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Worried I might be pregnant and people will think I'm a slut

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Question - (26 July 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *-Baby-Face-x writes:

please help me

ive had sex about 3 weeks ago it really scared me as im really young but i wanted to do it, he has been with me much more then 6 months hes really good to me but ive got scared when we was in the middle of it he goes 'is it still on' as there was cum but i realised it was my own he pulled the condom further down nd it scared me could anyfing of got out and into me as ive noticed i have got heavyier i told my older sister about it but not the story im telling you i think i maybe pregnant, next week i shud be on my period so i will give it another week then i mite take the test but im scared that people will think im a slut as i no what i did was illegal im not saying my age but what do you think i should do about this any tips u can give me it also hurt as i was ontop of him...

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A female reader, STAC3Y United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2008):

Im in the same position as you but me and my boyfirend have split up we was together 15 months and by the end he really wasnt the person who i thought he was, but dont bother what people think because the people that matter dont judge and the people that judge dont matter , so as long as you and your boyfriend are happy thats all that should matter. I hope you get the result your after! Good luck x

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A female reader, x-Baby-Face-x United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

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x-Baby-Face-x agony auntthankyou so much use lot u make me feel really better im going to wait till next week but i really dont fink im pregnant im just frightened it was my first time nd it makes me feel better thanks lois i will defiently tell u all what happens and things x my boy is always there for me and always will be he plans to marry me aww isnt that sweet x

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A female reader, LISAXXXG United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

LISAXXXG agony auntIf you have come on your period then there is a slim chance you are preggers but I would still do a test just to put your mind at rest because it's obviously still bothering you hun. XXX

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A female reader, LISAXXXG United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

LISAXXXG agony auntListen you don't need to tell anybody just yet what has happened if you know you are going to be on your period next week just wait, take a test and go from there. There are lots of options waiting for you at the other end hun.

1. If your not pregnant take this as a lesson learned and be more careful next time

2. If you are, is there any support from your family? Mothers usually are shouting and screaming at first but they come round to the idea. I know it sounds horrible but abortion if you think the time is wrong or you cannot cope with a baby then this is an option.

I think you have a great head on your shoulders and you have a good man there to stick by you, no one will think you're a slut, it's up to you to get back in touch, let me know how it goes LXXX

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A female reader, Lois United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

heyaa im roughly your age aswell so i can relate, im not a virgin and i was worried when i had sex because i didnt cme bak onto my period for about 6 weeks and i found out tht happens sometimes after sex if you are quite young. if you dont come on soon have a pregnancy test. I kno gurls and boys these days can be mean and judgemental but most girls have had sex now adays before there 16 and some use a condom some don't. What difference does it make if you have sex with a condom or without. if you want to talk to someone your age about it send me a private message. And it does hurt the first time. but thats no suprise. i dont think u will be pregnant

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A female reader, Lois United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

heyaa im roughly your age aswell so i can relate, im not a virgin and i was worried when i had sex because i didnt cme bak onto my period for about 6 weeks and i found out tht happens sometimes after sex if you are quite young. if you dont come on soon have a pregnancy test. I kno gurls and boys these days can be mean and judgemental but most girls have had sex now adays before there 16 and some use a condom some don't. What difference does it make if you have sex with a condom or without. if you want to talk to someone your age about it send me a private message. x

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A female reader, x-Baby-Face-x United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

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x-Baby-Face-x agony aunti forgot to mention that i come on my period 2 or 3 days later sooooo is there any chance of me being pregnant im just worried

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