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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My fiancee keeps threatening to end the relationship if he doesnt have things his way. We have been together for 4 yrs. Recently, he found out about that his job has an opening in a diff country, and Im not in favor for this because just 6mths ago i left everything behind and moved to him (from N.America to europe). It was difficult for me to do that and I just feel that he wants to pursue his job ambitions more than what he and I had planned on (settling in europe). It feels that he picks on my wrong wording or if i say something or ask something that he doesnt like, he threatens to break it off. I dont know what to do, I feel very insecure. What should I do? is this normal in a relationship??
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 If he is acting in this manner now it will only get worst when you get married. Cut your losses and get out of this relationship. I know it sounds easier than it really is but you need to concentrate on what makes you happy.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (26 July 2007):
 No i don't think this is normal in a relationship, there absolutely has to be give and take and he can't have evrything his own way all the time.
If he is like this now and he gets away with it it will more than likely carry on for the rest of your relationship.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): youve been together a longtime but he seems very self centered you gave up alot to be with him and u must be at the end of your tether he only treats you this way because he knows you wont leave him maybe u should call his bluff
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