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36-40,
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writes:I've been seeing a girl for 2 years now and my friends found out that she dated a guy in our year at school (he was a bit of a loner at school) and they made fun of me.... I don't like to think of her and him, especialy as she says they didn't have sex but i was talking to the guy and he said they did.... When i met my girlfriend she had just turn 17... She told me about all the boys she had been out with (about 7 from the age of 15). Saying "everything" she got up too (i didn't want to know). I've only this year been able to change my attitude to "hey its in the past who cares" but, after being told by mates that she "goes for people who are a bit loserish" SP. I begain to think... I've met 4 of her ex boyfriends and always felt better than them as they didn't look all that..... I then felt, im not much to look at either and i dont think she care's who she's with as long as she's with someone.... 3 of her boyfriends moved away 2 of them not very far and she left them!! she's always left the guy and has slept with 3 virgins including me... I feel that if she could find someone better she would go for it, a few things happened in our past that she said "he kissed me" too and after that i feel very insecure. I don't know how to feel. Anyone else ever feel like this?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 I haven't. However, I can tell you this much: leave the past in the past. She was with these guys when she didn't even know you. You can't complain.
If you were not that much to look at, you wouldn't have a girlfriend. There are handsome guys out there who never make it, you know?
If you start acting and feeling like she's going to dump you, she will, because she'll sense your insecurities.
Take it easy and try to be happy with her.
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