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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's wrong with him? We kissed so that MUST be serious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi I'm 16 and really need some advice. A few weeks ago I started texting this 18 year old who I really liked. We would text ALL the time, and we would also hang out and stuff, so we really hit it off. One night he dropped me off at my house he gave me my first kiss/make out ... (204 words

To confess or not confess my undying love ... that is the question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello, this is quite a long story, but i will try and condense it as best i can. So what it is about is, five years ago, my female best friend, married her husband. 2 years ago they divorced, but she never told anyone in our circle of friends why. I've always been in ... (395 words


   

I cheated because my wife cheated, but now I want my f*ckbuddy to go away

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hello all, I have been thru a lot in my years of marriage. My wife has lied and cheated so many times that I gave up any hope that we would ever grow old together. After her last round of cheating, I had had enough and decided to seek out a woman for some no strings sex. It ... (442 words

I want to take a break since he takes me for granted

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend of 4 years has been acting so strange lately. He has been very mean, constantly telling me that he doesn't want to talk to me on the phone and that he will call me later. He never calls. It is the same way with seeing him too. He basically wants to see me when he ... (272 words

His body language tells me he doesn't love me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for just over a year. He has post traumatic stress and anxiety. He goes on very low moods and can say some hurtful things like he doesnt love me, he wants to leave etc.. Then wen he comes out a low he says he didnt mean it. We had a great sex life ... (247 words

   

My manly man likes to see she-male porn! Is this a common fetish for men?

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20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - My husband of five years is looking at shemales. He's always had a healthy sexual appetite. However, he has been less interested in me lately and has been acting suspicious so I started monitering his computer. He looks at craig's list everyday, in our area, under erotic ... (297 words

We have the makings of a wonderful relationship. How should I approach this with him without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend of almost a year and a half broke up with me 9 months ago. We were long distance (the reason for the break up says he), and now he's moving back. We've stayed friends and get along extremely well, plus I am completely in love with him. This sounds all fine and ... (239 words

Can you have sex while on your period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

20 July 2007 (? age 13-15 - Hi,I'm wat u would call a curious teenager,and i woz just wandering whether it is possible 2 have sex whilst ur on ur period.i no that it probably isn't possible,but i woz just wandering,so n e answers would b much appreciated Thanksx... (43 words

Do I leave my wife for this other woman?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm in a very difficult position which will probably lead to lots of judgements about me, but, here goes: I've been married (very happily married) for 6 years to an amazing woman. About 6 months ago I met a someone and we hit it off as friends. We enjoyed each othe... (213 words

She's married now and she contacted me saying she still loved me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Please help. 7 years ago I feel deeply In love with a girl that I worked with, I know she loved me too but I was married at the time with children and she had a partner. We never slept together but our relationship was very emotional, we kissed and held each other she was like ... (183 words

How do I get over this fear of being left and trust that not every guy is going to leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - As short as I can keep it, I came out of a bad marriage 7 years ago, it was almost 4 years after I felt ready to try dating again, then I met a man who appeared to be all I could want, we got off to a good start, to cut it short I ended up pregnant. He dumped me as soon as I ... (243 words

I want to know whether it is reasonable to ask him to have no further contact with this other girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I feel, perhaps due to past experiences, that he doesn't really want to be with me, he say's he does and he has never really given me any real reason to doubt this. However a girl he was seeing before he met me has made it clear ... (107 words

She wanted to wait before telling others about our relationship..should I bring it up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - I have recently begun seeing a girl I met while at a volunteer summer job. We clicked the instant we met and we have been seeing each other regularly for over 2 months now. She was just getting over a very unhealthy relationship at the time I met her and it seemed like I was a ... (149 words

Should the top of one's penis always hurt when you ejaculate?

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20 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - is it meant to kind of hurt on top of your penis everytime u ejaculate???... (15 words

He's a friend and we have sex. Should I wait and see if he wants to take this further or just give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I am really confused, I need everyone’s help. I knew this guy a few years ago and we just ran into each other a month or so ago. We have been messing around and I have been confused. He only calls me once a week, but he does little things when I am with him that seem like he ... (366 words

Having sex is painful for me. Can anyone tell me why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

20 July 2007 (F - Hi guys, i first had sex when i was 13 (totally stupid i know!) As usual with ur 1st time it was very very painful. However i have slept with two guys since (Im 19 now) and each time it has been excrutiating!! I have usually bled for about a week afterwards. I g... (149 words

Hes a flirt and I dont know if he actually likes me as anything more as a friend with benefits. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - i was rejected by one of my guy friends and this made us a lot closer. now he gets jelous if i flirt with other guys and i spend loads of time with him. my friends said i should ask him out but i think hes gone on holiday now. i cant stop thinking about him, i still really like ... (101 words

I have trouble accepting dates with guys! Why am I this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - I am always thinking that I would like a boyfriend to love me and stuff, and I fancy a nice boy, but then when he asked me out i felt sick and couldn't face him. Now i do not fancy him at all, but he still likes me. this has also happened once before. It is so frustrating! ... (78 words

Is it wrong to hang out with her even though she wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - update to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-ex-trying-to-seduce-me.html well my ex. has calmed down a bit not trying much anymore but we've started hanging out alot more like the other day we went to the movies and last night a concert, so what im wondering is it wrong to ... (57 words

Does everyone find giving oral sex a chore? What's your view on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I have a question... Does everyone (boys and girls) find giving oral sex as a chore, or something. Alot of the people I talk about as though they don't like to give and only give because they love their partner and they want them to enjoy it. I've tried both recieving and givi... (132 words

We broke up and I have a problem with letting go of the man I love. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i have so much problem with letting go the man i love.we have been toghether for all most 2 years and we broke up almost two months now. the problem is i still love him,my heart still aches for him and i want him back so badly.i dont see anyone i rather be with,he is the only ... (99 words

No replies to text messages and he said he wouldn't be able to see me for 5 months! Should I just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i need some advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. We've been friends for about 10 months and been together for 7 of those! we used to get on so well. hes the nicest guy you could ever meet. im at uni so we could only see each other every 2 weeks or so which sucked but ... (324 words

His friends told lies and now he's broken up with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - What do you do when your long term boyfriend breaks it off, (for stupid reasons of course) and doesn't want to talk to you, based on something his "friends" said. When in reality they aren't his friends, and want to have a threesome with you. Very twisted situation. Advice...... (49 words

I am finding out that some of my boyfriend's friends are cheating on their girlfriends, how do I know my boyfriend isn't doing it too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am finding out that some of my boyfriend's friends are cheating on their girlfriends. How do I know if my boyfriend will be just like them? Are there signs to look for? I have never thought of him doing this to me but with some of his friends doing it... just concern... (71 words

Our families hate each other and now that we are engaged-his mother has freaked out. What should we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we are crazy about eachother. The only problem is our families- they dont like eachother, and dont want me and my boyfriend to be together. Recently, we have decided to get engaged, but when his mom found out, she call... (164 words

My bf wants me to be more 'sexually adventurous'...is this a good thing or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend of 10 months wants me to be more sexual with him, is that bad? he wants me to do a lot more sexual positions as well as go down on him a lot more than I do. I dont want to disappoint him so Last night we did it in the middle of the night being very spontaneous. I ... (77 words

I'm having an abortion in a week and I feel so sad about that. How can I cope? Any advice??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I am 20 years old and booked in for an abortion in a week.....i have an amazing life and would never be able to do what i want if i had a child, although it is making me feel really sad, i feel really close to my unborn child of 7 weeks. the father wants nothing to do with ... (104 words

My sister can't concieve and I am pregnant again. How do I break the news to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - How do I tell my sister who has been trying to conceive for 4 years that I am pregnant again? I am 26, with a 3 month old baby. My older sister who is 30 has a 4 year old daughter, but has been trying to conceive again since her daughter was born and has been unsuccessful. I ... (212 words

My teacher split up with his partner...should I make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - Hi its me again remember before when i said i was in love with my teacher and that he was in a LTR...? Well now they have split up and i really wanted make a move but i don't have the guts because i know almost for sure he'll push me away and things between us will never be... (78 words

He's on holiday and he hasn't contacted me once! Am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Is it stupid to wish he'd contact me? This is something which has been bugging me for a while. I have been on holiday in America. Whilst there I made an effort to keep in touch with my boyfriend. A few days before I came home he went away. He went to some small islands of... (183 words

We quarrel all the time and he doesn't trust me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - i am a girl of 21 dating a guy of 28 the problem is dat we quarrel all the time and he does not trust me.any time we decide to end the relationship,we find out that we cant stay without each other. every body arround us want us to quit the relationship cause it is getting so ... (70 words

We need to separate but feel stuck in a rut! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 4yrs, our relationship is volatile up and down although we have a very healthy sex life. Before he met me, my husband had very few girlfriends, worked 7 days a week, he was 40 when we married. Things have got steadily worse, He can be very easily ... (204 words

He says 'he loves me but...he's not in love with me". How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have been with this guy for just over a year now. We were best friends before we statred dating. He really took care of me and made me feel more loved than ever before. He was changing his entire life in order to better himself and make himself better for us or so he said. ... (323 words

I'm an Illegal Imigrant! I am scared if I tell him, he'll think I am with him only because I want marriage fior american citizenship! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi I have a serious question.Sorry to all of you that might get offended from this message. I have been living in the states for few years now, but I over-stayed my visa and have been illegal Imigrant for 5 months now.Never planned on it, but it kind of happend this way.... (343 words

Very worried about my husband's spending habit on clothes! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Recently I found out my husband spent $7,000 on shirts, T-shirts, undershirts and briefs claiming "they were collectible and have a classic design!". I knew he liked his fashion and clothes, and nothing wrong with that - but taking it to this extreme?? It does seem worryi... (261 words

I love her but how is it possible to find out if she feels the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hello, i am a 22 male living in california united states and i am in love with someone, who is living abroad. But how do i know or how do i tell her the feelings that i have for her in my heart. I cannot talk to her, because our families had a huge argument on a stupid t... (155 words

Is sharing a kiss with another guy and liking him really telling me my current relationship isnt working? Any views?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I shared a drunken kiss with my boyfriends work colleague. We both have partners although he hasnt been with his long, we have txt each other and agree we both find each other physically attractive and enjoy each others company. We are both in agreement both partners shouldnt ... (76 words

We've been dating 7 months and he's pulling away! What do I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hello, A question for guys please. I feel sick and feel like crying my eyes at the moment. I know I shouldn't let anyone make me feel like this. I know I don't deserve this, but I can't help it. I've got a lot going for me, I'm attractive, successful in my career and have ... (276 words

How effective is using just a condom to prevent pregnancy?

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20 July 2007 (F - How effective is using a condom to prevent pregnancy, without any other form of contraception, such as the pill? ... (19 words

I'm not that confident in bed..so how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - basically i think i started having sex too young (i was just 14), and i never really had sex with anyone i cared about until my last boyfriend. however we've now spilt up and im just starting a relationship with somebody else. the problem is the thought of sex with other pe... (102 words

I drunkenly texted my ex bf-told him I missed him, but I don't. Do I tell my current bf I did this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

20 July 2007 (F - my bf(21)and me(19) broke up few months ago bcoz i texted my ex while i was drunk saying i miss you i want you (it was drunken mistake,i HATE my ex!) but i told my bf we were only chatting about work(3 of us work together) my bf believes me but now i feel guilty should i tell ... (93 words

Two guys fall in love..so why do others try to prevent this from happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - if two guys fall in love and are meant to be togther why should other people prevent this from happening?... (20 words

Bf has an ejaculate problem...is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i think my boyfriend has a problem, y does he cum in 10mins b4 getting into sex, it never use to b a problem til the last couple of months, is it normal or does he need to go n see his GP... (43 words

I have a violent bf who treats me like dirt behind closed doors! Any advice?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a three-year relationship with a guy five years my senior. He's great in public, always kind to me, my family and friends plus very affectionate but behind closed doors it's like he's had a personality change. He treats me like dirt, forcing me to do all the chores while ... (293 words

After sex with hubby, I got a very irregular period! Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone. I have a question that I am confussed about... My husband and I had sex 3 days befor my period, and now I have my period for 3 days now, it started off spotting, and then it was just a real light period, and then got heavy for about an hour or so, then It just ... (83 words

When should I kiss this guy, I like?

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20 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - okay, I like this boy and he likes me but I don't know whan to kiss him. ... (23 words

How do I safely break up with a jealous, paranoid bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi, thank you for taking the time to read this... I really want to break up with my long-term boyfriend, mainly because I don't think that our relationship is healthy. He is jealous and paranoid. I have tried my hardest to make him feel secure about himself; I am always ... (294 words

Can I ask my sister if I can kiss her? Any advice?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - Hi, I am 5 years younger than my sister. I find her attractive. i have never kissed or anything with anyone. Can i ask her to kiss me? If so how far can this go?... (37 words

I've gained 4 pounds and I feel fat! How do I lose it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i need some advice. i am 19 years old, female. i feel like i am getting to fat for my boyfriend. he says i'm not. but i have put on 10 kilos (4 pounds) in the past 12 months. does anybody have any advice on how i can lose some weight? what has worked for you?... (56 words

He looks at other girl's naked bodies...and I'm jealous! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - my boy friend and i have been together for about 2 years, this is also his and mine first relationship i have never been the jealous type untill my first love {him} i know that some of the things i get jealous about is stupid but it also makes me feel not enough for him. he ... (116 words

Is it dangerous to have oral sex with him right after anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend likes to come in my mouth and have me swallow his semen. I'm ok with that...but we've been thinking of trying anal and I'm worried about how dangerous it is to do him orally after anal. Can I do it safely? Is it safe to swallow ? ... (54 words

How do you trust someone after they slept with an ex gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - My bf and I have been together 4 months. My previous relationship turned out to be emotionally and verbally abusive, which caused a lot of issues for me. I was holding on to the hurt and fear of what my ex put me thru (2 yrs prior to meeting my current bf) and it ... (460 words

Would it ruin our relationship if I tell him I was sexually abused?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I was sexually abused when I was a child. I really like this boy, but I don't know if I should tell him. Should I tell him about my past? Would that ruin our relationship? Would he look at me differently and never want to come too close to me?... (50 words

I'm heartbroken. He dumped me for his online gf! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem my boyfriend of over 8yrs broke up with me.we have been together since Jan 3rd 1999, and I was his first love,and sex partner.I was his first everything and the first serious relationship.all he said was that you loves me and cares for me but doesn't have the ... (621 words

Do I have sex with this guy who likes me, or wait until I am married? Any thoughts?

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20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi I'm 16 and I really want to have sex. I know this boy that would be willing to have sex with me but I don't know if I should. I like him and he likes me but I don't think we love each other. He's 18 and I think he's lied to me about his past sex life. I've always been told ... (83 words

Love my bf but his immaturity is starting to annoy me! what can I do?

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20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i love my boyfriend to bits! he is nearly 22, but he keeps acting immature. like he talks in a little baby voice sometimes. it really annoys me because i am attracted to him most when he is being really mature. i have repeatedly asked him to stop, but he keeps going. he ... (117 words

We have a shaky relationship--Is there anything I can say that would make her reconsider, before walking away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - Me and my girlfriend have recently been trying to save our relationship but she is now saying she doesnt know what she wants. Is there anything i can say that would make her reconsider before she throws away the last 13 months and every thing we have built together ?... (51 words

My bf is really upset that I can't orgasm! How can I get it through his head that only 30% of woman orgasm during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - So, My boyfriend and I have been having intercourse for 5 months and i cant orgasm. I've been having sex for four years and never have. I'm okay with it, but my boyfriends not.... He gets very upset and tells me to believe in myself that i can. How can i get it through his head ... (64 words

Troubles with my ex best friend. Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - hi im new to this thing and i really really really need advice! my ex bff is my ex bff because she is now always hanging out with this other dumb girl! she never talks to me and always ignores me i have to go to her always and be in her face to give her my attention! This girl ... (144 words

I'm 16 and still don't have a regular period! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - im a 16yr old girl weighing 6 1/2 stone and i still dont have regular periods (my last one was 4 months ago) is this unusual? is it because i am thin??? thx xoxo... (34 words

I'm lesbian and just realized my straight friend, whom I really like is homophobic! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - So i recently posted a note saying i was in love with my best friend who is straight. Things have changed slightly and she has been wanting to hang out a lot more. Everyday since about 3 months ago i have been wakimng up to her text messages and going to sleep after talkin to ... (390 words

Is it possible that my ex is my online stalker on MySpace?

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20 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Back in October, somebody appeared on MySpace and started stalking me. They kept telling me all these things they knew about me, including where I had gone to lunch that day etc. I figured it was one of my friends, but I saw fairly decisive evidence against it bein... (211 words

He looks at skinnier girls! Does he want a girl, that is better looking than me?

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20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I have been with my guy for about a year and a half and he always looks at other girls that look better then me. They are skinnier then me and they are hot and I get jealous but i just feel like he dont find me attractive anymore and it hurts. I just dont know what to do and ... (111 words

It's like we are together, but technically we are not! How do I know if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Theres this guy. And i really like him. And we flirt all the time but i know that doesnt mean that he likes me. but we get along so well. and he tries to make moves but teachers will come or friends will interupt and i think he gets a little discouraged. and yeah i know what ... (115 words

How do I get him to the next step--commitment and marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I want to move my boy closer to commitment and marriage and i want to ask what's more important to a guy --to focus on appearance, being sexy etc., or to be more vocationally successful? I thought he wanted me to clean my apartment more, but I worked so hard I started to get... (117 words

Dating me again is not what she wanted. So how do I rekindle what we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - my ex fiance broke up with me about a year ago.even after the breakup i,m still in love with her and i think about her all the time.recently i was told that she would like to make things workout...she states that she was afraid and that after going out on a few dates,that she ... (79 words

He's more experienced and I am a virgin. Not ready for sex yet, but do I take this further?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I've been seeing this guy for about five months now and I guess things are going good. It's tough because there is an age gap and he is ALOT more experienced then I am. Anyways I'm still a virgin and as of right now I'm not ready for sex. I'm still iffy about oral so we havn't ... (167 words

Going through puberty experiences and wondering, if I might be gay. Any advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

20 July 2007 (M age 10-12 - Hi im chris, 11 and (jeez this is nerveracking) i am really getting deep into my puberty such as a different voice and really getting tall in short times and other things that id rather not say. Recently i have had very tight stomach feelings and I like stare at my self during ... (93 words

Pain during penetration and increased vaginal discharge! What is causing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i have been experiencing these problems for some time now. here goes. when i have sex after my period i get deep pain inside when my boyfriend penetrates. the deeper he penetrates the more it hurts. also i get painful bowel movements (doing a poo) before, during and shortly ... (98 words

He's in denial about his porn addiction! How do I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend is addicted to downloading porn off the internet he is in denial how do i help him... (19 words

Started the pill 11 days ago. Am I protected from prenancy, yet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

20 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi,i just need some advice. I started a pogestron only pill 11 days ago. I had sex tonight, am i protected from pregnancy? as i was told by a nurse i have to use protection for 2 weeks?... (39 words

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