New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login67678 questions, 298155 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
   
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
To browse questions by day in July, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (70), 2 (70), 3 (76), 4 (75), 5 (65), 6 (64), 7 (56), 8 (67), 9 (76), 10 (92),
11 (85), 12 (79), 13 (94), 14 (61), 15 (73), 16 (95), 17 (95), 18 (93), 19 (81), 20 (72),
21 (59), 22 (98), 23 (97), 24 (106), 25 (86), 26 (108), 27 (95), 28 (82), 29 (93), 30 (98),
31 (114),

Archived questions from: 22 July, 2007 (see latest questions)

(More questions from July, 2007)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My girlfriend and I broke up recently and I'm suffering from the sex withdrawal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - I've recently broke up with my long term girlfriend. Withdrawel is really starting to kick in. I really miss her! Kissing, being together, talking everyday, and last but not least; SEX! I just feel like I want to be doing these things with her all the time now, but I can't... (68 words

How do you make your vagina tighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - whats the best way to get your vagina tighter? ... (9 words


   

Has He Broken Up With Me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I had been arguing because I'd question him about his female friends. He'd always say he's not doing anything but one woman would post smoochies and kisses and love you notes on his page and I'd get upset he'd say she's just his friend. We finally had a blow ... (130 words

Can You Still Have Your Period While Pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - hi... i was wondering if you happen to get pregnant while on the pill but dont realise would you still have your period..?... (23 words

Shy About Taking The Next Step! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Ok, well I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and so far he has been incredibly understanding about my insecurities. I am a very shy person, particularly when it comes to relationships but he has told me many times that he is fine with taking it slow and says lovely ... (297 words

   

Am I Pregnant Even Though I Wasn't At My Most Fertile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - hello, i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question? i had unprotected sex on 7/20/07 and i get my period on the 29th day of each month. and my hubby came inside me is there a chance im gonna be pregnant? because i am trying to be pregnnat , i already did the ... (99 words

Looking for info about oral

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Im 16, and I know this boy thats 18. He and I are kinda friends, i really like him and he really likes me. But my family doesnt like him because of rumors they've heard, and he's my friends ex, so we cant be a couple. I want to give him oral, and i know a lot of people are ... (98 words

Tired Of Girlfriend Treating Me More Like A Mate Then A Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - Me and my girlfrend of 8 months are going through a difficult time. I love her and I know she loves me. Its been difficult seeing each other recently, due to the fact that we are students on summer break and live 2 half hours from each other. Prior to seeing her this weekend, ... (298 words

Like A Girl But Due To Holidays We Wont See Each Other & She Says She's Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi i still go to school and ive told this girl i like her. We're on holidays at the moment and shes told me she likes me. But we're on holidays so we wont see each other. And she says that shes confuseed in the way that she likes me and she wants me to like her in the same ... (85 words

How Do I Approach/Talk To Women when I'm Socially Inept?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - I'm 21, a student and my problem is I'm socially inept when it comes to approaching/talking to women. Men I can talk to whenever etc have no probs. Am funny, loose and a right 'mans man', just make everyone laugh etc. Women however, I just dont know what to do/talk about, dont ... (186 words

Help! Pregnancy Scare & Desire To Have A Baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I have ben reading some of the comments on pregnancy issues and I just wanted to ask advice about my situation, I am at the moment going through a pregnancy scare and I am very confused as I am only 18 and my job isnt too great. I have been with my partner, 23 for a yea... (191 words

How can I move on when I feel so betrayed by my cheating husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me a few yrs ago, with a woman who was suposed to be my friend. When I confided in her about the affair she promised to help find out who the other woman was! It ended when I found out it was her and confronted the pair of them. He promised never to do it ... (297 words

I lost my virginity age 9 to a 15 year old and we're still together; I've found out I'm pregnant at 13

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - Hi, I lost my virginity at the age of 9 with my consent. And i have been having sex ever since with the same bloke. He was 15 when we had sex. And we are still together, The only problem is a month ago i found out that i am pregnant,I am 13. He Is 19, the only person that... (88 words

I like a workmate but don't know if he feels the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Ive liked this guy for a long long time and i dont know if he feels the same but i work with him and my friend is acting like a middle man what should i do??... (36 words

If you don't swallow during oral, can you still get and STI?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - you can get an STI from giving head i know, how ever if you dont swollow, does this mean you cant get one? ... (23 words

I wouldn't let up and we slept together; she is guilt ridden because she has a boyfriend. How can I make her all mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, this is a toughie for me but cannot work this one out. Met a girl over the phone at work, really hit it off, flirted via e-mail but ove the months could not even get her number although the flirting continued both ways i pursued and would not let up. She had a steady ... (409 words

We've gotten along much better since we broke up but I want to be more than his f**k buddy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months about a month ago because he didnt want to be in a relationship. The week before we broke up it was very tense between us ( silly little arguments etc) But since we have broken up (even the day after!) we got along so much better, and ... (185 words

Why don't they want more than friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - I get with loads of girls,and go out on loads of dates but it doesn't seem to go much furthur. Girls normally end up just wanting to be friends, and most of them end up having real relationships with my male friends. I want a real relationship, but can't seem to find one. Apa... (73 words

Is she just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - I have liked this girl for a while now, we have got to 3rd base on a number of occasions, however she just sees me as 'a bit of fun'. I asked her to go out with me on a date and she turned me down saying she likes another guy. This guy who she likes happens to be an old frie... (212 words

I think I had an anxiety attack after an argument; do I need medical help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I had minor disagreement. I was upset and after about 10 minutes i begin to feel a tightness in my chest, shortness of breath, and my heart was racing. I felt sick to my stomach and I thought i was going to faint or die. I think i may have experienced an ... (92 words

Why don't I feel anything when I masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - how come i cant feel nothin wen i maturbate even when i play abit ... (14 words

My girlfriend keeps going to her ex's house even though he tried to rape her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - My G/F keeps going over her old crushes house, and then wonders why i get so mad. Shes never alone with him though, and last time he tried to rape her and she still went back to "chill" after i told her dont go back. Am i wrong???... (48 words

He avoids discussing the big issues like having a family; what should I do about his attitude?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Alright. I've had a boyfriend for about 15 months now. He's fabulous; I love him and he says he loves me. He's even proven his love on a few occasions. But then other times, he makes me wonder. (the love aspect of a romantic relationship is extremely important to me, ... (527 words

I'd love to open my own hair salon before my time runs out; am I too old? Is this a crazy idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - hi there everyone I no this is a relationship advice site but i have a small question... I am currently a receptionist and to be honest i am tired of my job and i am contempating starting my own business. I am 24 and i thinking of going in to the hair dressing business, i have ... (130 words

My fiance wants to wed in a Catholic church in his home country India but I'm an aetheist and we've lived in Scotland for years. He won't listen to my opinion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am so unhappy. My fiance wants me to get married in a Catholic church (I am an atheist), in India (where he is from) - as opposed to Scotland (where we have both lived for years) which means my parents won't be able to attend and it'll be very difficult/stressful to get it ... (113 words

I am sooo scared I'm going to lose my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - I'm in a bit of a pickle. I am sooo scared I'm going to lose my boyfriend. I stayed at his last night, and we were in bed and he said he loves me more than anything and that he has been in love before but not like this... I'm just so scared, I don't want to spoil th... (90 words

I have OCD and if I don't tell my mum my problems, they play on my mind for ages; only thing is, she doesn't like hearing about them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - help me...i have OCD and everthing bad i did in the past i have to tell my mum and it really gets to me, it makes me upset and i dont feel like eating when i have a problem running through my head. when i tell her i feel better. i hate this it wrecks my life and my mum doesnt ... (83 words

My boyfriend kicked me out, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - me and my bfriend living together for a year, yesterday he kicked me out. normally i always run to him but this time i dont know what to do please help... (31 words

' I love him', but 'i don't fancy him anymore'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - I'm 18 and love my boyfriend of over a year but I'm not sure I fancy him anymore. I do love him to pieces but the physical attraction just isn't the same for me. I don't really want to split with him because I don't want to lose the closeness we do have. He means so much to m... (125 words

What to expect from a sexual health check.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Could anyone tell me what to expect at a sexual health check and how long you have to wait for the results.... (22 words

'I am still bleeding three years later'.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - I had anal sex on my 16th birthday (not a nice experience), we were both very drunk and i dont think he meant to put it there, however now after 3 years now even when i got to the toilet my anus still bleeds after i poo. I've not really took it into notice however i would like... (67 words

'No kisses, cuddles or holding hands' and thats 8 months in.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 8 months now and we get along great. We share similar values, we have great conversations and our hobbies are very compatible, but there's one thing about our relationship that's bothering me more and more as time goes on, we're neve... (174 words

Can you be too young to be in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - My two close friends..lets call them Annie* and Mark*.. theyre both 15, been dating for nearly 3 years now and Annie* recently told me that she thinks shes in love with Mark*.. now ive seen the way they are together and the way they make each other feel and i've never seen a ... (114 words

'Why did he act like this', is he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We had been together for about 2 years, and living together for a year. We had even talked marriage, I am still in love with him and want to get him back, but I'm not sure how. Over the past 2 weeks we've started ... (398 words

She used to hit her mum, now she takes everything out on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 26-29 - I recently asked a question anonymously about my girlfriend, we have been together 3 yrs and she has been very abusive,she use to hit her mom and now me. I say i love you always, she might say it once in awhile. I'm on a roller coaster i need help she don't like whats for dinn... (195 words

How do i hit her G spot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - My girlfriend and i wanna try out sum new positions when we have sex. She is 16 and I'm 17, we have done basic misionary, but now want to experiment with new positions. Any one know any good ones for hitting her g spot?... (46 words

My girlfriend refuses to open up to me and says a lot of things I find hurtful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Here's my problem: I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and i've known her for about 7 or 8 months in total. The problem i'm having is that my gf doesn't open up to me and she's extremely mysterious...she hides almost everything from me. By nature, i ... (450 words

My girlfriend no longer seems interested in me; I now have the chance to make a go of it with a new girl. Should I take it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hey there, ive been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Our relationship has been good up until a few months ago where it has seemed she has lost a lot of interest, she saids she still loves me but her actions sometimes show otherwise. She likes attention off other guys, i ... (162 words

My husband doesn't want to have sex because it's too "strenuous"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I'm 24, my husband is 25 and he has told me he does not want sex any more. We've been together 7 years now - married for a year and a half now. I asked him why and he insisted it was "strenuous". Nothing I've tried has managed to get his sex drive back: I've worn sexy l... (189 words

What do i do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - I am in love with this boy and we are together. But this other boy that i fancied a while ago, before me and my bf got together, has started to like me. I don't know what to do!!! HELP?... (42 words

I love him very much but he's twice my age; I don't want to end up alone when I'm in my 50s

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - hi. i'm with the loveliest bloke i've ever met, but he's just turned 40 and i'm 22... i wish this wasn't a problem but in reality it is. i have no intention of splitting wiv him coz we love each other so much, but how do i overcome the problems yet to come? he's had the snip ... (137 words

My boyfriend has been irritating me lately and I'm cheating on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i have a big problem. you will think im awful and thats fine coz i think i am i just cant help myself. i have a boyfriend of 3 years. i know he loves me but my parents majorly disaprove of me seeing him. i love him but lately little things have been driving me away from him. i ... (113 words

I'm pregnant with another man's baby; should I confess?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - ive told my ex the baby i am carring is his,but its not.its from a one night stand,now im scared in case he finds out,im due to have my 10 week scan,next week.but i split with him 12 weeks ago,i know he does not believe me deep down,and he has booked time off work to come to ... (91 words

I'm embarassed that I put up a personal ad to meet girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M - Hi guys, would be great to know what your thoughts are (male or female) about putting dating adverts in newspapers/magazines? I recently put a dating ad in my local newspaper becasue i'm bored of being single but also becasue I put myself under a lot of pressure to find a girl ... (204 words

My steroid-abusing boyfriend keeps saying he doesn't know if he wants to be with me; where do we stand? Have the drugs taken their toll on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi my bf and i have been together for 4 years. . i know he has been taking steroids since i've known him and i recently found out that he has done drugs from time to time. within the past 6 months we have broken up a few times because every time we seem to get into a little ... (213 words

Why is everyone so negative about long distance relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - Hi! I wondered something while reading the questions and answers here...why do most answerers automatically say long distance relationships can't work and that the poster should go out and meet someone in there area. Thats not true,some LD's do work,thats not to say there's ... (119 words

How can i help my shattered wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, my wife has just given birth our beautiful baby daughter and we are really happy. The thing is i'm back at work full time now and she is at home with the baby at the moment until the baby can go to a nursery and my wife will go back to work part time. She's 2 months o... (305 words

Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - I'm 16, my boyfriend says he loves me, wants it to last forever, wnats to marry me, this is all in texts! When i talk to him or see him, he never says it unless we're physical he'll say i love you.. but not in the way i want to hear it. Doesn't want anyone to know about ou... (149 words

Do you think it can work again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - About 9 months ago, I cheated on my boyfriend. I was going through a really hard time in my life and was stupid and made a stupid choice. What made it worse was that I lied about it for two days until he confronted me and even then, I denied the details (i did not have sex... (336 words

Mum won't let me out.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hey, i am 14 and my mum keeps me in all the time. She won't let me go out to any of my freinds house or sleep over, she wont even let me stay at my best mates house when she know's we both won't do anything bad. Then when people come round she always brings up stuff like " ... (117 words

Is he normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi I love my friend and he also loves me a lot but the problem is that he is not like others...he rarely calls me and send messages to me . I know that he loves me a lot. My question is that he is very different because lovers usually talks for hours and he says that this is ... (79 words

Is the size ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hi, I am 20 i watch these xxx movies where men have huge c@#ks and when i look at mine its only 4" inches . I've never had sex before but i mastubrate alot... I just want to know does the size of c@#k really matter or is it fine with the size i have......... (58 words

The ex wife will not leave us alone.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My fiance's ex-wife will not leave us alone. They were together 19 years married for 9. I have moved to his country and we are engaged to be married. They have 3 kids together and I get that but why won't she move on with her own life? Why does she think sending him love mes... (77 words

Why have things changed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I like this girl and she likes me but things aren't going to well. I really like her but i'm not sure if she still feels the same way... i can't get her out of my head and i'm not acting the same as i used to around her.. What should i do because i know that if i carry on like ... (127 words

Am i over reacting when his does not call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - I've jus recently started dating some one who i've been crushing on for 5 years..and it's been a month..everythings lovey dovey but when he doesn't answer his calls or doesn't reply i get peranoid he's up to something.. I know i'm over reacting but when i ask and say, i just... (113 words

Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx... (27 words

I want to stop the dreams i keep having.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Me and dean were together for a year, broke over 3months ago, and he even has a new gf. I'm still having problems getting over him, but what i'd like your advice on is i'm having all these really cruel dreams where we get back together or the entire dream he's cuddling me ... (126 words

'I want to get tested before having sex'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - I'm 13, and my boyfriend is really in to me,and we want 2 have sex the day before my birthday, and i want to. I want to get tested before i have sex (i'v never had sex,it's just to make sure). I'm 13! my mom would never get me tested at this age, but i dont act my age, i'm much... (86 words

How can i get my bf to stop being a replacement spouse to his dad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriends parents have been split for 10 years and neither have found new partners and live quite isolated lives. My boyfriends Dad insists on hi-jacking my boyfriends time, makes him feel bad if he doesn't stay in and watch football and is always asking him to do thin... (117 words

'I think my son is too young for engagement'.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My 17-year-old son has told me he got engaged to his girlfriend, who's also 17. He said she proposed to him, and he accepted. I'm worried about this. I feel he's too young to do this but he really wants to do it. He said after he leaves college, he wants to enroll intersta... (105 words

The spark is dwindling, how can I rekindle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - how do you keep your relationship going, when the spark is still in you, but ur partner seems to be gettin bored or fed up of u? I've been in a relationship for 5 months now. It was all amazing for the 1st 3 months... but after that... it all started taking a turn for the wors... (164 words

19 and 14 is that ok?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - Is it ok for me to date a guy that is 19 and I am 14?. I really like him and don't want to let him go.... (28 words

'He can't sleep', is there anything i can do to help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Ok this is more for my boyfriend. Wev'e been sleeping together for about 4 months now and he has a problem. When were not together at night he can't sleep, he tosses and turns all night and is now looking tired and stressed, i love him so much but it's going to be another ... (109 words

He's been texting and e-mailing another woman and flirting with her; he says he wanted to have some fun with her. Is this cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I find it hard to trust people because of the way I was treated as a child, but I grew to trust my partner of four years. Recently, he started talking a lot about a girl he works with, telling everyone how pretty she is and how much fun they have together. He often went t... (797 words

Can you get pregnant if he pulls out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F - I was wondering if you can get pregnant still if the guy withdraws before cuming? Does if matter if the stuff that comes out of a guys penis before he ejculates goes inside a girl? Will that get you pregnant? ... (40 words

I accused her of cheating because she's always with my best mate; we broke up and I want her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - i have just split up with my girlfriend because i accused her of cheating. we have been good friends for 4 years, and started seeing each other 4 months ago. i'm in the navy, so that means that i'm away all the time. we have the same group of friends, and we use to see each ... (189 words

Could she have forgotten about me so easily and quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hi, me again! As you know my 2 year, long distance relationship ended almost 4 weeks ago when she decided she couldn't cope anymore... I don't know if it really feels like 4 weeks ago... It feels like such a long time ago in some ways, and in others it feels like yesterda... (347 words

I left my girlfriend because I had a drug problem; now I want to be back in her (and our new baby's) life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years. she is 34 weeks pregnant. i recently left her because i have a problem with drugs. i'm getting treatment and still want to be part of her life as well as our babies. she dosen't want anything to do with me now. i want to ... (155 words

How do you get a girl to fall for you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 13-15 - how do i get a girl to fall in love with me ?... (13 words

Is it possible for us to go back to the happy way we were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - please help!does he still love me???? I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. We have had an amazing relationship, he use to do everything for me. Although sometimes i did take things for granted and we started to argue a lot after the first year. But still he was m... (282 words

This woman is hot then cold and it's confusing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I was seeing a woman who has 'domineering' kids who basically run her life. We ended things because her kids objected her dating me, out of jealousy. They basically tell her what she can do! Why is it that each time I try to pick it back up with her, things go well for a few ... (78 words

My boyfriend tells me I'm beautiful but I just don't believe him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - im incredibly insecure. i have absolutley no idea why. what i do know is that it is starting to affect my relationship with my boyfriend. how do i stop feeling so worthless and improve my view of myself when i dont know whats causing it? my boyfriend always tells me and ... (96 words

I'm hot for my sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - hi, im 15 and i am kinda atracted to my sister. Like I was once curious what her bra size was and i went threw her clothes and found some of her panties. Is this wierd that i like this about my sister?... (43 words

My ex was emotionally damaged, but did I have anything to do with the breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - This is an extended HELP to all those out there how has loved and lost. I have never loved someone unconditionally until now and he left my life. How does one really get over this? Background, I'm successful physician, money is not a issue, I'm attractive young female who can ... (129 words

Is there a second hymen or is that just the "end of the tunnel?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - I know all about the hymen, where it is and why it bleeds. However my boyfriend and i have started having sex and i have never bled. Yet when he goes to far in i feel like a pressure in my vagina and sometimes it gets to painful and i have to tell him not to go as far in. He ... (97 words

Sometimes he comes in me, sometimes not... does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - This may sound odd but it has been pondering on my mind recently. I would appreciate any answers but from the male gender especially. Being in a long term relationship for several years I have noticed that my partner, or it seems, can be selective where ejaculating. ... (142 words

It's all about the sex... no it's about the intimacy... no it really is about the sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - After 9 or 10 good girlfriends over as many years, I found one where the sex is fantastic, perfect really, but the relationship was not great. I ended the relationship but I can't get over the sex, it was just too great between us. I'm not the type to pick up girls at bars ... (78 words

I fell for a player that knows how to get into my pants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I am going through a real rough time, I have been seeing this guy for 2 years, he was my first if u know what i mean and i thought he loved me until he e-mailed me that he wasn't ready for a relationship and that I am not his gf or that we're dating, yet when he wants me in bed ... (95 words

He doesn't end our relationship yet he wants to move and start a new life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and out of the blue he says he wants to move and start a new life, and hes been treating me terrible latley, but he hasnt actually broke up with me, what do you think this means. please help im very upset. ... (52 words

A drunken one-night stand is weighing heavily on my conscience

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

22 July 2007 (M - hey. I need help. Big time. No matter what you think of me because of what I've done, please help. Thanks. My girlfriend and I have been going strong for quite some time now.. nearly 2 years.. The last time I got totally drunk was at a friend's party, I cheated on my g... (231 words

He thinks of me as his cute little sister, but I want more than his brother love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I am inlove with this boy that is two years older then me and i feel like he thinks of me as his little cute sister how do i change his opinion of me?... (34 words

I can't tell where I stand with him... can you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I would appreciate some help here. I've been going out with a friend of mine Kelvin for dinners/movies for the past month. Sometimes he'll come pick me up and sometimes he'll pick the tab as well. It all seems like a normal date but he didn't try to hold my hand or anyth... (178 words

My husband knocked up a 16-year old and I considering paying her off to stay away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I thought my family was happy, I had a two year old child and a loving husband and good neighbours everything was perfect. Then two months ago our next door neighbours cousin 'Emma' moved in with him. She's 16 and has a 3 year old child already, I first encountered her when i a... (296 words

How do I tell my doctor I'm not a virgin when my mother's always with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - Hi I'm 14, and I had sex about a week ago and I'm wondering if I should tell my mom and how do I tell my doctor that I'm no longer a virgin if my mom's always there?... (38 words

How do I ask for her phone number without looking stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

22 July 2007 (M - I’ve been very cool with this girl that works at my job for about almost a year now I met her through a close friend of hers. Nothing sexually we just laugh and talk when I see her working at her shop in the airport. About a week ago my friend came to me and said that she was ... (209 words

Trouble with lasting friendships with girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 26-29 - i really have a big problem with keeping lasting friendships with girls and later on cant get anyone girl to say yes when i ask for love. what could be my problem... (32 words

What does orgasm mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M - ok i got a quick question my girlfriend says i can make her cum everytime she as sex but i always thought when a girl comes its an organism but my girl said i've never never made her organism ever does that mean im rubbish in bed? or does that mean shes been lieing 2... (123 words

Is it just a crush or something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Ok, this is my first time doing this, and i am pretty nervous about who is going to read this, but i've read a lot of other answers and such, and the people seem to be really understanding so here goes. Well, this summer i met this girl from poland named samantha, and she's re... (509 words

I still like him and care about him but I want to know if he still feels the same way about me even though he aint calling me or textin me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I was talking to this guy who used to date one of my ex friend's but she stopped talking to me so me and him, we were friends for a long time. He just stopped talking to me right in the middle of this month. I still like him and care about him but I want to know if he still ... (78 words

My boyfriend's father is my mother's half brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 27 and my boyfiend is 23 but we have a problem. His father is my mother's half brother and we been together for a while and some people know but my mom doesn't and I don't think its a good idea but anyway, I was just wondering what I can do to stop the worrying about ... (112 words

Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?... (14 words

My ex thinks I'm a sl#t, because I'm seeing someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 319 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I dated a guy that i work with August of last year and we broke up in December. Soon after our breakup,i met one of his friends and we hit it off and have been together ever since. I never knew him while me and my ex were together,but i did know that they were friends, my curre... (134 words

It seem's as though she's changed, shall i get back with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago after almost 7 years. We had our share of problems, mostly relating to her insecurity and practical things like where to live, work etc. She constantly needed to feel "accepted" and although I tried to help her to feel "like a ... (227 words

Ladies, looks or personality?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - Are looks more important to women than personality? Or vice versa? I've heard looks are 30% and personality is 70% important to a women. What you guys think? As many posts as possible would be great! Thanks... (41 words

Sexual relations at work and i'm married.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 16 years and it has been a sexless marriage. He is nice and responsible and we have a daughter. I did tell him a couple of months ago that I did not want to be married anymore. I started talking with a person at work and one thing led to... (170 words

He wants to swing, does he not love me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - My husband said he wants to start swinging, does that mean he does not love me anymore, or is just not satisfied with our sex life. Am i not making him happy anymore? ... (34 words

She's holding back after being abused and bullied.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

22 July 2007 (M age 26-29 - Well me and this girl have been seeing each other for nearly two months. For the first month things were going fine. She had just split up with her ex and she wanted to take things slow so it didn't end up a rebound thing...so we went slow. Now I came back from Scotland... (207 words

I think i have bulimia....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

22 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Im constantly on a diet, i always feel really fat and im not happy with my body. I think i am Bullimic...i starve myself for days living mainly on slimfast and then when i eat i eat loads and make myself sick. I really want to be happy with myself but im not. ... (54 words

Archives (all questions):

July 2008 (2738)
June 2008 (3203)
May 2008 (2983)
April 2008 (3026)
March 2008 (2842)
February 2008 (2395)
January 2008 (2346)
December 2007 (2254)
November 2007 (2603)
October 2007 (2617)
September 2007 (2418)
August 2007 (2560)
July 2007 (2575)
June 2007 (2115)
May 2007 (1912)
April 2007 (1945)
March 2007 (2076)
February 2007 (1952)
January 2007 (1933)
December 2006 (1676)
November 2006 (1653)
October 2006 (1559)
September 2006 (1442)
August 2006 (1306)
July 2006 (1215)
June 2006 (1189)
May 2006 (1223)
April 2006 (988)
March 2006 (938)
February 2006 (868)
January 2006 (1160)
December 2005 (849)
November 2005 (730)
October 2005 (639)
September 2005 (497)
August 2005 (464)
July 2005 (511)
June 2005 (424)
May 2005 (406)
April 2005 (382)
March 2005 (332)
February 2005 (340)
January 2005 (285)
December 2004 (51)
November 2004 (58)

Recent answerers

Ask oldersister agony auntUncle_Phil agony aunt
rcn agony auntOceania agony aunt
troubledtoomuch agony auntSmiles agony aunt

Browse

Recent questions
Recent answers
Unanswered questions
Most discussed
Most viewed

Age differences (1694)
Big Questions (10159)
Breaking up (7792)
Cheating (6138)
Dating (22997)
Faded love (2491)
Family (4383)
Forbidden love (1693)
Friends (7362) <