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She said she needs her space and her friends say she will come back to me

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30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 4 months has jsut left me 5 days ago, she doesn't want a relationship becasue she's jumped out of a two year one and went with me. She says she still loves and cares about me but just doesn't want a relationship at all with anyone. She wants tim... (225 words

My boyfriend has a suspicious mark on his neck; could it have been a girl, is he fibbing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - it may be nothing but a few days ago i saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing to do) but i am not sure how ... (81 words

In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend It's taken me some time to realize this but I am in love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend. The thing is, I am reasonably sure that she has no interest in me at all, she sees me as one of her best friends, as a "big brother"... (330 words

I am not sure how to tell if a girl really has been leaching on to his neck or if his reasons are genuine.

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - It may be nothing but a few days ago I saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing to do) but I am not sure how ... (81 words

We're still very much newly weds, we shouldn't be having problems like this!

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I just caught my husband who just cheated on me like 2 weeks ago in yet another lie about hiding his porn!! If you've read my last post you saw that my husband of not even 7 months yet, cheated on me (had an emotional affair and kissed his ex while I was at work... all the ... (634 words

Whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems to get really stressed about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age - My girlfriend and I are in our late 40's. We have been living together for about 7 months and have talked openly about marriage in the next year or so. The problem I have is that whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems to get really stressed about ... (175 words

My friend just lost her husband. I sent her flowers, but what else can I say or do to console her?

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My friend just lost her husband. I sent her flowers, but what else can I say or do to console her? I’ve never had to deal with a loss of a loved one so I don’t really know what to say or do? I’m taking this loss extra hard too, because without my friend or my husband knowi... (248 words

Should I ignore her a little now when I see her or would that just make her think "Good now I'm rid of him"

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30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - There is this girl (A LOT Younger) I'm chatting to that got pissed because I flirted with her but she didn't mind at first. Later I did it again and then she did not want to talk anymore and was supposed to send me a pic and said she's not going to anymore because her phone is ... (149 words

Has my boyfriend been cheating on me???

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a girl told him that she had ... (150 words

How can I break this vicious cycle? I need a miracle, I need to find my way back to how I used to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've got bipolar disorder and most of my life I've been clinically depressed. I'm on medication for many years now, but you know what? When your life is miserable and sad then there cannot be no magic pill to make you feel better. I've got a PhD, I'm working in Cancer ... (251 words

My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!

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30 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, because she likes talking to ... (75 words

I masturbate and search up porn. I really want to stop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys. I know that what I am going to say is kind of not right because I am only 12, but as part of puberty we all get sexual feelings. And so do I. I have dreams about having sex, I masturbate and search up porn. I really want to stop. I really do but can't. Any advice here? ... (65 words

I am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for me and my partner to make love while we are in the bath...?

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for me and my partner to make love while we are in the bath, as I am nice and relaxed when I am in the bath.... (34 words

How can I change my mood and stop thinking these crazy things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I love my boyfriend to death. My main problem is mostly with myself. A lot of the time I’m creating scenarios in my head that I know aren’t true (and I have no reason to suspect that they are) about my boyfriend and I make ... (318 words

I told him i thought i might be pregnant and he has gone out drinking.

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, I'm a student nurse and I think I'm pregnant althoguht we have been careful (I'm going to do a test tonight) Recently things between us haven't been the same he's started drinking more and tonight I told him I thought I might be ... (103 words

I want us back together and back to normal.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi me and my girlfriend have recently split up, we was together for a year and a half and we are both young.I love her still and she loves me still but she doesnt like the fact that I look at other girls. I want our relationship to be back to normal but the arguments are ... (64 words

Can guilt make you feel angry?

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - if you feel guilty about something that you hve done wrong can that guilt make you feel angry?... (18 words

Why do i need the toilet when i have sex?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - this is an embarrassing question but why is it that every time i have sex i get the feeling that i need to go to the toilet? even if iv just been.... (32 words

She's pregnant with our baby and is telling me she needs space from me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi there, My girlfreind and I have found out that we are expecting a baby, She is approximately 14 weeks gone. However she now tells me she doesn't know how she feels about me, and that she just needs space and time to see if things change. I hardly see her any more, and it... (120 words

We have twins together but i like his friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boybriend for 6 years and we have twin girls together. We have not had a very good relationship. We have a mutual friend and about two years ago I started to develop feeling for him. I tried to forget about him and the feeling but couldn't and one day he ... (102 words

Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills and housework, then ... (893 words

He does not seem to want to spend any time with us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend spends loads of time wih his mate, I'm talking five to eight hours a day. Is it normal we've been on and off as a couple for five years and he asked me back a month ago, He works comes home and goes to his mates house, I'm left at home with our 2 children and I feel... (93 words

Why does she call me bad names all the time, or why do I get the feeling that she doesn't want to see me happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I want to know why my mom is so against me? the reason I ask is because she only has two kids but, your mom is supposed to be there for you when no one is. But in my case my mom never helps me, she always talks bad about me, if I need help with somthing she is never there but ... (114 words

I love him but i'm not happy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - How do i break up with my boyfriend i love,but am not happy with?... (14 words

I don't know what to do - I have fallen for a guy who is married.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do - I have fallen for a guy who is married. I think he also has a kid but I'm not sure, although I've seen him around with the kid a couple of times now. The thing is that we both really like each other but nothing physical has ever happened between us.. ... (116 words

What does cut and uncut mean, penis-wise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - whats the difference between a cut and uncut penis?... (9 words

Is it healthy for us to go out seperately?

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30 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - my fiance says it is healthy for the both of us to go out alone with our friends.Is that true or not?... (22 words

We have been together ten months and i want to marry him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Why am I in such a rush to get married? Okay, I am 21 years old and I have been with my guy for 10 months. We fight frequently have almost broken up a few times but have gotten through it. Even after all of the times that he makes me want to pull my hair out I still can't ever... (122 words

I love my boyfriend, but i want his mum.

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30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi there, i am young and scared and also confused! i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now and for the past year i have had sexual fantasies abou his mum. my question: am i gay ...or am i not? i dont know how to tell! you see i love boyfriend and th... (134 words

Does it hurt her or is it pleasurable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - i am a 35 year old healthy male. married. having great sex (weekly 5-6 times). my wife screams and shout loudly while she climaxes. after couple of minutes, she become normal and she does not remember that she had screamed. she says, she had throughly enjoyed. i am confused, ... (67 words

Is it true, 'what comes around goes around'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - My partner left after seventeen years togther. She found a new boyfriend within a few days. She handled the breakup poorly telling me over the phone. I turned up at her workplace to she if we could sort things out but was only to find her new partner turning up to pick her up i... (210 words

If i don't have sex with him, then i have really lost him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I recently wrote about my husband cheating and going back and forth undecided who he wants to be with me (his wife) or his lover. And i know its obvious that i should leave him and I'm being strong and I'm trying to move on with my life, BUT when he comes down to see his girls, ... (219 words

My boyfriend is now divorced and has said to me he will never marry again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 July 2007 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 years. We are both very serious about each other (we’re both in our mid 20s). It really bothers me that he sounds like he will never get married again. He was married when he was 19 and has a kid (7yrs old) with his ex-wife. ... (342 words

I'm a 64 year old male, and I have had a difficult time in getting the girl I dated in college out of my mind for the last 40+ years.

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30 July 2007 (M age - I'm a 64 year old male, and I have had a difficult time in getting the girl I dated in college out of my mind for the last 40+ years. I'm completely happy and satisfied with my wife and love her dearly, however, as hard as I have tried I can't seem to remove the feelings that ... (261 words

How can i tell if she wants more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - How can you tell? Hi. I ran into a girl who I dated a couple of times a few years ago on facebook. We exchanged emails since the new year. Since then we have been out a few times. How can I tell if we are just friends or if she wants something more? Preferable witho... (69 words

Could it be that I'm so scared of being rejected by him that I'm over-analysing everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met a boy a few weeks back and I really like him. He seemed to really like me too and we exchanged numbers. He called the next day and we arranged to meet up a few days later. On the day, he said he couldn't make it as he had to work. Since then I've only met up with him 3 ... (297 words

How can we repair the broken trust before it tears us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hello! I was online the other day when a random woman contacted me telling me my boyfriend was chatting with her and planning on a rendezvous with her next weekend. She then went on to forwarding their entire conversation to me. It was very unpleasant to say the least. I then ... (125 words

I find it hard to trust him because I have had 2 failed marriages both because they cheated on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age - I have had two failed marriages both of which they cheated on me. My relationship with my boyfriend is falling because I find it difficult to trust him, it is not because he has done anthing wrong, he wants to go to night clubs with friends which I don't feel happy about and ... (105 words

How do i stop my daughters nightmares?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey my two year old girl is having a lot of night-mares recently. So i'm up nearly all night with her because she can't sleep. Anyone got any ideas on how i can help her sleep? I tried reading her a happy story before bed time, i tried keeping the light on and sitting with... (68 words

Is it ok to carry on with the distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend but we are seperated by distance it is okay to continue... (15 words

I don't know if I'm being selfish but I can't keep hanging on wondering how long it will be till he next speaks to me or if he will ever ring me again at all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to bits and im pretty sure he feels the same about me. The only thing is that he has a baby with his ex girlfriend and she has just recently stopped him from seeing his baby, for no reason. Obviously this has affected him badly and he has become depressed ... (181 words

What are the best posistions, when pregnant.

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - When having sex during pregnancy, what are the best and comfortable positions... (12 words

My husbands ex is always at parties we go too.

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband's best friend's wife, and my husband's ex are best friends. So every time we go to my husband's best friend's parties ,his ex is there. We both talk to each other but still i feel uncomfortable and it makes me mad to think that my husband loved her. Otherwise ... (62 words

We attended a wedding and he spent more time talking dungeons and dragons with his friends than talking to me... I am starting to wonder if he is the guy for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (F - I had a really down weekend with my boyfriend. He noticed I was a bit off by very few times I respond back “I love you too”. We attended his god sister’s wedding and I was very upset about how much attention he pays on me. He was talking to his buddies about D and D stuff which ... (335 words

He gets uncontrollable urges to sleep with other women... our sex life is great, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 July 2007 (F - Hi, I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, he is 34, me 35. We moved to China a year ago to work and during this time our relationship has gone downhill. Partly due to the lifestyle, not having enough space from each other and various frustrat... (322 words

I'm suffering today, i need help again please.

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys. I'm doing rubbish today. (For those who don't know: It's just over a month since my 2 year, long distance relationship broke up. She says she was finding it too hard and doesn't want things to drag out, so she split with me 5 weeks before I was due to go up to see her ... (501 words

She wants time to herself.

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30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 4 months has jsut left me 5 days ago, she doesn't want a relationship becasue she's jumped out of a two year one and went with me. She says she still loves and cares about me but just doesn't want a relationship at all with anyone. She wants time for herself,... (79 words

We have had sex five times and she still has not had an orgasm.

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, im 15, and have had sex with my girfriend 5 times. And so far, i have not been able to get her to have an orgasam. I think this is because i cum first. I am getting very frustrated, And it feels like i am letting her down. How can I "last longer" and insure her having ... (103 words

I smell more when i wear a thong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone else had this problem. When I wear thongs I stink more down there and then when I dont where thongs I dont stink much. Does anyone else have this or had this problem and what do I do about it?... (45 words

What food effects the taste of my cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend says that when he goes down on me and he tastes my cum he says sometimes it is sweet sometimes it is bitter and sometime it is nothing. What food do I eat to make that happen cause I dont understand it. He likes when it is sweet so does that mean I have to eat ... (64 words

It's quite rocky at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - 7 years together (has been quite rocky at times, like any other relationship), should we still be dating or comitting?... (20 words

He does not want me back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - My ex recently broke up with me, I think to explore other people, we would have been dating two years. Even though he's moved on after two weeks, I cant seem to. I still love him with all my heart, and want to go back out with him, even if there is someone better out there, I ... (94 words

He refuses counselling and marriage.

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years. Hubby sex drive very low (app 4 times in a year), refuses to go counselling nor divorce. i am very fustrated at this point. Still in marriage becoz of kids but am giving up. I have tried using tactics to keep flame burning he is not making an ... (59 words

My mum will give me a hard time.

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30 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - Ok i left my husband over a year ago after a bad marriage, i then dated a few men who ended up being complete liers anyway!! i met this man a month a go he's lovely i love him very much and he loves me but now he has asked me to move in with him, i do want to but i know my mum ... (97 words

I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally... why?

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30 July 2007 (M - I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally. One day I wake up and i totally love her and think I couldn't imagine losing her. Then other days I get irritated by her and just feel generally irritated specially when im tired. When I am tired and ... (115 words

I have a friend who I think may be up for a 3some with my boyfriend and I...

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have a friend who I think may be up for a 3some with my boyfriend and I but I am not sure - I could be wrong. I am not worried about ruining our friendship as she is quite open minded, I am more so worried about being knocked back if I bring it up and she refuses. I have ... (210 words

I'm afraid of karma.

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, i'm 18 and i already had not so serious past relationships. i'm afraid that i'll be having my karma in my next relationship which is about to happen now, i can feel that i'm falling for this guy fast but i'm afraid of karma and to expect the unexpected. please h... (55 words

My friends think he is controlling, and i'm not happy either.

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi, basically ive recently got married but we are already having problems we have a daughter together and have been together 4 years previous to getting married. my husband has threatened to leave twice but going as far as packing his packs and me having to beg him to stay, the ... (643 words

My bf's mate calls me scum and punched his ex!!!

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30 July 2007 (F - Hi all, I have a massive problem that I have never heard of at my age, and I would like to know if this is unusual or does this happen a lot. My partner and I went through hell to be to-gether and I love him with all my heart. The problem is, now the trouble has died down wi... (575 words

My boyfriend is paranoid... how can I help him?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is showing signs of depression and has extreme paranoia and refuses to do anything about it saying it's just always going to be there and no one can help him. He had a very disrupted childhood; his parents left him when he was 6 months old and he's been brought ... (354 words

Why do some guy's do this?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering if it is normal for some guys to be really touchy feely with girls they are not interested in relationship wise, while at the same time they are in an actual serious relationship in which they are more respectable and slow paced with their partner? And if ... (58 words

I had sex but couldn't come... why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I just sex for the first time in weekend , but as we got into it I went to put comdom on and i wasn't really stiff, and we kept playing around trying to get it hard enough, finally did get it on most of the way, but then after ages I still hadn't cumed, and then she tried ... (104 words

Am i pregnant and a virgin still?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - We are both graduating students in college. He is my first boyfriend and i never engaged with sex ever since. One night i sleep in my boyfriend pad and something happened, we kiss naked but with out intercourse but he ejaculate near into my vagina, is it possible for me to get ... (60 words

I'm too scared i'll get pregnant.

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - heLLoo im 14 i really wanna have sex i have these funny feelings in my body when i think about it and i wanna have it but im so scared to get pregnant so can someone please tell me a way that i can guarte not to get pregnant please thank you who evr replies xoxo... (56 words

I need to know how to stand up, wipe the tears and put a smile on my face.

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need some help. How does one stand up and wipe their tears off and put on a happy face in the time they need do regardless if they feel broken down?... (32 words

Do I leave my wife for another woman?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello. I could do with a bit of advice.First of all ive been with my girlfriend for 10 years since we was kids im now 27. we have 2 children girl of 5 and boy of 1. i love my children very much.Im an electrical engineer and do ok for us.Now me and my girlfriend dont ... (447 words

Why did he get married if he wanted to chat to other women?

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30 July 2007 (F age - I discovered pornographic stories, written by my husband for other men and women, on his pc. He had asked for photographs of their wives (or them if they were female). This was the third time I had cause to wonder what he was doing on the pc. The previous times he was seemlingy ... (238 words

am i wasting my time????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - hey ...i broke up with an ex a while ago(+/-2months)...and it really hurt..i didnt feel it was over ....but she claimed she needed time alone..oh well it killed me but i slowly started to get over the initial pain...but never stopped loving her... we kept contact ...and l... (217 words

Help! I have a huge crush on a man I cant have!

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok..I have a huge crush on a man I cant have! Im nearly 20 and hes 39..Hes so nice I like him loads!! But the only problem is hes just got back in with his ex,who I know cos shes my dads friend.They all go out together,I joined them saturday.I couldnt help but flirt Im so ... (122 words

I'm so lonely and I don't think he loves me anymore

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30 July 2007 (F age - I wanted to say hello to all on this site..I am a new one here,just found this site...I think I am going enjoy this place... Well anyway, my problem is also like one I read on here and that made me want to join... I have been married for 26 years...and am so lonel... (407 words

What do I tell my son about his father?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - im a young mum, very young mum. i had my baby 3yrs ago, but when i first told the father i was pregnant he just left me on my own, saying its my problem - not his! i think that was really rude of him to leave his unborn-child like that! but the problem is, im dreading the ... (138 words

Do you think i should still have sex wit him?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy.... (54 words

Ex angry that I brought a male friend to a party

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Was it wrong of me to bring a new male friend to my friends birthday party when my ex was there? I didnt know that he was going to be there, none of our mutual friends said anything to me about him coming. I felt kinda bad for my ex, but me and this guy we're just friends so I ... (223 words

Does he like me, or is it just him being friendly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - A guy I recently met through a friend is a super nice and caring guy. I spent a weekend out at the lake with a group of friends, he was there. I live pretty far away, so I don't get to see them often. When I got home I wanted to write him a note thanking him for being so nice ... (214 words

Scared to ask the girl I like out....

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I'am a 14 year old who has a bit of a problam. You see I really really like this girl. But if I ask her out 2 problems can occur. If she says yes then thats great but once the time comes when we break up we will no longer talk and I dont know if i can stand not talking ... (96 words

Concerned about three-some!

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30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Ive been dating my g/f for about 6 months now, and shes pressuring me to have a threesome with one of her friends. The third person is a female, and it should be my fantasy to have it, but i extremly dislike the idea. i love her very much and i suppose i feel like it would be ... (104 words

Should we let our age difference get in the way?

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - She is 21 and in college and I am 18 and finishing up high school, we are both interested in each other but we are both concerned about how the age differance will play into our relationship, should we let that matter so much?... (44 words

How can I tell my fiancee's parents that he hits me?

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - How can I approach my fiancee's parents (with discretion) by letting them know that he hits me at times when I disagree and or just have my opinion towards some topic. I'm afraid of talking to them because they would think Im just lying since he has said something about ... (120 words

At 12 weeks pregnant, is it okay for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me?

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - we are expecting our first baby, i am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me, can it harm our baby.... (26 words

I think my girlfriend may have cheated on me. Here are the signs...

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30 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Okay, I'm worried about a cheating significant other, too. I have trust issues in general, but the thing is my current girl (fiance, actually) who I have been with for two years now almost has this close male friend. They've been friends since high school and are still be... (714 words

My best friend cheats on his girlfriend with me, but he is still with her!

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really like one of my best friends and we mess around and are together a lot but he has a girlfriend. At the same time she knows he cheats and he would rather spend time with me but continues to stay with her, what can I do?... (49 words

I am in love with my best friend's older sister. What should I do?

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friends older sister who is 21 and I am 18, she has expressed that she is into me but still feels weird about dating her brothers friend. I have never met a person who makes me feel as good as she does so I dont wanna give up on her, what should i do?... (62 words

I'm having a hard time finding a man who will respect my beliefs!

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey I'm a 21 year old virgin female, I'm strongly believe in christ, but I'm having a hard time finding a man who can accept and respect that. Any tips?????... (30 words

What are some signs that he likes me, and how can I make the first move?

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30 July 2007 (F - Hi, I am totally in lust with one of my mates. He is one of my good mates and we share the same group of friends. We live 2 houses apart and are very close. My housemate said she thinks he likes me, coz he is always very attentive towards me, and looks happy to see me. I get re... (169 words

Should I keep begging my ex to come back?

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30 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated to be more clear i merely sent a message saying hello how r u to a feamle on the internet i did this once b4 and she was mad but she forgave me but i did it again ... (113 words

Is it wrong of me to want a divorce after discovering other women's pictures?

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - While my husband was out of the house I discovered that during the past 2 years he has been looking at and saving pictures of other women. These pictures are from a fetish site and some are pornographic. When I confronted him, he lied to me and then confessed. Am I wrong to ... (86 words

How can I tell him that I like him, when he already has a girlfriend?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i'v known this guy for a few years now but we didnt really talk. i got this job about 6 months ago and he ends up working there too. ever sence iv been working there we've been talking alot about everything. He seems like the perfect guy, we get along perfect, and he flirts ... (151 words

I feel so wrong for thinking about him this way!

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30 July 2007 (F age - What a relief to see the responses of so many others in the same boat! I have been feeling horribly guilty that I, a devout ordained Christian, can't seem to stop thinking about a married man. The connection we have came at our first meeting--it was instant and complete. In the ... (575 words

I've been chatting with this boy online, and I think I love him!

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Helloo Again im 15 now and am in my last year at school and have been chatting with a 17 year old boy online and by phone who lives about an hour from me and we have got to know eachother really well and we have seen eachothers Pictures and been on webcam so we know its not a ... (169 words

Why does my manager keep looking at me that way?

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30 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - there is a hot manager at my job and he looks at me alot and smiles. I've caught him staring at me several times. He never talks to me, just looks. This has been going on for several months now. What is he doing?... (44 words

My girlfriend is pregnant with my baby, but I'm not in love with her!

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30 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - ok i'm 21, my girlfriends 7 months pregnant and i stay with her and her parents. one problem i'm not in love with her, i'm in love with my ex who is also in love with me. my girl is a great person i just don't think she's the one for the rest of my life like the road looks like ... (97 words

What do you think? Is it time to end the relationship?

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30 July 2007 (F - It seems like my relationship with my boyfriend is reaching its breaking point. We fight over the smallest of things especially when he sees me being insecure, while if it is the other way around I've found I actually talk to him about it and make him feel better. He is never ... (339 words

How can I overcome feeling insecure around my boyfriend's ex?!

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok please help me out here... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months. anyway i went to a club with him a few nights ago and met his ex for the first time. she was stunning, to say the least. even after just having a child(2 mnths ago wit him) she was really thin with... (201 words

I am with someone that is 15 years older than me. How can I keep him interested?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - So I am recently dating a guy that is 15 years older then me and I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to make sure that he stays interested in me. ... (32 words

How can I break up with my boyfriend for good?

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30 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend of 2 years since we finished high school, he is a year older than me. I love him so much, and that's why i cant let him go even though i know he's not who i want. He has a dead end job working as a sales ... (170 words

He wants her-he wants me-now he wants her again.I am devastated. Any advice is appreciated!

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30 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My husband of 7 years cheated on me and when i found out i told him i would forgive him and that if he wanted we can just move on and be a family with our two daughters. He said no that he wanted to be with the other woman. It did hurt but i said ok. four days later he tells me ... (160 words

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