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*hriskindofnervas
writes:Hi im wandering about a year ago i got into girls but its really hard for me to get even close to starting something. i know a girl luran thats really nice but i dont have a chance as she is black and im white so that may not go but were good friends so anywho im wandering what does a girl want out of a boy?but seriously dont tell me the usual "open the door and be polite and respect"stuff i already know that i mean how should i look(hair styles cloths etc)and stuff like that it would be REALLY good if i got advice from a girl around my age 11 but any idvice from girl or boy any age is fine Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): I don't think race matters but it can be a little uncomfortable depending on your neighborhood. If you like her, you should let her know and take it from there.
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reader, chriskindofnervas +, writes (26 July 2007):
chriskindofnervas is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondo you people have any advice on how to tell her i like her with destroying the friendship if she doesnt like me?
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reader, rockelle +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Race does not matter,we are all human. Love comes in all shapes and sizes and colors.If you like this girl it sounds like you are on the right track starting out as friends. But, you do not want to get stuck in the friendship zone so just wait until the right time to show her you are interested and see how she responds do not come on too strong you might scare her way.Even if she is not interested make sure you let her know that you guys can remain friends. You do not have to change your hair or style you want her to like you for you. Good luck.
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reader, chriskindofnervas +, writes (26 July 2007):
chriskindofnervas is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks and the anonymous one we bowl together in a leag every friday wich is like a minidate and i do have good humor as she laughs alot when im joking with her and i think the closest to an asked out date" would be when i asked her to go to the games room wich she couldnt because she and her mom were in a rush but one good thing is there are no racial factors in my family or hers
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): i think that you are already having a great relationship with this young lady. obviously race doesnt matter as you wouldnt be friends in the first place if it was. there are loads of mix raced couples around so you and your friend shouldnt feel any doubts about race what so ever.
dont try too hard with the fashions as this girl likes who you are now so dont try and change who you are.
as for an appropriate date, why not ask her to the cinema or pop to your local mcdonalds or something and spend and hour or so chatting over a burger.
dont rush into anything. just keep it light and your friendship will progress in a natural way. dont be in too much of hurry to grow up.
xx
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reader, daisy99999  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 well the main thing i look for in a guy in a good sense of humour, honestly boys who are funny and smart can charm any girl! in terms of clothes and stuff, don't try to be too cool, just wear clothes that suit you and arn't dorky..follow the celebrities hehe.
as for your question about race, it doesn't matter in the slightest!! black girls are hot hot hot anyway... good luck with it all, i hope you get her! xxx
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