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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Should I give her time and space to work out both her feelings of stress for that situation and her feelings for me, or should I just leave this situation completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I started seeing someone I've known for about 6 years now. WE are in a long distance relationship and I know I love her. The problem came when her brother had a heart attack. IT was as if over night she decided that she didn't know what she wanted. Those are her exact ... (109 words)

My boyfriend of 5 years (he's 34 years old) is my best friend. The problem is that he has given up on everything.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 5 years (he's 34 years old) is my best friend. The problem is that he has given up on everything. He lost his job three months ago and he still isn't looking for one. He just sits all day long in his room, browsing the net or watching tv. He's living off of some ... (611 words)

Does this bloke have a commitment problem or is he just not interested???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have met this guy who says he likes me, I really like him however meeting up is always a problem as he arranges to come over and then never shows up. He tells me he likes me but rarely texts me in the day just at night. One minute he tells me to get on with my life as I can ... (109 words)

I'm really confused because he said he doesn't fancy me anymore but today he seemed to act different although he's still not talking to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

- This is really complicated but I'll try explain in as few words as possible. I've just split up with my boyfriend (it wasn't a proper relationship and barely lasted 3 weeks, we are on good terms and are still mates) because I liked my friend of three years. He fancied me whilst ... (144 words)

How do you know when you're really in love with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

- how do you know when your really in love with someone? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time if you count the on and offs. We say we love each other on the phone and he does really care for me and is sweet and has done nothing wrong that i know of at least.But ... (160 words)

She phoned to tell me she's pregnant. I don't know if she's just saying this to get me back, or if its true.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been split up with my girlfriend for 2 month, 2 weeks ago she phoned to tell me she's pregnant. I don't know if she's just saying this to get me back, or if its true. It's doing my head in, coz if she is really pregnant I need to be in my kid's life and want to support ... (112 words)

I am finding it hard to accept her love/trust her but I don't know why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (?) age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months now and just recently both told each other that we love each other. I had said it first a couple of weeks before and knew she was not ready at the time but couldn't help it. I am finding it hard to accept her love/trust h... (191 words)

Can too much sleep (or too little) affect how fat you are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - could an individual get fat when oversleeping too much or does not get enough sleep, or both? i'm on a diet now and am exercising, sometimes i do not get enough sleep or i oversleep; will i get fat or will i be okay and have good results the next day?... (54 words)

How do you find the strength to leave a relationship that you know is not good for you and will probably never change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

- How do you find the strength to leave a relationship that you know is not good for you and will probably never change? I know everyone says being alone will be fine, but I have panic attacks just thinking about it. I know I am possibly a bit co-dependent because I've never ... (458 words)

Can anyone please help me to stop being so controlling and trust her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, my name is Andre I am currently in Portugal and my girlfriend is in Canada we have been away from each other for 9 months but I will be back in about 3 months. Anyways I really need help, I know that I am controlling I don't like it when she goes out with her friends ... (172 words)

My boyfriend says he loves me every 2 minutes, is it a true sign he loves me or just habbit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend says he loves me every 2 minutes, is it a true sign he loves me or just habbit?... (20 words)

Is age really that important?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - If you fall in love with someone older than you about 7 yrs older and they're married with a baby but her and her man are seperated and we both like each other...is age really that important ... (41 words)

I want my ex back, trouble is I don't think he wants to know

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want my ex back, trouble is I don't think he wants to know I was seeing my ex for 7 months and the last few weeks of this he blew hot and cold, was very busy at work and under pressure so I tried to be supportive and help. Out of the blue he dumps me citing that the spark ha... (109 words)

I'm afraid that she'll cheat on me again. How can I stop feeling paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. She has split with me a few times. She always said she didn't really know whether she wanted to be in a relationship. In February, she convinced me that it really was me she wanted to be with. I took her back. S... (237 words)

My girlfriend is taller than me and I feel very uncomfortable about it.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now and I love her. However, I have just noticed that she is taller than me. I'm 17 and only about 5'7"ish and I'm really insecure about my height. My girlfriend looks like she is about half an inch taller than me, but she... (140 words)

I feel hurt and angry that I have to compete with an unobtainable woman from his past who put him second after I've already more than demonstrated my complete commitment to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met over seven years ago. Initially, we had a long-distance relationship and didn't see each other often, although we were very close. When my boyfriend spent longer in the UK, we committed to a relationship and discussed the future. At this point I made it ... (365 words)

What should I do? I still cry over him at night and he is all I ever think about. please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm soo confused, I split up with my ex boyfriend last year in October we met on holiday and only lasted two month approximately. He was the person I lost my viginity to and I have loved him ever since and always think about him I'm not even close to getting over him, the ... (190 words)

When is the best time to tell my friend that I love her...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi me and my best friend are both 22 years old and she is female. Thing is we see each other very often and at some weekends or when we are both off work we do stop over at each others houses and yes we do sleep together but obviously nothing happens and it never has. Now even ... (330 words)

I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

- I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to the world than he has to offer ... (103 words)

It's only a matter of time until we will have to move it up a level and to be honest I'm really scared because I don't have a clue what I'm doing when it comes to foreplay.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 17 and I've just started going out with my boyfriend who is 19. The thing is I am about as unexperienced as it gets. We kissed last Saturday and have done since but I don't think he knows that it was my first kiss. He said I was really good actually (sorry just thought I ... (169 words)

How do I know if I really love him or if it is just a convenient way for me to have a house and live closer to my job.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my other for 5 years. We now have a kid together. I have left my boyfriend on 3 different occasions in the past years. We are being civil now since the last break in March - how do I know if I really love him or if it is just a convenient way for me to have ... (184 words)

I love them both and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Well I have a dilemma!!! It started say two weeks ago. My ex-boyfriend's best freiend told me that my ex-boyfriend still loved me and wanted to be with me. I didn't believe until I heard it for myself. Well me and my exboyfriend had a phone conversation and he told me he loved ... (134 words)

I find it very hard to trust him on the internet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, but I find it very hard to trust him on the internet... We met each other on a dating site 2years ago and I left my partner to be with him. Things were going well, but I have a bad case of paranoia, which was made worse w... (196 words)

Recently she has started taking things further, she asked me last night if I would do her with a fish!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Me and my girlfriend have a very close relationship and when we first went out we both had a very high sex drive. I would play with all her sex toys with her. We started experimenting with fruit and other shaft looking objects. it kinda turned me on in a way. Recently... (101 words)

I don't know for sure if he likes me but I certainly have a strong impression that he does. So if he does... why is he holding back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - A few months back I plucked up the courage to tell the guy I really liked at University that I liked him. I was convinced he liked me back because of how he acted around me, always flirting and he seemed to be very attached and had made some attempts as to what seemed like... (360 words)

According to my friends I should just go round, get all my stuff out, and post keys through letter box.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having problems recently - he's been backing off because of trust issues, problems with his daughter etc - but we were supposed to be going on holiday this week to sort things out. He backtracked a couple of weeks ago, said he didn't feel like goi... (368 words)

I really like him but have no true sense of whether it is just a casual thing for him or if there is any potential in it developing into something more serious.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. He is incredibly busy and travels away a lot so we have only actually had 10ish dates. The dates are always great but we never speak or text between then and I generally initiate the meeting up. I really like him but have no true sense ... (145 words)

My boyfriend and I haven't had sex but I'm scared I could be pregnant cause my period is 3 days late.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I haven't had sex but I'm scared I could be pregnant cause my period is 3 days late. I've heard you can get pregnant from rubbing against each other or even if say some of his semen from giving him a hand job accidently ends up near down there on me. I to... (111 words)

He's been great towards me after cheating in the past but how can I ever learn to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Let's say you have been with someone for many years. You can tell he loves you because of his actions. He treats you the way a man in love treats his lady, but in the past he did cheat on you and now he is trying fix his ways to win you back. But even though you are madly in ... (104 words)

It all seemed like a wonderful dream, now it's turning into a nightmare.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Did I overreact? I've been with my boyfriend for seven weeks but because he lives quite far away we've only seen each other seven times. When we do meet it's only for a night and a bit of the morning as our work shifts clash. He told me he loved me very early on and I also felt ... (336 words)

I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

- There is this guy. He has been my friend since we were 6 years old say. We always played about and flirted when younger. He always came round to see me and my parents regularly. He has recently gone to uni and come back with a new girlfriend but makes sure that I... (183 words)

I am with another guy, but still have strong feelings for my ex, but I'm not sure if he feels the same and I don't want to make a big mistake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I split up with an ex 3 years ago, since then we have been seeing other people. Although we aren't together he still texts me occasionally. I am with another guy, but still have strong feelings for my ex, but I'm not sure if he feels the same and I don't want to make a big ... (57 words)

I've started seeing this guy and I really like him but there's one problem, his best friend is my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I've started seeing this guy and I really like him but there's one problem, his best friend is my ex. He finished with me three weeks ago and told me to move on so I have and I'm dating his best friend but they're falling out over me and I'm being threatened. I didn't want to ... (100 words)

Still thinking about a past female teacher. How do I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi thanks for the replys to my other question which was "i just want to know why i'm having these dreams and what they mean" they really made sense to me and i can see your point of view and how it does match my life in some way, infact in some ways i'd never thought about ... (608 words)

Afraid my small weiner will put her off!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - This is really urgent i am new to ths so i hope it gets sent out. I have a really small penis it is roughly 5 inches when erect. Can anyone tell me what the average size is? But thats not all my girl wants us to masturbate each other this SATURDAY. i am 16 but i am afraid i ... (77 words)

Not sure if I'm ready for marriage and kids with this guy! Does that make me weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I don`t know whether I am in love with my boyfriend. I dont know whether I am in love with my boyfriend , I think I love him. We firstly moved in together when we were just mates and he kept asking me out and asking me out and I said no until I got sick of him asking m... (293 words)

Are her e-mail 'kisses' ..a true sign she fancies me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

- I really fancy a female colleague of mine, and we have been flirting quite strongly for a couple of months now. The other day we exchanged email addresses and the other night i sent her a mail, and at the end of what i wrote i put a kiss next to my name. When she replied back ... (98 words)

What do I do about this flirty 14 year old girl, who has a crush on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 380 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - ok im 17, im a start senior year after this summer, but i have a friend who ran track with me, one day her sister met me, and well she's really into me. shes going to be a freshmen after this summer. so makes her 14. i like her and she knows and she likes me but im not really ... (69 words)

I'm in love with someone who is very overweight and won't try to lose it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What do I do if the person I'm in a serious relationship with, desiring marriage mostly on their part, is 135+ lbs overweight and despite my encouraging request to my significant other to lose weight and eat healthier has done almost nothing, if anything, to try to lose any ... (50 words)

I have a hard time trusting people so does my bf want me or just the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - do my boyfriend really cares deeply about and love me. are just wanting to have sex with me? it's hard for me to trust people. what should i Do? ... (29 words)

Why don't I feel so in love I'm gonna burst ALL the time... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

- Sometimes I feel so in love with my girlfriend I could burst. Other times I feel like I really can't be arsed. I know that I love her and she's just perfect. But I can't help how I feel. Is expecting to feel "bursty" 100% of the time unrealistic?... (58 words)

She's 11, and I'm 15! Is this age gap wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi.. I'm 15 and I like this girl 5 years younger than me but she's about to turn 11. Well, I know that relationships with an age gap of even 10 years are often accepted, but still I can't seem to decide on what I should do. What I know is, we're still both minors. I can't stop ... (103 words)

Do I stay put or emigrate to be with my bf? What is the best thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 35, separated (after 13 years of marriage) and have no children. I have wanted to change career for years and have just taken the plunge now to start on a degree course as I regretted not doing a degree in my late teens / early twenties - many people thought I was crazy ... (244 words)

When my husband is upset he wakes me up; I get angry and he calls me mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know how to handle this situation. My husband keeps me awake when he is upset. If I get angry after he wakes me up he turns the situation around and says I am mean to him. I don't understand why he does this.... (45 words)

I love my boyfriend but I don't fancy him anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend and have been with him for 4 years, but i just dont fancy him anymore. I dont want to leave him i want our relationship to work. Hes sweet and kind and he loves me too. How can i get the desire back for him physically.... (50 words)

Could our relationship work if we started again or is what we had...lost forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. Your help is needed - again! My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years of being together. I have a son (12) from my previous marriage and he has two lads (13 and 17). We didn't live together so the split wasn't messy. My feelings for him changed ... (439 words)

He's 34, I'm 21 and still live at home. My parents found out and went proper mental... !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 22 year old who still lives at home with her parents. I met this great guy through a woman that I know (he works for her). He is 34 and that is no issue to me, but when my parents found out, they had a heart attack. They freaked out on me about the age difference and ... (403 words)

We have so many problems; should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 20 something year old with a 49yr old man. When he met me I partied very hard and I wore very little clothing. Now I wear covering up clothing which I love cause it leaves imagintion to the people, but makes him made to see people still looking at me and he has also ... (332 words)

I don't know if he loves me like I love him, advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i emailed my crush and at the end of the email i put love ya and then i checked my email and at the end of his it said love ya 2. but i dont know if he loves me like i love him.... (44 words)

My best friend told my girl a lie that made her dump me; how do I win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - my best friend told my girlfried sumthing that made her mad cuz i didnt say anything to him now she broke up with me and everything i say she shoots it down what do i do to fix this and get her back... (43 words)

How do I deal with paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I suffer from extreme paranoia. What should I do?... (9 words)

My husband treats me so badly but I don't want to leave for our kids; what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, My husband and I have been married for 4 years, but together for 7. He's is 24, and I am 25. This is also my 2nd marriage. My husband just recently got out of the military. He was a military cop, so he has that attitude like a cop. He is also quite mean. He used to not ... (404 words)

Can you get AIDS from sweat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Could you get STD,AIDS,HIV from sweat or somebody elses sweat?... (10 words)

What's the best excercise plan for losing weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - is it better to eat before you exercise or after you exercise? in the morning i prefer working out. should i eat my breakfast first, then wait 45min then workout? or should i eat after? what's the best? OR should i just eat when i'm hungry and also exercise? also is it pos... (96 words)

I'm so tired of the turbulence in our marriage; what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi everyone well i just am very confused, i thought that my husband loved me and lately i just feel like he doesnt, i mean i admit ive done something; but there not anything that i wouldnt of done before we got married like going out with my girlfriends or going to a party and ... (282 words)

My gf and I can't go a day without arguing! She says being around me makes her angry. What should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 years and I have been fighting alot lately. We can't seem to get along and not argue for more than a day. She says lately being around me makes her angry and in a bad mood. I really want this to work but I am not sure on what to do next. Or where we would ... (64 words)

What's the average penis size?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - what is the average penis length and girth im 6.5 in lenght and 5.5 in girth iv read so many websites and suryes and im still as confused as before as to what the average is iv never had any complaints and always asked women who iv been with how they like it so im not insucure ... (82 words)

I don't want to leave him but he's getting violent because I don't feel like having sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and we have been engaged for five months. Although he's eleven years older than me, we've always gotten along together really well, with no problems. We have arguments every now and again, that don't really last longer than a few ... (183 words)

I want to have sex with my girlfriend to bring us closer but she wants to wait

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi there. Im a 17year old virgin. Well... ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I love her so much but i wanna feel so much more. And we were discussing sex. And she says shes going to wait til she gets married. I heard sex takes your commitment/love to a higher level.. ... (92 words)

Can I make my own thread/forum on DearCupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - how do you make your own forum or thread on this... (11 words)

I want my ex back; should I contact her or wait to see if she'll contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend (we dated for roughly six months) for 15 days now. Afew weeks before the breakup, she backpacked in Europe with a girlfriend of hers, and stated she felt a sense of independence upon returning. She ended things between us, stating ... (183 words)

I think I might be pregnant; my boyfriend and I are happy but I'm worried about how others may react

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys. My name is Gemma and I am 18 years old. At the minute I am worrying about whether I could be pregnant or not and I don't know what to do. Me and my Boyfriend would love to have a child together and feel ready and committed to have a child now but the only thing I am ... (83 words)

How long after childbirth does a decreased sex drive last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - How long is a woman's sex drive decreased after giving birth? Prior to pregnancy sex was 1-2x a week, but now it's more like 1-2x a month. Our baby is really good and is not demanding in terms of free time, etc. ... (44 words)

We've broken up a couple of times and there's no real spark; should I try once more anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

6 July 2007 (F)