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writes: A year and half ago i happen to know a girl through her relative. She was living in (Country 2) and i was living in (country 3). But we both were from (Country 1)She was there since she was 8 or 9 living with her parents and two siblings. Her family was completely a typical (Country 1) family. We started chatting through facebook and other social medias sites. I was so impressed the way she presented, the way she talked. We did our best to know each other over the chat and phone calls. I just felt she’s the one for me. We were asking each other our personal interests secrets everything. stuff like ex boyfriends and girlfriends. We started liking each other and we talked about marriage too.I takled about situation to my family members and some close friends. some of them were suggesting me not to marry a girl whos raised in (Country 2) because they are not good enouhg to make life partners as they are wild and love to have relationship with multiple men. but i was standing all alone against the my relatives and family who told me that. Because i believed simply they grow up in these kind of environment doesn't mean they become one of them.And we agreed to meet first and see how things will go? We met after 10 months we have known each other in Country 1. And she is beautiful. If i can say im a good looking guy too. Our couple looked just perfectly matching. And with on wasting time we decided to get married.And we married happily feeling blessed. we both were over the moon. Every our relatives praised our couple just more then they do to average couples. But as things progressed i was finding her far more experienced in sex. All the time she was telling me to do this and that, this way and that way. Instrusctions even before sex. i started wondering how can someone who has slept only with a man can be so experienced. ?Then i googled her with her nick names and found out her doing freelance modelling with some (Country 2) modelling websites. when i asked about why she never thought of being an model? she said she is not that kind of girl. not interested.But how come she is in those websites with nude pics? i was shocked to bits. i asked about that but she refused to tell me.. but after three weeks she told me she was a call girl. she started since 2009 while she was only 19. 1st she worked with an agency and later she became independent. this was so shocking for me. Now Im shattered and hurt. i just cant believe how stupid i was to trust her and not to ask anyone who knew her. the best thing i have thought i have done is just proved the worst thing i have done. I just want to divorce right now. but whenever i see her face i cant forget that i fell in love with same face. Thats the only reason i couldnt kick out her form my life. Then she says loves me a lot.. She just wants a chance. So that She can prove she can be a good human being, a good wife, a faithful wife, The wife i dreamed of. Im trying to give her a chance but she is super jealous she smashed my phone on the pitch just because i got a sms from old female friend. just how can a prostitute be so jealous? and my question is can i trust her any more? should i stick on with this marriage?? If i do so what kind of things could i face in my life and if i dont what will happen? any suggessions ? please your suggestions mean my marriage and most importantly my life . please help me.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 October 2014):
 She is jealous because she feels that no man would ever want her again. Her sexual prowess is not something to be proud of. You should annul the marriage if you think you could never accept her past. Because every time you make love with her you would have to struggle with images of what men used to do with her. With the next man she is with, she should be smart enough not to tell him to do this or do that in bed. She should also delete all nude pics on the internet.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (18 October 2014):
I know you must have been shocked after you were married to her to find out she was a call girl.Also she was not honest with you over this and this was very unfair of her.I can only say she was afraid that it would change your mind about her but this did not make it right.But this is in her past.If you truly love her and i believe you do.Give her a chance.Everyone deserves a 2nd chance.Allow her the chance to be that special human being,loving wife and friend.She needs your love and support more then ever now and needs to feel secure that you are there for her.It was sad to read that you refered to your wife as a prostitute ,that is in her past.There must have been something very Special about her for you to fall in love and that is what you should be thinking about .However would you consider you and your wife going to a counsellor to talk and get help.NORA B.
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