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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get her back into my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I love her with my whole life. At the initial stage she agree to be my friend and had been loving too. But of recent, she just changed and had never being same again. All my effort to bring back the first love had been futile. Trying to forget her was like trying to remember ... (71 words)

I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how ... (87 words)

Can someone help me sort out my life and show me how to have a positive outlook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 7 months, we have a good relationship. I don't know whether I'm in love with her, but I do feel close to her. She says she has never felt like this for anyone before which is quite touchin... (736 words)

My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age - My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this happening? Please help, it is ... (63 words)

I really love him and I'm ready for sex but I'm really really shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I have been with my boyfriend who is 16 also, we have been together for 5 months. He has been away on vacation (mom wouldn't let me go) and he's coming back soon. We want to make up for lost time. I really love him and I'm ready for sex but I'm really really shy. ... (139 words)

I kissed my sister's best mate but I don't want my sister to know about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - On Friday night I kissed my sisters best mate but I really like her and I can't stop thinking about her. The only thing is I don't want my sister to find but I also really want to go out with her because I love her. What should I do?... (50 words)

I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I found my boyfriend's collection of porn. We've been dating on and off for five years and just moved in together. I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn. He's never shown any signs of being gay or bi-curious and we have a very good ... (157 words)

My left chest man boob seems to be a little upper than my right chest man boob, I would like to know is this normal, and how can I get them both at the same level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid, I have read a post earlier, I seem to have the same question but different problem, well my left chest man boob seems to be a little upper than my right chest man boob, I would like to know is this normal, and how can I get them both at the same level, as it wil... (75 words)

Does anyone think there is even a chance that I can sway things around? Is distance really to blame, or has she fallen out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Questions below: My relationship ended a couple of weeks back after 2 happy years despite a distance of 240 miles. I'm finding it hard to accept. She was my first love, and everything seemed to be okay and then she suddenly split with me. How do I just accept that my first lo... (294 words)

I think I want to break up with my boyfriend, but we have the same friendship group and I'm sure it would make things awkward.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I want to break up with my boyfriend, but we have the same friendship group and I'm sure it would make things awkward. He ended up losing his best friend by going out with me, and has recently ditched most of his other friends and spends all his time with my friends, ... (78 words)

I don't know what changed within me - I felt our relationship was a habit more than anything.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years of being together. I have a son (12) from my previous marriage and he has two sons 13 and 17). We didn't live together so the split wasn't messy. My feelings for him changed last summer and when he was on holiday, I ... (422 words)

My boyfriend seems to have spent so much time trying to make my friends like him that he's been ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend didn't get off to a very good start with most of my friends, but he started really making an effort and now they think he's great. Unfortunately, he's spent so long trying to make them like him that I feel like he's been ignoring me, then he has the cheek to start ... (78 words)

Just wondering but which part of a guy's body do you look at first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - (FOR THE GIRLS) Just wondering but which part of a guy's body do you look at first? My mates say they always look at the face, is it the same for most girls? just wondered ... (40 words)

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months now, and I do really like him, but recently he seems to like me a lot less.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months now, and I do really like him, but recently he seems to like me a lot less. He avoids spending time alone with me, and has been flirting with my best friend right in front of me. She doesn't seem to be objecting, but I don't ... (117 words)

I split up with my boyfriend one week ago. I don't think I love him anymore, but may still have a tiny crush.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfriend one week ago. I don't think I love him anymore, but may still have a tiny crush. When people ask him if we are still friends he says yes, but then he never talks to me. When I try to talk to him he gives me an odd look and sarcstic answer. He seems ... (163 words)

My best friend just died and I'm feeling depressed all the time and can't shake myself out of it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend just died and it's like someone has just shot me, run me over and all that. I find it hard because we were so close and now I'm depressed and can't shake out of it like I did last time. Any ideas?... (45 words)

Hi, recently i had sores in my mouth. i have alot of coldsores but usually on my lip and never thought you could get them in the mouth.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, recently i had sores in my mouth. i have alot of coldsores but usually on my lip and never thought you could get them in the mouth. I gave my partner oral sex and am quite confused about what happens. oral herpes is called HSv1 right? and genital herpes is called HSV 2? so ... (90 words)

I discreetly got DNA and the result shows I am not her biological father. I am stunned and do not know what to do.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age - Just found out my 12 year old daughter is not mine, I was divorced recently and an old friend of my ex wife told me when she had a few drinks . I confronted my ex she said it was rubbish but it has been playing on my mind for months. I discreetly got DNA and the result shows I ... (75 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years 4 months ago. I thought I was over him but as we do the same sports we saw each other on a course, but we had a huge argument and now he won't talk to me. I feel I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I want to. I'm giving him ... (130 words)

I haven't done anything before and I don't know how far I should go with him before I say stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really really into this guy and I love him loads and he loves me too but I think that he wants it to go faster than I do. I haven't done anything before and I don't know how far I should go with him before I say stop. I love him so much and I would die for him, but am I ... (68 words)

I have a crush on my friend's cousin. Should I make it obvious I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my friend's cousin. Everytime I see him I get excited or get butterflies in my stomach. I'm not afaid to be around him or anything. It's just that if I tell my friend I have a crush on her cousin she might get mad. If I tell no one, my feelings would just be ... (76 words)

How can I stop my boyfriend continually asking me questions about my past boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Okau I have a couple of questions so please try to answer them!!! THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION - I told my boyfriend that I've had sex with a lot of guys when I was younger (and I have) but he really don't like it and I don't want him thinking I'm a slut so if I tell him that... (243 words)

What can I do about these feelings I'm starting to develop for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Well this has been bothering me for quite a while now. I'm a stay at home father to a 3 year old boy and once a week myself and my son meet up from parents where we met when our little 1's was new born and formed a group going around each others houses. I've always got on ... (551 words)

My ex and my friend are in a wonderful relationship together... I know because she brags about it! It's so painful, so what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A close freind of mine is going out with my ex and we are in the same friendship group. Recently me and some girls friends went out, including her and she talked about him the whole time! Their relationship is going so well atm and because she was the reason we broke up, i ... (210 words)

If I meet one of her ex lovers, I get sick. She won't consider my feelings, so how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I`ve been goin out wit my girl for the last 6 months and she is 19, but before me she slept aith atleast 20 men, and now some of them contact her but everytime i meet someone she been with i get sick, as i imagine them together but she wont understand how i feel and she used to ... (108 words)

He is so paranoid about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll be 15 very soon and my bf will be 18 in a few months. We want to have sex before it's illegal but he's WAY too paranoid about getting pregnant, he wants to wear TWO condoms AND get on the pill! I know it's a good thing to be careful, but I just want him to calm down a bit. ... (76 words)

Whtt happens if you say "I love you" but they dont say it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. This question might apply to several situation, but theres one in particular i want to think about. what happens if at somepoint in the future i really feel i love my gf (ive only been with her for 2 and a bit weeks so far) and i tell her, but she doesn't feel the sa... (108 words)

I always wear a smile, but in reality my head is a mess! I think I'm depressed. How can I get a more positive outlook on things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my gf for nearly 7months we have a good relationship. i dnt know whether im in love with her, bt i do feel close ot her. she says she has never felt like this for anyone before which is quite touching. i have never f... (709 words)

My husband does not support me emotionally

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Within the first three years of my 18 year marriage I moved 100 miles away from home, stayed on my own 7 days a week while my husband renovated an old house,got moved in 2 weeks before my Mum died and five weeks before I gave birth to my second child. Family rows followed. I ... (283 words)

I thought I was gay, but now I like a guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Basically, Back 7 years ago I came out as a lesbian, as i really fell for this girl. In my head i was sure i was gay because I never felt attracted to men (Which i think was because of some incidentsi had at a much younger age) ...It was only 2 years ago I started to become ... (195 words)

Is there something missing here or do I just have cold feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very serious question and hopefully someone that has been in a long, serious, loving relationship (married or not) can help. My fiance and I have been together for over 5 years (we've known each other since elementary school). He is the best guy, we are best fri... (489 words)

I left him once and now he doesnt trust me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone online and after a few months we moved in together. We had alot of disagreements and problems the first year and I told him I was not happy and he was very angry at me and so I left without telling him. When he realized that I had left, he call and asked me to ... (179 words)

He says I am too unstable, but he has got a negative side too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age - Hi...I fell in love with a man...our first dates were all drinking....he was so real...into me...the most positive guy I had ever met....then he showed a very negative side...and he said I guess now you know the real me...he is always making comments about why don't I hit on ... (175 words)

I am 13 and I want to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 13 years old and im dating a boy who says he wants me marrie me :) and we have only been going out for 3 months. and we both love each other very much and we have been doing sex practices. not real sex but with our clothes on and it feels so good when our parts touch :). i ... (84 words)

I think I caught her cheating, but she wont admit it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, For the last few weeks I have had a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating on me. It started about 3-4 weeks ago when she started chatting to men she had met on hotornot. she became really secretive about what she was talkng about online and then soon over the ph... (209 words)

I want to last longer sexually

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship until very recently. We used to only have Sex a few times every 7 weeks or so and I found that I was ejaculating way too quick when having Sex. While she loved the "warmth" of me finishing inside her, I still feel like I should have been ... (119 words)

I am so lonely and alone and want to move home

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i love my boyfriend, i have been with him for over 2 years now and we have a lovely little baby Joshua. i have depressions. ive had it since josh was born i have had i week happiness, and that was with my mum. i live 250 miles away. we was going to move back but he does... (115 words)

I have meltdowns about once a month and I'm pregnant! My husband gets mad at me and I'm also scared for the health of my baby! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - And no I am not talking about meltdowns from a 2-year-old, I'm unfortunatley talking about meltdowns from myself. I'm 24-years-old and recovering from depression. I hold down a full-time job and got a bachelor's degree so I have not let it completely ruin my life. I am ... (434 words)

We've worked through his baggage and financial problems...sort of. I just found out he took out a loan last year in secret! Should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age - I have been with a man for several years. He has a crap load of baggage and we have managed to work through a lot of it. He also had financial issues that we have worked though. Or so I thought. Today I found out he had taken out a 5000 loan a year ago. He did not tell me. I ... (78 words)

My wife has been getting really emotional recently and cries all the time. Is this normal? How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i hope you understand me here because i'm finding it hard to understand myself. Well recently my wife has been getting a bit emotional and the first time i noticed she was feeling sad i asked her what was wrong and she said she doesn't know she just feels like she wants to... (393 words)

I can't climax though sex alone - is there anything I can do to change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend 8 months and i love him very much. He has been my first and only sexual partner. I was his second but i am the only person he has ever had sex with without a condom. Anyway i have no problem reaching orgasm during oral sex yet i can't seem to ... (149 words)

I think he cheated with his 'cousin'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F) - Hi there, I need some advice. I am 38 weeks pregnant and my husband and I have been married now for 5 months. On saturday night he went out to the local pub and got stupidly drunk. By 1am in the morning I was very angry and rang him. Gave him an ear full and told him he ... (197 words)

Can you give a guy a handjob through his pants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to give a handjob without the guy removing his pants, and if so how would you go about doing it?... (23 words)

My girlfriend is done having kids, but I dont have any yet, and I really want one

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 and living with my girlfriend, 34, and her two boys 10 and 12. We have been together over a year now and i realise now that she doesnt want any more children and i do. She has had her boys and now want some time of her own, which i understand. But it leav... (115 words)

My boyfriends stepson is making my life hell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age - my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I love him very much. from his last relationship he had taken on her son who is now sixteen.(last relationship ended ten years ago)this son is always giveing me grief. he has stolen and has no manners. my boyfriend always backs ... (74 words)

He broke up with me, but we still love each other

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, but I don't think either one of us is really over it and I want him back... He dumped me because he said he couldn't do it (not sure what that means). Although, he comes from not such a great family background (parents have a very odd... (668 words)

We have a great relationship, but he isnt in love with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently dating my best friend, we have been on anf off for about a year now. We are together every weekend and we talk on the phone constantly. The problem is he changes his mind about me a lot. I asked him if he was in love with me and he told me that he loves me but ... (133 words)

My gf and I are going to have sex for the first time. She's afraid of the pain, so what can we do to make it more pleasurable for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi me and my gf are planning on having sex tomorrow night for the first time. We are both virgins and old enough. We have been great friends most of our school lives so we know each other well. The thing is shes terrified of the pain and is afraid she won't be able to relax. ... (293 words)

I tend to get jealous and have too high expectations in my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for about 5 months now and we have already declared our love for eachother which is all good. sometimes i feel like i love him more than he loves me (however i know full well that sometimes my expectations are too high). i tend to get really jealous at ... (93 words)

Am I bisexual, or just a cross dresser?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im 24yr straight male who likes to dress in girls clothes. not very often. Recently i met this guy and have became good freinds. he is bi and we started having sex a few months ago and meeting each other once a week with me dressing as a girl which really turns me on and ... (93 words)

He wants me to kick my son out of the house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been going to marriage counseling with my husband for the past few months and things have been going pretty smoothly. now he has told me that he does not want my 14year old son in the house because of behavior issues. he has giving me a ultamatium,"Do something with my ... (69 words)

How can I get more out of sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 yr old girl from New Zealand, and i need some advice, if anyone has any 2 give. My bf and i hav been 2gether 4 around 8 months now, and we started having sex a little more than a month ago. Our relationship is very strong, and it's the real deal, not some flimsy ... (233 words)

My friend got naked at a party to show my husband what a great body she has

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I used to think my husband and i were quite strong and that he loved me but now i am not so sure we had a party and my friend came, she has lost a lot of weight and looks real good now i on the other hand am over weight i am trying to lose it though. she flirted with him all ... (152 words)

Is this a normal penis size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 13 yro black kid and my penis is 6 1/2 inches long and im afraid that i have 2 be huge cuz everybody says im supposed 2 be huge and i dont wanna be made fun of in the locker room. AM i to small?... (48 words)

My sister decided to not be together with her now ex boyfriend because she went into the Army. The issue is that we've been seeing each other since.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really do need some help and advice. I am 23 and my sister is 19 who has just left to go into the Army. Before she left to go in the Army she had a boyfriend who she was with for three months. Since she has been in there they decided to not be together this was three ... (162 words)

My boyfriend dumped me because he says I am a failure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I regain my self confidence be the confidence exuberant individual I once used to be? My boyfriend dumped me because he met someone else, not only has he cheated on me, but his reasons for wanting find someone else is because he thinks i'm a failure! I left ran a... (446 words)

She is after my guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years - normal, happy with ups and downs. we're working things out, we're very in love with each other. recently, he met this girl (a family friend) from a family bbq (that i couldnt go to). his family jokingly/seriously told him to ask ... (263 words)

Is there an unobtrusive way to get my girl to give me a BJ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - During foreplay, my girlfriend will often very briefly put the head of my penis into her mouth, but never for long. she's told me before that she doesn't like giving head but that she thinks its because of the way she feels about the guy she did it with before. is there ... (98 words)

My fiance is looking at online porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night i was looking through some pictures on my internet at home and then started to discover that alot of porn sites had been looked at and also all these pictures of women from the internet. When i asked my fiance he said that he looked at them because he was lonely.an... (118 words)

Amd I just too mad to forgive him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a 8 yr relationship not married, 2 kids. He betrayed me, i forgave him, we cant stop fighting. what do i do? i feel it is me. is it? or am i just to mad to forgive?... (41 words)

she didnt 'feel sexy' enough to have sex. Is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - long distance, recently re-flamed relationship(lived together long term before). went for a five day visit. i love her very much, and she tells me she loves me...obviously the distance is difficult to deal with. on this past visit, we made love with each other on the first ... (181 words)

Should I date a guy with less formal education than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering, does it matter whether I date a guy who has had less formal education than me? He recently asked me out. He's not been to college and I have.I wonder if that will have any effect on our relationship...help!... (42 words)

I have a crush on my friends boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my best friends just recently hooked up with a VERY nice boy, who i've known for about 2 years and i really admire as a friend but he doesnt seem to notice me or pay any attention to me, i think im starting to like him, but i feel terrible knowing the cirumstances, i've ... (102 words)

My boyfriend has a lump in he testical

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Does anybody believe in fate? I never until last week. I had a dream that my boyfriend died of testicular cancer, so the next time i saw him i decided to have a feel of his testicles to check that nothing was there and to my horror i found a hard lump on his right testicle. ... (121 words)

MEN!!!! I just don't get them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

- MEN!!!! I just don't get em, ime a warm loving woman, laid back easy going, up for a laugh and giving the guy his space... What more can i do?!!! never go out hunting just go out for fun, lotsa male friends in work and hobby areas too........MEN give me a hint?... (53 words)

We had an argument but now it's over I still don't feel the same about her... will it pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - After a weekend away with a large group of friends, me and my extremely close girlfriend of 4 years had an argument over jealousy. She said one of my female friends - whom she has just met for the first time - was flirting with me. She got really upset when she came outside ... (258 words)

We're using the "pull out method" and I have some worries...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my bf have sex alot and we havent been using condoms lately. he pulls out instead. well when i go to wipe his semen off of me i noticed i acidently used the toilet paper i wiped it off with and wiped my "area" soon after. can you get pregnant this way? its proebly a ... (64 words)

The skin on my lips were peeled there may be some blood because there were chapped. Is there a high rate that I could get diseases?

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister talked/laughed and I felt some of her saliva landed on my chapped lips. The skin on my lips were peeled there may be some blood because there were chapped. Is there a high rate that I could get diseases? My sister never had sex and she is still a virgin.... (52 words)

A woman has made it known she wants sex with my boyfriend!

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10 July 2007 (F)

age - my boyfriend and i have been dating six years. recently he became attracted to a woman in his apartment building. she is attracted to him and all he does is talk about her. He told me in a round about way that she was interested in him sexually. i could see that she was very ... (153 words)

Worried that when we have sex, it will hurt her given our experiences so far!

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are getting to the stage where we are ready for intercourse but I am worried as when I tried to finger her before, as soon as I entered her even slightly she was lots of pain. If my finger hurts her when its not even going in, whats my penis going to be ... (64 words)

My social worked told me to stay away from my 13 year old girlfriend

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - iam 17 years old and i will be 18 in nov. I met this girl that is 13 years old and we were going out until my social worker found out and told me if i didnt quit seeing her that they would move me to a different home long ways away and register me as a sex offender. i didnt ... (145 words)

I feel totally in love with him... but he still sees his girlfriend! I'm confused, can anyone make sense??

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a 34 y/o bi male. I became friends with "Jason" 4 yrs ago. At the time he was by all appearances happily married with 2 children. We gradually became closer and closer friends. He is 5 yrs younger than me, and is an absolute heartthrob. He's also a huge flirt. So when he ... (887 words)

What should I do if I am afraid to tell my girlfriend I love her?

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What should I do if I am afraid to tell my girlfriend I love her?... (15 words)

He is too overprotective and intense and it is making me unconfortable

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. i love him, i really do. when i say that its not a lie. but he is so much more into it than i am. he talks about us being together after college (im gonna be a junior in hs and hes gonna be a senior in hs) but those arent the ... (220 words)

My married boyfriend wont leave his wife for me and so I hate HER!

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need your help once again! Not too long ago, I had doubts concerning a married guy that I was with. I wasn't sure about whether he'd leave his wife or not. Now, I am sure that he won't leave her because everything that wasn't "working" between them now surely is. I love the ... (199 words)

He cheated in past relationships. Will he cheat on me?

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - He cheated in past relationships. Will he cheat on me? I have a strong belief that people change and I feel such a strong connection with him that I am almost positive that my worries are only doubts stemming from my past hard times in relationships. What do you thi... (74 words)

I had sex with my boyfriend and my period is now past 4 or 5 days that it not come.

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend and my period is now past 4 or 5 days that it not come. I think im pregnant. He's my dad's trusty friend. I am scared to tell him that I had sex because he will send him to jail. I'm 14 and he's 32. (Moderator Note: please refrain from making obvi... (73 words)

I'm already on the pill but we use condoms too... can we use anything else instead of condoms to still be safer?

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm on birth control pills and up until recently always used condoms just for extra protection against pregnancies. My Bf and i have no stds and stopped using condoms because to be honest it just feels better. I know that the pill is almost 100% safe but there is of course ... (103 words)

When she said 'luv ya' in a text, did it mean something?

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my girlfriend and I have known each other four years now. We tried dating a few years back when we worked together but she had a b/f one time and then she was my supervisor the second. Now we live 7 and a half hours away and have been dating for a little more than a month. ... (232 words)

I feel like a second fiddle. He isnt nice to me when his female friends are around.

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy at my scool, and I really like him; he really likes me too, but for some reason when his bestfriend's girlfriend and one of his close female friends are around, he acts like I'm not there. And then after a couple of hours he actually acts like I'm there, and ... (79 words)

My husband completedly overreacted, but how do I make this better?

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10 July 2007 (F)

age - My husband is on stress overload because of a bully at work. I try to listen,help and understand. Then out of the blue he freaks out over my loading a program. Starts yelling/screaming/jumping up and down/throwing chairs. He then proceeds to give me silent treatment for 3 ... (75 words)

My ex turned to me when his heart was broken, but dropped me as soon as she wanted him back!

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10 July 2007 (F)

- Thanks to all who reply to this. My ex has been in regular contact with me since his girlfriend left him a couple of weeks ago. I was away for part of last week and he left messages on my cell phone to call him. I called him today and he informed me that he was just on his way ... (162 words)

He buys me everything I want but then verbally abuses me. Should I get out?

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a boy friend that i have been with for 3 1/2 years . now we are having problems he started saying things to me like "your lazy, Bitch, the reason we are together is because i cant get rid of you. If we broke up my life would be easier since im paying for every thing." I ... (205 words)

I feel inadequate because I have so little sexual experience and my life is not the way I want it to be

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10 July 2007 (M)

He thinks it needs to be perfect or not at all

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi..I need some advice please, sorry if it's a little confusing....i've been with my bf for over 1 1/2 years and i love him very much. However, he cheated on me (kissed a girl twice) when we were dating for only 2 months and he admitted to it about 6 months ago. It was very ... (300 words)

How do i lose inches off of my waist in 2 and a half weeks?

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i lose inches off of my waist in 2 and a half weeks? Right now I am a size 8, and I want to get down to a size 5. I need to do this fast because a family reunion is almost here for me!... (47 words)

Is my friend being jealous and unreasonable, or did I overstep my bounds

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - okay so i have drama in y life. One of my closest friends is mad at me because i slept with a guy that she slept with. Now in the grand scheme of things i know thta it could be wierd to share something like that but heres where im feeling like she a li bit going overbaord! ... (608 words)

My girlfriend wants me to go to third base with her. I'm not sure what to do.

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, My girlfriend wants me to go to third base with her, like rubbing her under her pants, both back and front, but while I'm dont here. I'm not sure what to do, and we aren't interested in sexual intercourse. We both want to wait for the right person and until marriage... (68 words)

I love her so much and Im suffering but I cant think of anything else but her kissing that guy and destroying everything we had.

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf cheated on me. Im 18 and she is 16. We had a long distance relatioship for about 6 months now, and she lives about 3h by bus from me, but in another country. We had a great relationship and could talk about anything, it was almost prefect. She alyways said that she loves ... (635 words)

Is there any chance of me and my "ex girlfriend" getting back together?

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10 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there any chance of me and my "ex girlfriend" getting back together? or should I try and move on? I was seeing a girl for 9 months. I call it seeing because she always said we were never going out. Yet I would see almost every day, she stayed round my house, I stayed ... (379 words)

I recently told my best friend i thought id fallen in love with them

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10 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently told my best friend i thought id fallen in love with them and im confused as to what to do? i dont want to jepodise our friendship and he even told me he had told his friends if we hadnt lived together as housemate we would have been great together. He said at the ... (138 words)