classes will have him kissing other women and acting in various passionate scenes with them. Should I be jealous? ... (32 words)

How can I get over bad past relationships and not let them affect new ones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay.. I don't really know how to put this. I'm just really messed up right now. I was with this guy two years ago I loved him more than anything and I gave him my heart only to have it thrown back in my face. Now ever since him I have had two relationships the first ... (232 words)

Should I try to talk to him about the little white lies?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just started dating this guy and when we were talking about honesty, he mentioned that he has told 'little white lies' in the past. I agree with him that everyone does it from time to time, but I don't know how to feel! I don't know whether to appreciate his honesty ... (129 words)

I felt there was something he was hiding from me so I broke up. Was it right?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age - I've been with my boyfriend since Feb. We met online. We are very compatible and have so much fun. We both have been married twice and have kids from both marriages. He's 47 and I'm 48. We are both attractive with many previous relationship experiences. We both have said we're ... (599 words)

Could sharing lotions be a danger to your health?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Could you get diseases by sharing creams, or lotions if the person has contact with blood on their face or hands?... (21 words)

We broke up 5 months ago. Should I try to straighten things out with her?

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17 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - its been 5 months since me and my girlfriend broke up. it was a pretty bad breakup and i havnt seen her or talked to her since. she now has a facebook account and i dont know if i should try to talk to her and try to straighten things out between us. im having trouble letting ... (106 words)

Should I find a better man?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married 15 months - I am attractive and have a very healthy sexual appetite. I am attracted to my husband but he just isnt interested.Its devastating as I am 30 and just feel sex is so important to a relationship and is making me feel v distant to him and making me ... (123 words)

we used protection, but my period is overdue. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone.Around 3 months ago i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time.Everthing was ok and we used protection and stuff but i still haven't got my period yet and am having loads of pregnancy symptoms.Its soo strange though because i've taken 2 pregnancy tests and they ... (86 words)

How long is it decent to wait until you make a move on someone that has just broken up?

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17 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How long do i wait untill i make the move? this guy has just broken up with someone but how long do i wait to make my move? please help xxxx... (36 words)