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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am a bit perturbed by the fact that she chose to share a flat with one her mates and another guy (male). Am I being petty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 years now, due to various reasons we cant quite cohabit now, and she needs to move into the city where I live coz she has to finish off her last credits at UNI (where she lived on Uni campus for the past 4 years). I am a ... (114 words)

When we go to high school should I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a crush on a guy for a long time now, I was going to ask him out when we leave our school because he will be in the same house colour as me in high school but I'm now heart broken when I found out he is going out with a year 5 girl! I'm wondering though when we go to ... (101 words)

Isn't this fraud?????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out off a work colleague of my husband's that he and his friends at work have been raising money for a non-existent employee who has lung cancer in order to fund a trip to Las Vegas to see showgirls and prostitutes. The "colleague" was actually a manager of his, he said ... (142 words)

Why do I keep thinking about this man when I have been with my husband for 25 years???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Hello, please can someone help me. I'm a forty year old mother of three lovely children aged 3,5 and 10. I've been married for almost 15 years and met my husband at university and we've been together for 20 years. Prior to meeting my husband I had one other relationship with a ... (341 words)

I really like him and was going to tell him when we all meet up this Friday but he's asked someone else out, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I have this friend who I flirt with lots and he does it back to me. I realy liked him and was planning on telling him this Friday when we are meeting up. However when I logged on to MSN I have found that he is going out with another girl in my form who he has never ... (168 words)

Should one end a relationship with old boyfriends, to make a new life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a fiancé, and she has had a fair amount of relationships. She still emails and talks to two of them. One she went out with for 7 years, the other one for one summer. It makes me real jealous to know she does it, she doesn’t tell me when she does, but she tells me she ... (106 words)

I have seen my 7 year old daughter masturbating, can she even have an orgasm at that age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have seen my 7 year old daughter masturbating, I have not approached her about it, thinking that it is normal for her to explore herself. My question is, not trying to sound totally stupid, is she even able to orgasm at that age, and does she get "wet", I don't want her to be ... (62 words)

A part of me wants full disclosure about her prior relationships but I don't how to approach it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

11 July 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with a great woman for the past two years. We're both in our early 30's. Having been in several relationships, I know she is the one for me. We are compatible in so many ways. We spend a lot nights together staying either at my place or hers. W... (401 words)

What can I do to help myself relax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years but when he goes out without me, I worry that he will meet someone else. I know that he wouldn't do anything but I just can't relax. Recently he has made excuses to go out with other people instead of me!! What can I do to ... (61 words)

Sometimes after I eat food I just have to go to the toilet. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes after I eat food I just have to go to the toilet. When I have to go to the toilet after I eat my meal, does that mean I poop everything out of what I ate? I don't take laxatives.... (41 words)

My husband has been suffering from depression and it's affecting both of us badly.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone out there help me please! Hi this may be a long one and I apologise for that, I am a married woman with two daughters who are now grown up, they are my whole world and I love them so much. I love my husband to bits and have stood by him through thick and thin l... (368 words)

I am addicted to masturbation and its getting worse.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am addicted to masturbation and its getting worse. Somedays I can masturbate up to 4 times aday but now I have a girlfriend I am still looking at porn and it is getting out of control. I have been doing it since I was 13. I find it relaxing but how can I stop. I have tried ... (84 words)

My ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend contacted me yesterday through myspace. She asked me if her boyfriend (my ex) cheated on her with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend contacted me yesterday through myspace. She asked me if her boyfriend (my ex) cheated on her with me (which he did, but in the 1st couple months). I have NO idea who she is, nor have I met her before, but she obviously knows who I am and ... (122 words)

Do I break my fiancee's heart and ask him to move out, desperately try to find a way to pay for it, and tell my ex that we can once again be together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with my ex-boyfriend and I know he loves me back, but I am engaged to another man. My ex and I met a couple years ago and dated for nearly a year and a half. He moved to another city after he finished college and I started working. At the time it didn't s... (279 words)

Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years. Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me, he now thinks that I never loved him at all and that it was all a lie but it was not. I love this boy so much and want him back in ... (71 words)

Is 30 minutes of exercise in the morning enough to lose weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is 30 minutes of exercise in the morning enough to lose weight? I just do aerobic, should I try incorporating weight lifting, if so, how many minutes of weight lifting is needed?... (35 words)

How can I sort my life out? It's such a mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my problem started at the age of 4, I am now 15. At the age of 4 Ii was sexually abused, my mam didn't have a clue as she was busy planning her wedding to my step-father who was on heroin at the time, they are now divorced. Well, at the age of 7 I was told what rape was ... (776 words)

What do I do if a friend decides that she wants more than friends? I don't!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm worried that maybe I'm screwed. What do I do if a friend (that's a girl and I'm a boy) decides that she wants more than friends? I don't, otherwise I wouldn't be asking. we are very close friends. I am a very sensitive and affectionate guy and she seems t... (193 words)

What can I do for her to make her see I'm so sorry for lying to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have done something to break the trust I had with my girlfriend, I lied about something from the start of the relationship which was important. I love her to bits and it's easy to tell her I wouldn't lie to her again and it would be different but she doesn't believe me, which ... (94 words)

I really want to have a future with him, but am not quite sure whether it's plausable. Should I discuss it with him, if so how should I approach the subject?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

- hey, I've been chatting to this boy for about a month now, and about a week ago, we went out on a date together. We spent the whole night kissing and have since been out again, and arranged to go out again. Everything seems to be going really well, he's an amazing kisser, ... (142 words)

Why does she want to get so close to me all the time? She's also female and a work colleague.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 22 year old straight female and I think a colleague may have some feeings for me. She's 50 and married but very attractive and she is always looking at me. When she talks to me she stands so close, if I'm reading something she will lean right up against me so her whole ... (107 words)

His best friend says that if I was more touchy-feely then he would get on with me again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am totally in love with this boy, and have liked him since september 2006. We used to get on so well, and now he will not talk to me, unless he wants fags, money or a new song for his phone. He rings me all the time, but it is just for sex, even though we have not had sex ... (151 words)

Men either try and use me and use sweet talking techniques or they say they want a relationship and then tell me a few weeks down the line that they actually just want fun.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - My problem is a mixture and a build up of emotions and things that have happened in my life that I've not been able to come to terms with, I've tried my hardest over the years to forget the past but it's easier said than done, other things bad that happen just add to the ... (167 words)

I really like him but I'm not sure if he likes me back. What can I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy at school. He definitely knows because one of my most trusted friends told him without my consent. I'm confused by the way he acts. Before she told him he was always looking at me and hanging near me and my friends. Now though, he still looks at me now ... (173 words)

He always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy friend who is also my baby father who always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight. Should I just let him go?... (45 words)

I have a problem, the boy I like doesn't notice me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I have a problem, the boy I like doesn't notice me, what can I do and please give me good tips, I really need them fast and if you's have a problem just tell me and I can help you if you help me, I really need good tips and it's not a joke if you think it is. Okay please ... (72 words)

What else can I say to him apart from "Hi, how are you, have a nice day"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice (he is always on my mind) Let me start by saying I am SO SORRY this is a long one. So I met this guy back in college (my freshman year) and there was an attraction between us, but we just never seemed to find the right place or time for anything to happen. ... (806 words)

Is there hope of saving this? Should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a woman online 4 months ago. Our relationship was almost instant. It was very intense and we both felt like we were falling in love. After two months we met face to face and it was great for me but okay for her. A month later we met again. It was great for both of us. H... (253 words)

How can I talk to her without all these feelings returning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, well here goes, hoping for some sound advice to lead me in the right direction. Will try and keep this as short as possible... My best friend for the past 5 years is/was a work colleague called Julie. I'm married, she's in a long term relationship. I've always thought ... (385 words)

I want to be able to help my wife more, she's been very stressed at work and has had a lot of work to bring home and do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I want to be able to help my wife more, she's been very stressed at work and has had a lot of work to bring home and do. She's really tired and it's just getting too much for her up to the point where she's nearly crying because she's really worn out. Anyway she's a teacher ... (208 words)

I'm going to a funeral - what should I wear and what flowers should I send?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

- I am going to a funeral next week. I have not been to many of them(lucky me). I would like some tips on two things. What to wear and what type of flowers to send. There are internet sites with this info but it is nice to get more personal pointers.... (51 words)

I don't seem to find any girls or guys attractive! What's wrong with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey! ok,well iv just split up from my first girlfriend. we dated for 6months. i really liked her but we wanted different things so we split up. we're still really good friends but now i don't know if im gay or not? i thought she was gorgeous but now my feelings have changed, ... (84 words)

The new guy shares my interests, but I'm comfortable with the old guy. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my on and off live in move out boyfriend of almost four years are off again. i went on a cruise and met a great guy, and even flew back to see him as soon as i got home from vacation. im confused do i stay with the only thing i know, or see where the new guy leads too. ... (90 words)

How can I learn to trust my boyfriend of 7 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! i have had a boyfriend for over 7 months and we are pretty strong but i have a big issue on not being able to trust him, i ave seen all the people he works with and i get paranoid if he doesnt txt me or works late! i need to stop feelin like this! what can i do???... (60 words)

After moving away, I flirted with other men. My bf saw photos of it and is now distraught! How can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 14 months. We have had an extremely tough time of it- we spent the first 4 months together, fell madly in love, and then I moved away but we decided to stay together. As a result, over the last year we've seen each other only ... (168 words)

I don't fancy girls, but I'm in love with my best friend! Do I confess my feelings? Can I find out her feelings without admitting mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with my best friend, shes a girl-im a girl! i dont fancy any other girls but i cant help but feel attracted to her. i dont know if she loves me--she tells me she does and we almost kissed when we were drunk but does she just like me as a friend? weve got realy close ... (140 words)

The new guy I'm seeing is amazing! The problem is my friends - they say he's too ugly for me and that I'll end up hurting him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have being seeing a guy who i think is amazing. We seem to get on so well, and have such a connection. All the past guys i have dated have all been boring and i he just makes me laugh so much. I love spending time with him, but problem is none of my friends like him. They all ... (132 words)

I told her how I feel, but she wants to stay with the guy who's using her for sex! So now I want to have a talk with him about what he's doing to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so theres this girl 'L' and she was being messed around by one of my best friends 'P' she thinks she loves him, i think she infatuated, and she was coming to me for advice and I helped her out as best I could, but last week having been with this girl talking for hours I ... (233 words)

Back to square one in getting over my ex after listening to a song she told me to listen to.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem regarding my ex, basically the backstory is we were together for 7 years, lived together for 2 and two months ago i proposed to her in paris as we had talked about it for years and i felt ready to pop the question, she accepted and was over the moon while we ... (334 words)

My wife shuts me out, so I crossed the line with a female friend. Her personality makes me come alive and now we're growing apart. I feel like screaming! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a problem some,i never really discuss things out,but i need help on this. Problem being,i been married for a long time,17 years in fact,i have one son teenager. Things at home over the years have slowly gotten bad,i love my son,i am very close to my son.I would neve... (476 words)

I can't control my anger when it comes to my boyfriend! He's cheated on me six times, but I still want to be with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had a quarrel. I don't know if i love him still, because i sometimes realize that i've been harsh on him, and i always regret what i've done everytime we're not together. Sometimes I think it's because of the pain he gave me in year 2005, he cheated on me... (160 words)

My husband treats me and our kids with no respect. Counseling has only made things worse and I can't afford to leave! Now what??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 13 yrs. Many people say oh it has been wonderful yrs for themselves, I cannot. It has been hard. I have no desire for him sexually, he is very short fused, w/ me and our 3 children. he calls them names, that you would call someone in a bar... (262 words)

He proposed and I said yes! But now our relationship is going downhill and I don't know about us anymore. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for nearly a year now...several months ago he asked me to marry him and i said yes... however these last few months we havent been very good together so i told him that i didnt think we are ready for commitment... to be honest im not sure if i even ... (90 words)

He has a girlfriend, but we have feelings for each other. He kissed me, too. Is this considered cheating? Is he using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Thers's this guy i know who works in at my local gym. He's 25 and I'm 16 but i really have feelings for him and he has for me. He has a girlfriend but the other day we kissed. Is this regarded as cheating? Or should i be worried that he is using me for more then just kissing? ... (62 words)

How do I tell my partner that I no longer am in love with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I have stopped being in love with my partner and we are just getting more and more distant how do I tell her that I'm no longer in love?... (30 words)

My job sucks and I'm just unhappy in general. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not satisfied with my life. I never am happy- well not for long. I only want little things in my life to be right but they never do and other people always have it easier- they get things handed to them on a plate or get things easier for example, my brother. I want a j... (228 words)

I think marriage is too much if we want different things! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im engaged to be married in 2 yrs just before i go to uni. but recently my fiance and i have been discussing our future and we want different things. i want to complete my degree and then travel for awhile. he doesnt ever want to leave our hometown. im having serious doubts a... (81 words)

We dated, she left. We dated, she left. Now she's started speaking to me, but she's backing off again!! I'm so confused!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey! Sorry for such a long post. But I really need some advice. The problem I’m having is to do with my ex girlfriend. We were together for around 4 months, and split up 6 months ago. It wasn’t my choice and was the last thing I wanted, as I had fell for this girl really bad. ... (727 words)

I had a sexual relationship w/ him before he started dating my relative. He comes onto me and when I tell him to stop, she laughs! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A close relative of mine has a boyfriend that I had a sex relationship with before they got involved. He still comes on to me in front of her. Why does he do this? How do I know if it is bothering her and does this mean he is still interested in sex with me? I do not ... (78 words)

I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she told me that she is gunna miss ... (422 words)

What is the key to have great sex? The one time we did, she told me what to do. But she said she doesn't like giving orders!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for a few months with someone that I am very serious about and I am very much attracted to. I have not had a lot of experience with sex but even less experience in serious relationships. My partner complains that I don't know what to do during sex ... (150 words)

My wife wants me to sleep with her sister...is that wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I have a good relationship with my wife even though there was some infidelity on my wife's part a few years ago. Her sister has also been a victim of infidelity, and hasn't had sex in years with her husband who is just not interested in sex with her. My wife tol... (243 words)

She asked for a break...but is she stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm really confused. About 2 months ago my girlfriend of about a year and a half told me that we needed to take a break. At that time, I was working a lot and going through some roommate issues and I was not really there for her. When we first decided to take a break we... (482 words)

He tells little lies...how do I trust him and should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, In the past nine or ten months, my partner of over four years has been very snappy and distant. He blames me for everything, even when it can't possibly have been my fault. About nine months ago, my partner made a new friend, a pretty woman he works with. He told me ... (404 words)

My girlfriend hits me--what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. I'm starting to worry about my relationship with her. I really love her but sometimes when I don't do what she asks she hits me. It's more of a punch to the arm or a slap. I'm worried in future years she may get abusive. Is it her keeping ... (103 words)

I saw my best friend's husband cheating on her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here's my problem. My bestfriend started dating this guy about three years ago. Pretty much that whole time there were rumors he was cheating on her. I told her many times that this was going on (not that it was necessarly true just that I had heard it) I never really ... (363 words)

Things arn't as exciting with him as they were with my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (?) - I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year and everyone thinks we are the perfect happy couple. I am lucky as he spoils me and takes me away for romantic weekends etc and you wonder why I'm complaining? My ex was an alcoholic and i posted questions on here when i w... (322 words)

I'm not in to S and M but when having sex, I have really sick thoughts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is really sick and I have never ever told anyone of this as I feel too ashamed. I hope no one would judge me here. I am totally in love with my husband and we have been together for a long time-100% happy! However when I am having sex at the point of climaxing somet... (220 words)

His daughter is ruining our lives

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My husband has not had contact with his daughter for 16years, she came into our lives 2years ago and has completly distroyed our relationship, it's like he's having an affair he's obsessed!! and whatever she say's goes and he can't see what it's doing to our children being ... (105 words)

I just found out my ex gf has been secretly going to see her ex when she was telling me she was visitng family and friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Found out my ex gf had been secretly going to her ex bf house when she was telling me she was visiting her mum, sick nan, friends etc.When I confronted her she got mad and denied cheating. Personally I think she was sleeping with him – if it was all innocent; why lie and not ... (457 words)

I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself shouting at him for no ... (134 words)

He's leaving for the army; should I tell him my true feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone...i got a problem...i fell in love with one of my guy friends. we knew each other since i was a freshman and he was a sophmore. well he has graduated and is about to leave to the army. the problem is that i don't know if i should tell him at his party next week ... (93 words)

I do really want to go but dont want to break his heart. Should i go or stay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 19 and have been in a relationship for 5 years, i do love my boyfriend but he doesn't get on with my family or friends and im not sure about us anymore. I feel that im so young and havn't really lived! My best friend who i do everything with has just moved to America and we ... (88 words)

I met a girl through a personal ad and there's 8 years between us; I'm excited but concerned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

11 July 2007 (M)

- Recently,I put a dating ad in the newspaper, and this girl replied who I really seem to like. However there's quite a big age gap. Im 29 and she is only 21. I've not had a girlfriend for 5 years now and have only really had one real relationship in my life so I’m not used to ... (231 words)

He's mean but is he abusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 13 years old and i wanna find out if my brother is abusive.he is always bothering my sister about her sicking her thumb.he is always bothering me about how slutish i look(but i don't).he is always bothering my other sister about how she is going to b a lesbin when she get ... (145 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like how wet I get... Are there anti-lubricants? Any advice?

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't really like how wet I get down there when we're having sex. He says its very excessive and also difficult to feel himself inside of me. We are okay in other positions but the missionary position doesn't seem to work. Are there any drying creams or gel ... (98 words)

To all the women who AREN'T bothered by their partner watching porn; why?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Wow, this porn issue is huge and obviously we women are bothered a lot by it. But there are women out there who AREN'T, and it is to these impressive women that I go to for advice: Why aren't you bothered by it, and what can you suggest to help us get over it? Is it beca... (162 words)

Is it common to think about people other than your partner during sex/while masturbating?

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it okay to fantasize and masturbate thinking about people other than your partner? (my guess would be that most people would say yes) But is it morally okay to think of other people while you're having sex with your partner? Is this something that couples do when they get ... (61 words)

Is there anywhere on the net I can view free instructional videos about oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - does anyone know where there are some free instuctional videos on giving good blowjobs off of the internet. my bf loves blowjobs and he says im awesome at it but if i knew every little detail it would make it all the better!... (43 words)

Someone told my best friend I fancy him; he said he already knew! What do I do now?

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I have a problem. I finally let one of my friends tell my best guy friend I like him! The problem is when she told him,he didn't say anything other than he already knew! He flirts all the time, like eye contact and smiling at me constantly. Should I ask him out next tim... (74 words)

Too nervous to ask out the girl I love, what do I do?

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11 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am going to ask out the girl i love and i don't know how to do it because i always gt too nervous when i try to do it what should i do... (34 words)

My sister dislikes my girlfriend and hurts me all the time

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11 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for seven years now, and has been great. Im thinking it soon maybe time to pop the question but i haven't yet because we're trying to finish college. My issue is not with my girlfriend but with my older sister. Growing up we were very clo... (656 words)

My married colleague and I got close but cooled it so as not to hurt anyone; now I want to move on

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11 July 2007 (F)

- Thank you in advance to all who respond to this. I became quite close to a guy who I worked with this year. He was married and so both he and I decided to cool everything...I did not want to hurt anyone and neither did he. We have kept up a casual friendship. What thing I have ... (142 words)

Could I be pregnant? I've never missed a period before now

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having some unusual symptoms and I was wondering if I could be pregnant. I didn't have my period this month and I've never been late or missed before. Sometimes I have pains or uncomfort in my abdomen, like when I have my period, but a little stronger. I also feel kind of ... (72 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex; he prefers masturbating before he comes to bed

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I have a boyfriend,we just got back together after a long time apart.We broke up originally because of lack of sex and other issues,particularly abuse in his childhood.I love him very much. However the sex is still a problem.We sleep in the same bed every night but hardly... (206 words)

Will my body piercings turn a guy off?

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is directed mostly to guys. I was wondering if body piercings turn guys off? I have six piercings on one ear and five on the other, and I want to get my belly button and tongue pierced. I just don't want to lose my chance with a guy, because I have piercings that turn him... (60 words)

Our relationship died (mind games, emotional abuse, no sex)... but since then she's been obsessively chasing me!

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11 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my girlfriend of fourteen months about six weeks ago, and since then it's been a mess. I had to leave her because she was emotionally abusive and kept on playing mind games - also our sex life had died and we had no communication. A dead relationship, in other ... (279 words)

How can I learn to be apart from my boyfriend without it driving me nuts?

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11 July 2007 (F) - i dont know what to do. I have been with my b/f for over 2 years and i think i have changed since meeting him. He is my first serious relationship so i never really got attached to a guy before. But for a long time now--i found myself thinking about him constantly an... (310 words)

Who agrees that a man really would choose a porn star over the woman he's with?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

11 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have read the many of the posts about porn and was interested in asking a question. One of the agony aunts (incidently who I think is excellent and gives very insghtful adice btw). said the following in response to a question about porn..I have seen this type of answer a ... (261 words)

Should I tell her that I like her or will it makes things awkward?

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11 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been good friends with a girl for a quite a while now. When we met, I wanted to take our relationship farther, but just then she started dating my good friend. I don't think she got a lot out the relationship, and they recently broke up. Now, she is interested in my best ... (142 words)

Why do I pick fights with him for no reason?

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11 July 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I have been on and off with my ex for about 2 years we have a beautiful daughter together. i love him more than anything but we have had a bit of ruff times and i know we can make it because we have made it this far. sometimes i pick fights with him just to see him response and ... (74 words)

Which one does he want? Her or me?

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11 July 2007 (F)

- Me and this this guy been together for two years. I love him and he tells me he loves me but we had a big fall out because he drinks and when he drinks he doesn't know how to handle himself. So I put him out. Then two weeks later we got back together and now I am mad because he ... (164 words)