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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He says he can't imagine life without me but that he also thinks we should be apart; he's confused and confusing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do anymore, I need some advice on how to deal with my boyfriend. Unfortunately I think I know what I should be doing, but if anyone can give me any other advice, I'd love to hear it. Here's the deal ... My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years no... (515 words)

I never feel huge amounts of pleasure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - How Can I Reach Maximum Pleasure When I Masturbate? Hey Peepalz. I'm 13 and whenever I masurbate I never really feel huge ammounts of pleasure. How can I?... (31 words)

Have i done the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for the last six months on a free relationship basis. Since the beginning he told me he didn't want a serious relationship. I thought I could handle it, but when he didn't call for a week or so and then he suddenly appeared it bothered me. We went ... (140 words)

Do you think we will end up together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) age 16-17 - I am 16 . I have liked a guy who I only shared 1 class with for 2 years. We are both extremely shy but I got the feeling that he like me e.g. His friends would let him know when I entered a room or he would show off infron of me and things like that. One day I made long eye ... (542 words)

I've just been dumped.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Earlier today I was dumped. I cried histarically for some time. So now I feel really drained and pathetic. Does anyone have any advise? any would be appreciated. Thanks a million, xx... (36 words)

I can't help thing he's cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - been with this guy for 11 months now, i do love him, i known him 2 years.. at about 5months together, he rang me one night while he was out, crying about how a girl just "kissed him" but he pushed her away. but i cant stop thinkin bout what he was doing to make a girl think he ... (137 words)

iI think he is out of my league and i'm scared he will cheat.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - I separated from my husband 2 yrs ago after being in a dead realtionship for a number of yrs. Right now I'm saving up to file for divorce, while giving my spouse time to adjust to life without me. Last year I met a wonderful man, a few years older than me. He has three ... (365 words)

Do they have "chavs" in America?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

- In britain we have an unfortunate race of people known as chavs. A chav is some one who: wears a baseball cap, wears a tracksuit (notably adidas), drives a cheap awful hatchback (citroen saxo usually) with a gigantic exhaust and the back. And they also act like they're 8ft... (65 words)

He showed their sex tape at a party.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - So i have been dating my gf for about 6 9 months and it's all going great except for the fact she sometimes talks to her ex's.. she doesn't call them they call her but she is to nice not to pick up.. the one that really upsets me and i don't want her to talk to is one t... (146 words)

I guess I'm looking for a little reassurance does this guy like me... I'm confused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ok I've been seeing this guy alomst 5 months. its been a bit of a strange one. we have talked almost everyday,since we met, we've seen each other as much as we can (he lives some miles from me) and its him doing the travelling. he has said he needs time and wants to take things ... (194 words)

I'm not sure if he is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been married for a little over a year, my husband and I fight constantly. I think he is cheating but I am not sure. I found a few phone numbers but nothing that confirms he has dated or had sex with another women. He has outside children and constantly lies about hi... (122 words)

He kissed someone else by mistake.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Boyfriend of 3 years kissed a coworker by mistake i want him back he dont want to be with her and he dont feel the same about the relationship he dont think we can get back what we had HELP!!!... (40 words)

Is ten years too big a difference?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - There is 10 years difference between myself and my girlfriend. She is 47 and I'm 37. She has been married and divorced but has no kids. I'm not sure if I still want kids. I do care for her and enjoy being with her, but don't know if 10 years is too big a differen... (85 words)

Update..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - This is an update to a question I asked about 6 months ago... I was worried about pushing my boyfriend away. He was a great guy, but I had past baggage issues!! Thanks to the great advice from some great agony aunts (and uncles! :P ), I made it through that fear. I talked ... (148 words)

We ahve to children and i have just found out he cheated on me in my last pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ive been with my fiance for 6yrs and we have two kids 2getha. During my last pregnancy there were rumours going around that he'd cheated on me with a girl from our local,he admitted to cheating but it not been her. He has just confessed to me that it was her and it went on ... (68 words)

His parent's think he can do better, so he split up with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - A little over 3 months ago, i cheated on my boyfriend of almost 2 years. i made a really really bad choice, lied about it (which made it way worse), and there is no excuse. at the time, i was facing alot of personal issues and was really confused and sought alcohol and the ... (472 words)

I have no idea how to give my boyfriend oral, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 6 months now and we're talking about doing more not as far as sex yet but he does want me to give him a blow job. im fine with that i totally love him and trust him so i'm fine with it...im just scared i have no idea what to do! ... (68 words)

Girls don't seem to be interested in me, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hey, i'm 15 and no girls ever seem to be interested in me. i've been told im fairly good looking and have a good personality, so wat am i doing wrong?? ... (31 words)

I have an undiagnosed mental health problem and my partner says he doesn't love me any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, I don't know who to turn to. My partner of 12 years told me a week ago that he no longer loves me and has been feeling this way for months. The reason he gave is that I have been suffering from an undiagnosed mental illness and won't tallk about it and I have ... (197 words)

I can't decide if I want to be with him, or be single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have posted a problem on this page once before and last time it proved quite helpful so I thought I'd try again. Last time I wrote that I hated cheaters but I turned into one and was debating whether to tell my boyfriend. I decided i would. I told him 2 days after i had done... (236 words)

I'm doubting my boyfriend's heterosexuality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I am doubting his sexuality. From the first day I met him I thought he was gay but he was determined to make me think otherwise. He states he actually hates homosexual activity but I find he has more than enough homosexual ... (148 words)

Is he still a virgin if he has only ever had sex with a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Well this is not a question about me but it is about a lot of others OK if a gay man has been gay his whole life and never had sex with a woman but a man , technically wouldn't he still be a virgin?... (48 words)

Still a virgin at 25!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello. I am almost 25 years old and still a virgin. I went to 2 boys schools as a child, so up until I left school at around 18, I hadn't had much contact with girls as I was very shy and introverted. Subsequently I spent 4 years at University and although there were girls... (162 words)

He set me up to catch me snooping.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Until two weeks ago, I had been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Over the last 6 months, I have had some major trust issues with our relationship. I had been finding some emails and texts to other girls that were questionable, so I asked him about them. He blew ... (339 words)

He keeps lying to me, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend always fight. He spends all his time at home, with me or at work. But I only get to see him 2 or 3 days a week. He lies a lot. And about stupid things. But not it's getting worse. He's lying to me about giving and getting other girl's numbers, talking to ... (160 words)

They told me my boyfriend was dead, and it was a joke.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello there... Okay...I have several problems really. The first one is this: Yesterday, my "friend" and two of her friends played a very sick joke on me, and let me tell you, I am so glad that I only believed them for a split-second. The joke was basically telling me my... (425 words)

17 and 27, is that a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 17 and I've just started to get involved with this guy who is 27, is this wrong?... (18 words)

I want to get over my online affair.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over my online 'friend'? I'll try to keep a long story short. I have been with my husband for 11 years (married for 2). Two/three years after we got together I met one of his old friends. I fell for him straight away, and we started talking online regularly... (266 words)

Shall i give him another chance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I need advice. I have just split up with my fiance as he has kissed another girl. i dumped him once before because of the same thing. However, he promised that he could make me trust him and we got back together. Since then, I have never really trusted him completely and s... (194 words)

Is it easier the second time round.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a baby 3 1/2 months ago. I had a very tough labor. I was induced, and it didn't work, but the hospital staff refused to break my water until the 2nd day I was there. I had really bad nurses who seemed very inexperienced. I was in labor 40 hrs. Everything seemed to go very... (165 words)

I found out he cheated on me, so now i check his phone and emails.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 and half years. i recently found out that he cheated on me in the first year we went out whilst out with friends. i felt really hurt by this and he didnt understand why as it was so long ago. but i feel like i cant trust him anymore and im ... (83 words)

Guy's only hit on me when they are drunk.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Do guys get put off by really quiet shy girls? I'm very quiet and shy (maybe a little bit uptight as well) but I'm not moody or anything just haven't got much confidence in myself etc and guys only seem to chat to me / hit on me when they're drunk. I get the feeling some... (105 words)

Getting mixed signals.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok i need some advice, im not very confident around guys i like, never have been and prob never will be. I like this guy, i think he likes me, i see him a fair bit but I don't know how to take things further. I don't wanna blatantly say I fancy u incase he isin't intereste... (97 words)

We are both 16, and we want a baby.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Me (16 in 5 days) and my boyfriend (16) really want to have sex and have a baby, we have had safe sex and now want the real thing, but we are both are in the middle of some A levels. we have our own flat together so it is not like any of our parents can see us but neither of ... (116 words)

Topless pic of his ex, on his mobile.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ive been with my bf for a while now and we are just in the process of buying a house. I have a few trust issues in general with everyone. He has a bit of a past which everyone does but i went through his mobile knowing that he in the past has done it to me. I found a pict... (95 words)

How can I stop being so angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Few weeks ago split from a yr long r.ship. We are in our 30's. He had only just split with someone when we met. She caused him a few probs but after couple of months we heard no more. Or so i thought. I didnt ever feel i could trust this guy but my daughter adored his daughter ... (344 words)

Whats the difference of being in love and just loving someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - what are the definate signs that you love someone. and what are the signs that you are in love with someone, i ask b/c i dont know if i simply love him or if i am in love with him and i dont want to hurt him.... (47 words)

Trust broken again with on-line chat

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age - Trust broken again with on-line chat. My partner of 2.5 years has a problem. He's addicted to the internet, chat rooms, e-mails,etc. I discovered this last year when I found very sexual messages he saved from people he was communicating with on-line. He thought it wasn'... (338 words)

I hate my GF's past, Im feeling I should do similarly bad things so I'm not so superior to her, will this work!?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My current girlfriend and I are both college graduates and young professionals in our mid-twenties. We have been together for just over six months. Our romance was nearly perfect for the first two and a half months and I was convinced that "she was the one." As we got closer, ... (323 words)

Five year old girl masturbating, is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay or normal for a 5 year old girl to masturbate, I see her in her bed humping at night and wanted to know how to handle? Thank you.... (32 words)

How can I best overcome these issues and stop it damaging our relationship!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

- I hate two things: 1. Pornography (and men leering)– it makes me feel sick. If my partner wants to watch something on tv etc which falls into this category it makes me angry. He also likes me telling him stories about my past and I dont like it. He has a problem with his erec... (439 words)

We got back together, first I wasnt sexually attracted to her, now its her with me! Help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Really hope people will take the time to read this. My girlfriend and i have been back together for about 3 months. We have a lot of history together including our son who is nearly 7. We tried at the relationship last year and to cut a long story short i couldnt get my sexual ... (225 words)

Is there any way a physical and abusive husband can ever change ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! i would like to know if there is any possibility that a verbally wrong/abusive and psysically abusive/bully husband can become 'normal' with time? (he does not drink, no drugs). if so, how long can this 'transformation' take? how can one go about it if there is no c... (257 words)

I cant get him interested in sex, I've cheated twice! Now what!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend/partner for nearly 6 years and we have lived together for the last 4. I am a highly sexually charged person and for the first year or so our love making was very good (I have had better in the past but the mental connection was st... (404 words)

She's got an Std, but isnt going to tell her boyfriend!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who has herpes. She got herpes when she began to have unprotected sex with her fiancee who didn't deem it necessary to tell her that HE had the disease. Needless to say, they are no longer engaged, but she does have this life long disease! (A cautionary tale... (284 words)

It won't go in...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins. When me and my Gf tried having sex, my penis just wouldn't go in. Can anyone help me out here?... (29 words)

Brother's new girlfriend is expecting, should I tell my ex sister in law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! My brother cheated on his wife. She found out, patched it up, but made his life unbearable. He left and went back to the other women 9 months ago. We didn't know until he announced they were having a baby due now! My brother and ex-wife don't need to see each oth... (173 words)

Help, for adding personal details.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Andrew! I have been all over the place many times, and just can't find the place to click in order to fill in my personal details, like who I am and why I like to help out.. Can you please enlighten me, so sorry, but my eyes must be cloudy this week! Love yours,... (65 words)

I want a confidence boost in order to find a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm pretty shy around people i don't know and i think i have a bit of a low self esteem...guys are never really interested in me and now i just assume they won't be and are out of my legue anyway. im tall, blonde hair, hazel eyes and really sporty...what am i doing wrong...how ... (74 words)

Can you sleep with a boy that's under aged without getting into trouble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I know that if a guy is over 16 and a girl isn't if they have sex the guy can get into huge trouble with the police if they get caught. What happens if it is vice versa (the girl is over 16 and the guy isn't?)... (48 words)

He abused me, he lives next door and is now tormenting me with new girlfriends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just come out of an 18 month relationship with a guy 10 yrs younger than me, he used and abused (verbally) me throughout but i kept going back (and still would). I cannot get him out of my system (maybe because he lives next door), but last weekend he had some woma... (203 words)

It did not work in the past, so why should it work now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - So a girl I went out with a few times in college, about 5 years ago, (we went out on a few dates but really didnt work out and no hard feelings afterward) and was somewhat friends a little while thereafter the few dates we went on...emailed me out of the blue. When we went out ... (225 words)

Awkward situation or player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Can a guy really like 2 girls at the same time? I met a guy i know through my ex partner one night in a club, he was out with friends and a girl who he had agreed to meet that night (she had a boyfriend at home). We ended up kissing and he offered to walk me to the taxi, ... (310 words)

My boyfriend think's he is Brad Pitt, and chats all the girls up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 7 months and I cannot agree about what is acceptable behaviour when socialising with friends. I have no problem with my boyfriend meeting with his friends for a drink at the local but feel that going out every couple of weeks to a night-club (lad'... (211 words)

How can you tell if he's a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - how can you tell if a guy is a virgin... (10 words)

Advice please on oral sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - what is oral sex, how is it done.can someone get pregnant after oral sex or get infected with hiv... (19 words)

Some guy has just informed me, my girlfriend is his girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Please i have a girlfriend whom i know for long time ..we were friends, then we went to the same college and now we are in relationship for about 8 months now But One day, some guy came to my office to tell me that the girl i love is his girlfriend....and i was getting ma... (74 words)

He has not mentioned me on his myspace account.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all I would really appreciate your opinion. I have been with my guy for nearly 6 years. About 2 months ago we split after a huge row. (we started to talk not long after)I went on holiday for 2 weeks. We love eachother very much. We text everyday (mainly ... (367 words)

He wont talk to me when my cousins are around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - why won't my bf talk to me when my cuzins are around, any advice for me!!!... (17 words)

Is there any way to stop viginal farts during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - During sex is there a way to stop those embarrasing " vaginal farts " ?... (17 words)

I love my girlfriend but i can't stop thinking about my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a GF, and my best friend who is a girl we shared a hug and there was this moment when i forgot my GF and being with my best friend seemed perfect. What should i do?, i love my GF but now i am constantly thinking about my best friend in a romantic way what should i do?... (60 words)

My girlfriend still texts her ex, what should i do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend is still texting her ex. It really irritates me. What should I do? Should I give her an ultimatum?... (21 words)

When is it time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep going round in circles and need help in knowing when 'enough is enough' in a relationship. I have been with the same guy for 12 years and I am not happy - the things that make me unhappy are not always dramatic things but they are persistent, every day and I find myself ... (112 words)

I want to do things with him but not land him in jail!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - All right, so my boyfriend is eighteen, (as of April)and I am fourteen, fifteen in November. I haven't been with him very long, but I swear I love him, so please don't even say that "I don't even know what love is", because you're wrong. I believe he loves me too, and I'm not ... (232 words)

My boyfriend and I fight constantly... about everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I, fight constantly! It's about everything. No matter what I do, we must talk about it. When he does something wrong, we aren't allowed to talk about it. He gets mad at me for yelling at him at the big things he does, but he yells at me for stupid little ... (69 words)

He doesn't want me sexually... could it be my weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband is 35 years old im 50. how can i get him to want me sexually? im 5"3 and weigh 190 lbs. could it be my weight?... (29 words)

Did my girlfriend go on a "date" with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf was out of town and went out to dinner, then to a bar and then to a movie with a male coworker her age and single. Is this a date? hint: they have partied before... (40 words)

Sweet 16 and never been kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 16 years old and have never kissed a boy or anything... 16!!! All my friends always have a bf and have so much fun and luv with them... I am ready to have a relationship and am ready to have sex when i find the right bf. i am so lonely how do i go about finding a good ... (92 words)

An old GF wants to get together. Should I take a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M)

My ex always starts calling me when i start seeing someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago we have a child, he cheats but always calls me when he knows i'm dating someone but nothing serious so he says he wants to work it out if i dont date this person anymore or he'll keep going out and having fun what should i do?... (56 words)

I'm dating a widower of 2 years 5 months... but is he ready for a new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been dating a 40 yr old widower of 2 years for 5 months. he still has his wife's clothes in the closet , jewelry on the bathroom counter, pictures next to the bed and wears his wedding ring......do you think he's really ready to be in a relationship?... (49 words)

I am having such a hard time after our breakup!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, longest story ever, but i feel myslef just falling into depression need some help..... My boyf and i broke up 2 days ago, for religous differences. He suddenly felt that we have been kidding ourselves, nobody would accept us and, if acceptance meant conversion on hi... (365 words)

Even though we havent had intercourse, could I get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi ppl. i got my bf to put this on at 3am in the mornin coz i am reli worried i may be pregnant. we havent had full intercourse but i am worried the lil tadpoles as i call em, well the sperm can get me pregnant, im too young n he wnt buy any contraceptive pills coz hes to ... (148 words)

Why do these "average joe's" do this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I am a 23 year old female. I recently had an incident happen to me that I would absolutely love some advice about. First, I've never had a bf. No, I'm not some hideous monster. I'm actually quite cute, long blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, athletic built. Once my ... (1487 words)

Why has he stopped answering my calls and emails?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - An old boyfriend called in January. He lives 4 hours away. He called and emailed daily for months. We saw each other in February, and he continued to call/write. In April, he stopped calling and rarely emailed. I would call periodically and continued to email. Three weeks ha... (110 words)

I dont believe in giving cheaters second chances, but I kind of want to with him

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25 July 2007 (F)

- okay well firstly i have quite a harsh perspective of realationships if someone ceats on me then its over with them offcourse it takes time for me to get over them but i can. if someone ceats on me with a mate of mine then i get make out with them or anythign sexual even if i ... (449 words)

We haven't had sex. I love him but I'm not sure I feel any lust for him... How do I feel lust?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - This may sound weird, but my boyfriend and I are in love and I love being with him, he makes me happy, I make him happy. We cuddle, snuggle, kiss and hug. BUT we haven't had s*x yet. We have a great relationship, but how do I bring lust into it? I don't feel that I'm ready to ... (186 words)

After telling my boyfriend about my workday he said it was long and boring, which hurts; doesn't he like talking with me?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, So I had a really wierd day at work today and I wanted to tell my boyfriend all about it, well after I was done telling him he seemed really irritated and told me that the story was too detailed, long and boring, Well of course that hurt my feelings, because he tells me ... (100 words)

I had unprotected sex twice, what are the chances I might be pregnant?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I stupidly had unprotected sex twice when I was ovulatating, two weeks ago and I'm due my preiod next week. I'm 17 I just wondered what the likliness is that I could be pregnant? and how long would I have to wait to find out for sure? I wont be taking any chances again, ... (57 words)

My best friend tells me she doesn't like my boyfriend but flirts with him when I'm not there, what should I do?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - what do i do if my best friend says she dont like my boyfriend but behind my back she flirts with him ... (22 words)

My boyfriend said 'hey baby' affectionately on the phone to a female co-worker and when I called him on it, said I was just jealous

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and we have a 7 month old son. Just yesterday he called a female that he worked with to sort out a scheduling conflict. I was thumbing through a magazine when he says, "Hey Baby!" I looked up because I thought he was talking ... (195 words)

Sometimes I feel unattractive and stupid during sex; how can I feel more confident?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - How can I be more relaxed and confident when I'm having sex? Sometimes during sex I just feel really stupid with what I'm doing even though I like it and sometimes I feel very unattractive. how can I just "let go"?... (41 words)

My girlfriend is an angel but thinks she's worthless, how can I make her see what I see?

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25 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - my girlfriend iv been seeing for 6 months and known a year is wonderful, shes beautiful, funny, clever, and so caring to everyone even people she doesnt kno, and i love her very much. only problem is she has no self esteem and thinks shes useless, worthless, ugly and stupid. ... (187 words)

I worry I might be being played again; do all men act this way after their first sexual contact with a person?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What goes on in a man's head when he's had some sort of sexual contact with his girlfriend for the first time, whether it's oral sex or full sex? I've always regretted splitting up with my first love as he is the only one who has bolted after having sex. The second one I ... (293 words)

I'm trying to get over the fact that he cheated but when I think about having sex with him again, all I can think about is what he did

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i sleep w/my bf again after he cheated??? i found out that my bf of 2 yrs cheated on me 2 weeks ago. i've known for exactly one week now...and i've decided to work things out w/him. he was on tour and it was someone from his past....which doesn't in ANY way justify ... (318 words)

Should I become a bit more physical with him in the hope of drawing a commitment from him?

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25 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi im 16 and i have a male friend whose 18. We used to talk a lot and we even made out, but then he just wanted to be friends because he didnt want to hurt me and after a while he stopped texting me. I finally managed to get him to talk to me, he said that the reason he stopped ... (149 words)