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He left me as he felt I was pressuring him but he's the only man I've ever wanted to commit to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - For the first time in my life I found the man I wanted to marry. I am a successful attractive 38 year old female with a history of dating many nice men in the past but this one in particular stole my heart like no other. He has ended the relationship due to him feeling like I ... (202 words

We want to take things further without having sex; what do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Yesterday my girlfreind slept over at my house and when my parents went to bed we watched a DVD and when it finished we snuggeled on the sofa and all night she hinted and told me she wanted to take the relationship further without having sex. This was ok however we are b... (165 words

Was forgiving her a mistake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Dear cupid, my girlfriend slept with another man behind my back but i slept behind her back when we had only just started seeing each other. I have forgiven her, have i made a big mistake? ... (37 words

Should I tell my new girl the details of my last relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hey, am wondering if you could help me please. A few months ago, I was with a girl for all of 8 hours before she told me she wasn't sure if it was what she wanted. nothing more than a kiss ever happened, and that was the end of it. Tried to be friends with her but tha... (257 words

He says he doesn't want to live and is destroying himself with booze

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend finished with me 2 weeks ago then we spoke about things and got back together because both of us wanted to be with each other. we have been together for 4 and a half years. He ended it again today stating that the only way we can be together is if we move away from ... (322 words

Does sex hurt the first time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey my friends say that when you first have sex it hurts. Does it auctually hurt or what? Please explain... (20 words

Our relationship is still very new but I worry we don't talk enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi Just one small question, have been with my gf for about a week properly now, and known her for a couple weeks more... During this week its gone long distance (because of the long uni holiday) and we have been talking on the phone every other day for about half an hour or ... (102 words

She says she loves me but needs time; I don't know how to handle it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Please help me i just want to die. My girlfriend that im mad about just broke it off between us. she says she just needs to find out what she really wants, but she doesn't know. she doesn't know if she wants to be in a relationship but she still loves me? she says she loves me... (98 words

I'm having my first crush and I don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am a 14 yrold boy with a first ever crush. Its so bad that i cant sleep! My crush is on my best friend's 15yr old sister. Im fat and shy. I dont have the courage to ask her out or ask for my best friends permission. I dont know what to do.I know that im probably to young or i ... (78 words

How will I know when he's climaxed if I go on top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to go on top during sex. But if I'm on top when we're having sex, how do I know when he's climaxed?... (26 words

He constantly texts another girl and says she's the only one he can talk to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now. And honestly he is the most amazing guy i could have dreamed of having. But there is a part of me that wonders if he is sincere in being only mine... and I want to think that its just me being paranoid but I cannot ... (453 words

Sex is still hurting after several times of doing it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago i had sex for the very first time with my boyfriend of 3 months. Since then we've had sex a LOT...the weird thing is though, its still hurting me and Im pretty sure my hymen is still, intact. Can anyone PLEASE explain why its still hurting after al... (59 words

He said he loved me then became distant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have been in a sexual relationship with a male friend for approx two years after i moved from our hometown he told me he loved me, but after this incident i he has been very distant with me. did he mean it when he said he loved me?... (49 words

He says he had fun but doesn't want to date me; how can I win him over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Last night i spent them most amazing night of my life with a guy ive liked for ages now. It was just like we were going out (although we were both drinking and he said he probs wont remember it in the morning) however in the morning he woke up and came and gave me a kiss so he ... (126 words

Is she checking me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - she at times stares, glances, or looks down at me......... somtimes when i'm standing with my friends or by myself or if i'm walking towards her or just standing across from her when she talks to me or i talk to her she looks down at my crotch and possibly when i'm walking... (144 words

I got a phone call from my ex's friend; I don't know what's going on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My bf finished things about 6 months ago, it had been a long distance relationship for 2 years. He really didn't give me a proper reason for the split and he did it by text. Anyway there have been times where I felt upset and on one occassion I phoned him to tell him that I had ... (256 words

My boyfriend is wrongly convinced I fancy his mates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 18months, everytime i think our relationship is good he accuses me of fancying his mates, I get on well with people and i think it's good that i can chat to his friends but he always thinks i fancy them. When we go out he analyses everything and ... (89 words

I feel stuck in the middle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - Whilst on a weekend away with my friends, we met up with some of her other friends, one of which(lets call him Andy) admitted to my other friend (Lucy) that that he fancied me, I liked him too, and we french kissed on the Saturday night. However, my other friend (Sarah) who has ... (149 words

I really like him and we drunkenly fooled around; then he did the same with another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - Please help me, i'm really confused. A couple of weeks ago, i was very drunk and at my best friends 15th, me and a very close friend got very drunk and ended upstairs and doing everything but sex. I do really like him, because doing that much means a lot to me, and have to ... (131 words

I love my husband but our marriage isn't great; now I've fallen for a guy at work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Long story. I have fallen for a guy at work. He feels the same and we are in love. I have been married 18 months and everything was fine until this guy came along. It isn't infatuation - I know how being in love feels. I think of this guy 24/7 and he does me too. I started as ... (148 words

I picked at my ear and now it's hurting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need some advice. I think there was a bug or germ that went into my left ear. I think it was caused by when I was picking my ear with my finger. Now I feel something inside and it sort of hurts. Should I be worried? I am afraid that this bug or germ may be invading my body. ... (62 words

I'm seeing an older guy and it feels like we just don't make the effort with each other anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm seeing an older guy and it feels like we just dont make the effort with each other anymore. I text him and ask how he is and he doesn't reply because he's too busy out with his friends, should i just let him go and move on?... (48 words

I made a scene in front of his kids; how can I fix the trouble this has caused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - Me and my boyfriend have recently started going out, only for a month, but we've fallen in love with each other. He has 2 children, 5 and 3, and he was going to go back to his ex wife, for the children, but said he wasnt happy in that relationship, and would have stayed just ... (565 words

I'm 13 years older than him... Is that bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - is 13 years older bad? Ive got chatting to a really sweet man but problem is he is 18 and im in my 30's, he wants to met up, im a bit unsure because of the age gap but he looks older then his age. any advice?... (53 words

I am a single guy and i think i have fallen in love with a married woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M - I am a single guy and i think i have fallen in love with a married woman who i work with. She has been with us about four months now and she is a very attractive sophisticated lady, and i have total respect that she is married. However i do sence a very strong connection ... (236 words

Can a person find love if they suffer from anxiety and depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Can a person find love if they suffer from anxiety and depression? Hi, I am a 25 year old male who suffers with anxiety and depression. My main goal in life is to sort out all the problems I have and get my life back on track. Because I have been let down a lot in the ... (565 words

She keeps looking at me! Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - why does she keep looking at me? is it for a reason? i knew this lady for almost a year, and she has a friend that's as well is a female. she keeps glancing and looking at me whenever i walk by her or whenever she walks by me. i'm always wondering why does she keep looking... (125 words

How do I ask her out to the pub one night? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi every1 i met a girl last night in a pub and she came up 2 me and we got chatting. i got her number and she got mine. i want to ask if she wants to go for a drink same time next week, But i dont know how to put it or what to say on the txt?? any help??... (62 words

I told him to keep my number incase things didn't work out between him and his girl. He said yes. Does he still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - please help, i have met a really nice guy problem is now i am single he has been seeing someone for a couple of months, i know he fancys me still becouse he keeps looking at me, so i had a bit to much to drink the other night and text him, i wrote still think you are gorgeous... (165 words

My long distance boyfriend is mean to me online but affectionate to me in person! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - Fun with long distance! Why is my boyfriend all snuggly and affectionate whenever I visit him, but a bit of a meany online? I fell in love with my boyfriend online, though he wasn't very attractive in photos, because I liked his intellect. We met in person, and not on... (218 words

I'm straight and love men, but when I come, I think of women--what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a straight girl but as long as I remember whenever I masturbate or have sex I can only come by thinking about girls having sex with each other or with me. I've never fancied a girl in my life, I love men and I've always felt satisfied in my relationships with men, ... (72 words

My boyfriend isn't sure he loves me...what do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - What do you do when your boyfriend of 2 years isn't sure if he loves you or wants to be with you anymore? I'm heartbroken, but I'm still holding on to him, to a future we promised together. He says he just needs time to find himself, but I have a sinking feeling he's not coming ... (72 words

We broke up and she'll take my calls, but not see me--what is up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

1 July 2007 (M - Hi, Ladies, this is for you please! My ex and i are recently broken up. I called her a few times to invite her out, she took my calls, but didn't see me. She went on a trip last week, and came back last Tuesday. I phoned her then, left a message. Just a "hi, welcome back... (222 words

Help me give my wife a night to remember!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I really wanna give my wife the night of her life and seduce her. We have been married for about 8 years and are still madly in love and have a great sex life. I want to make it a night to remember for her and I want to have the best sex I've ever had with her with loads of ... (150 words

I want to break up with my shy boyfriend for another guy--is that wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - I recently started going out with this guy but since I've been back at school (I was on holiday for 2 weeks) I haven't felt the same for him and I really like this other guy. I've liked the other guy for some time now but I gave up hope on him because he wouldn't admit he liked ... (147 words

My boyfriend read my chat logs...I feel like my trust has been violated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hello all, first time so thanks in advance for your thoughts. I caught my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years reading my internet chat logs behind my back... I was really upset and felt like he invaded my privacy (although, in honesty I have nothing to hide). I had let slip that on... (168 words

I slept with someone else everytime I temporarily broke up with my boyfriend..is this okay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend because we always fight and argue a lot. I hate the fact I did. Anyway, when we broke up...I slept with someone else because I thought it was really going to be over this time and I should move on. But a couple days later I got back together... (167 words

My girlfriend dumped me without warning...what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I've just broken up with my girlfriend of 5 months but during this time the relationship was very serious. Last week everything was fine and then I received a text saying she wasn't ready for a relationship and we were over. We are both at the same uni and live 2 streets apart ... (91 words

Sometimes I'm afraid of social situations, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M - I went backpacking around Europe for 3 months on my own, paid for it all and went on my own. Everyone says it was a brave thing to do. But yesterday I was about to go to a retirement party for my A-Level teacher and I didn't have the courage to knock on the door where the part... (93 words

Where do you met people in their 30's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Where do you met people in their 30's?? I have had a enough of internet dating it hasn't worked me and just getting fed up and losing faith that there is a mr right for everyone. I'm 31, have a good job quite good looking but I just cant seem to met anyone nice or hones... (106 words

I just really want to know why i'm having them dreams and what do they mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I wrote up here yesterday and this was my question. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-my-teachernow-im.html. If you wanna know more about what I'm on about. Thanks for the reply I got, I forgot who it was off now but thanks. Anyway I'm writing ... (392 words

How do I find out if he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - i don't know what to do i really like a boy who is really clever funny and comfortable around him i realy want to find out whether or not he likes me but i don't know how to go about this his stepmum who is mates with my mum keeps on telling my mum little things wich get my ... (82 words

I've fallen for a guy who has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm falling for a guy who's already seeing someone. He's been with her for nearly two years but they were beginning to have problems. I've had this massive crush on him since I met him and it doesn't help matters that we have so much in common and his mum likes me more than his ... (73 words

It is normal for some skin on my penis to detatch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi im a 14 year old male lately a bit of skin has detached from the base of the top of the 'pink' bit of the penis is this usual, or is it suppose to happen later.... (40 words

My question is will I wait for him to call or should I be the one to make the move first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Just last night I had a fight with my boyfriend, for I did ask him about something and he did answer me but for my curiosity I asked him again and again, it's about a male friend of his who wanted to borrow money.... I accepted the fact that I did question him a lot, he hated ... (145 words

I am having a few problems trying to overcome an abusive relationship and wondered if anyone can help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am having a few problems trying to overcome an abusive relationship and wondered if anyone can help. We split almost a couple of months ago. Within our relationship, though on occasion he could be thoughtful, intelligent and caring, he also had a temper. He hit me several ... (817 words

I like a guy who is only 10 years younger than my mum. Could this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. I am a single mum and I've been single since I split from my daughter's father 3 years ago. My ex and I get along well and he still is a fantastic Dad and my daughter loves his gilfriend, so I have no problems there. Since we split... (182 words

I want to tell her in a way that says I love you with all my heart, and make her feel really special that she is the chosen girl kind of thing but I just don't know how to put it all together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hey everyone, Sooo my girlfriend and I recently had sex for the first time. She is not a virgin. However I WAS but she does not know this. I would happily tell her but she has never asked and also I am a few years older than her so I thought it might turn her off. ANYWAY.. I ... (148 words

I have this dreadful feeling that she has made her choice, and it's not me. Can the friendship be saved at this point? Can I make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm in a very confused spot right now. Over the past year or so, I met a great girl in college and we became close friends right away. Over the time we've known each other, I developed a pretty heavy crush on her. She had a boyfriend for as long as I've known her who has ... (345 words

My dad has terrible rage issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - My dad has a very bad temper he an my mum had gone through many crisis over the years to solve this problem up and it has work because of her patience and Christian will to have a close family. Lately my dad aged 70 has gone back to his complaining and anger attacks blamin... (549 words

I love him and he wants to leave his fiance for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ive been with a guy who has a fiance. We have become so close that he wants to leave her, he says he has never felt this way... he cries to me because he is in such a mess... he tells me he is inlove with me and wants spend his life with me instead. The problem here is ... (267 words

He's gone off sex and doesn't know why; I'm getting frustrated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend has gone off sex but says he doesn't know why. He won't talk about it and whenever I bring it up it creates a massive argument. I'm feeling extremely frustrated, not just physically more mentally that he can't share things with me. I feel less close to him by the ... (140 words

Is it worth telling my ex how I still feel about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I used to see this girl we dated for eight months then one night she calls me and tells me that she wants to take a brake from us because our relationship was getting to serious for her “the whole sex thing”. So she broke it off with me and she wanted to be friends. So its ... (122 words

My husband kissed another man and he and I don't have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - People might find this question funny or stupid but I'll go ask anyway. How will you feel if you see your husband kissed another man... on lips. Will it occur to you that he's gay? I was disturbed and I confronted him about it and he said it's a joke. I love my husband, b... (121 words

She cheated on me but I still love her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi i am a 16 year old male i have just broke up with my girlfrend she got blind drunk at a party and had sex with another man. she said she didnt meen for that to happen i do believe that. We broke up that night she told me, she said she had lost feelings for me and would need ... (179 words

She's on birth control but she was spotting, could she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend is on the birth control patch. After her period, we had sex. She had her new patch on for less than 24 hours. When I pulled out, I saw that she was still spotting. I didnt wear a condom. If I am correct, spotting means that the egg has not yet been fu... (108 words

My husband still says 'I love you' to his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband still tells his ex-girlfriend that he loves her. Am I wrong to fell up-set about this? I don't mind them still being friends, I find it very disrespectul that he contiues to tell her he loves her after I have told him how I feel about the situation.... (50 words

I like a boy who has a girlfriend and I already have a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - So I like this boy that really cares about me alot but he has a g/f. and i have a boyfriend that turns out to have had sex 3 times. and every time i here a country song i think of the other boy and i dont know which one to go with.i mean my b/f is nice and funny in that ... (74 words

My fiance is suddenly acting like a dictator, six weeks before the wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am getting married in six weeks to my boyfriend of 6+ years (also the father of our 18 month old son). As our wedding date approaches, he is becoming more and more controlling- what I do, who we socialize with, how I spend money, etc. We both have relatively traditional ... (125 words

I want to bring some spark to our long-distance relationship but she doesn't even want to talk about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I've been dating a girl for a couple of years now, and it's a long distance relationship. I would like to have phone sex, but she is not at all into that. It's very hard to keep the spice in the relationship when she doesn't want to ever talk about sex. Any advice?... (55 words

I'm in love with my ''straight'' friend, who seems to like me too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in love with my best friend whose straight. Well at least plays it off like she is. (She made out with our Lesbian friend who she knew was a lesbian when she kissed her and she definatley kissed back) There have been many times when her and I are alone and ... (310 words

Would you forgive a friend who used you??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Would any of you ever forgive a girl (or boy) if they used you to talk more to my best friend when i thought she liked me? Well a girl who i loved used me to talk more to my friend. I was quite hurt when i found out the truth that she was just actin to use me e.g. she asked me ... (126 words

I love him loads but he says he doesnt fancy me and is abusive!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - Right ive wrote this problem out times before but ive never got an answer im happy with and what i could do ill tell you the basics of my problem. Theres a boy who i like and have liked for 2 years we've been out in the past and done things(sexually) after we split up. He s... (386 words

We were intimate and then he suddenly stopped!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was with a guy and we were getting pretty intimate (nowhere near sex) but he started to fondle my breasts. It felt really good and I thought I was conveying that, but then he just stopped. I think he stopped because I didn't do anything. I didn't know what to do. What should ... (60 words

Why did she break up with me for five days??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (M - Whats going on? My girlfriend of 14 weeks last week dumped me. out of the blue no reason just told me " i need time to my self " i thought at first she had dumped me for this guy shes been chatting to on MSN for a month called TOM but she told me she didnt wanna date no one s... (777 words

Is it safe to ejaculate more than once in a single condom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

1 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I practice safe sex but I am unsure if it is a good idea to ejaculate more than once in a single condom. That would increase the chance of breakage if I were to do that, right? Thank you for your advice.... (44 words

I'm in love with him, but he's pushing me away all the time, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - well theres this boy im totally in love with him wen im with him he treats me absolutly amazin. then once im not with hes totally horridble towards me and he meets up with other girls i no your going to say chuck him but im to much in love with him ive liked him for 4 years ... (83 words

Why do I always attract Abusers, Liars and Cheaters?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

1 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - why do you think women attract men who are abusers and liars and cheaters? I seem to always meet these type of men. It is usually within the first couple dates that I notice the signs and then I leave them. I just wonder why this keeps happening. ... (48 words

His family hates because I'm more important to him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - ive just got off the phone to my LD bf and found out last night after our nightly call his family said some nasty things about me saying i got him wrapped round my finger and they hate how he puts me before them. they also hate the fact that i call him everyday (he asked me too ... (158 words

My ex is back in my life...is it possible to try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

1 July 2007 (F - Hoping that someone can give me some advice here. My ex and I broke up two years ago as he moved back to his home city and I did not go as I could not relocate with him. I was pretty gutted for awhile as we had been together for ten years but I am ok now. He met someone as ... (296 words

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