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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My bf of 4 yrs hasn't spoken to me properly since last sat when he as meant to come down for weekend. he works away. I'm actually and have susected he's actually found someone else... but only the other week he was taking about spending xmas here and finding a job here.. anyway since weds i've not even spoken to him I've rang hin once and asked him to ring back but nothing I feel like ive done something wrong but no I havnt. So im just taking it thats its now over as relationship... My only problem is I'm his main driver on his car insurence which have been for ages but hes now a new car as of last week and more money I really should cancel it but something tells me that he will be left without insurance, and get into trouble he has been known not to pay his las insurence and as me main driver had to but am 100% not doing it this time, I dont think its fair hes not speaking to me and even if he never speaks to me again I still have to pay even if he doesnPlz any advice
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (19 October 2014):
 If you're listed as the primary driver on his policy, then I assume his insurer has permission to speak to you about the account and you have permission to make changes. Soooo, I suggest you delete yourself first (you may have to do this in writing) and then inform him via email.
After that, let him worry about his own accounts.
I assume, the premium is being paid our of his bank account and not yours, yes?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (19 October 2014):
 I agree call him.
And TAKE yourself of as the main driver, you are NOT his mom. HE NEEDS to be responsible for his OWN car and HIS insurance. If you are the one on the insurance, TAKE yourself OFF you CAN do that legally.
http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/
Contact someone from there and find out how you go about doing it legally.
And stop taking BLAME for things when YOU AREN'T to be blamed.
If he is such a coward that he ended it with you without even bothering telling , yet he still USES your name to HIS advantage... then good riddance to him.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 October 2014):
Call him and leave a message telling him you're done paying. It's his responsibility to listen.
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