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writes:I've had a crush on a friend for two and half years. During that time, he has been a very good friend to me. He complimented on my looks often, and said things that either could be hints, or he could just be teasing me. I think it's the former. He never mentions other girls in front of me, and even gets mad if his friend brings it up. I was afraid to take the initiative, and hoped that he would.Recently, he found a girlfriend. But she's somewhere far away and not coming back until a couple months later. I'm pretty sure their relationship isn't solid yet.So, my question is, should I tell him how I really feel? Should I pursue him since his girlfriend is away? Or should I just wait until they break up or something?Another thing, if he rejects me now because of this girlfriend, does it mean I have no chance with him ever?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Hi, you should not go out with him while he has a gff - you wuld not like it if someone else has done that to you. Give things some time and if their relationship does not work out, then maybe you can pursue the relationship then but until he is unavailable then i don't think it is a good idea.Good Luck
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (26 July 2007):
 No you should not pursue him whilst his girlfriend is away. This could lead to pushing him further away from you. At the moment he is giving you signals that he wants you, but if you decide to pursue these signals it could spell trouble between all three of you. If he is, as you say, hinting at you, then he will make the mov himself. He would break up with his current girlfriend for a chance with you. I would give hints as to how you feel but not actually flirt as this could ruin your friendship. By giving him hints you are showing you like him more than a friend and then he may pursue tis.
Good Luck :-)
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