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*rokenhearted_04
writes:So my boyfriend has been acting like a little strange lately. Like he's a chill sorta dude but lately he freaks out about the littlest things! Like on my myspace i change my mood status a lot and for one it said "talking on the phone with ----" and like he totally freaked! He was like "why aren't you on the phone with me are you in love this this ---- guy now???!!!?!" and like now he reads ALL of my comments! And he asked for my password so that he can read my messages so I gave it to him... But idk y he suddenly doesnt trust me or something...? Will he get over this...? Should I ask him about it or will it upset him...? Help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): I think you should ask him about it too. He's probably really insecure about himself and your relationship, other wise he wouldn't think you were cheating on him.
I have a boyfriend and he try's to hide it but he gets really jelous when I hang around with my guy friends! So you're probably in thee same situation and, by the sound of it, he seems pretty controlling. So you really need to put your foot down now and talk to him. But don't argue! Coz that doesn't solve anything
SMJie x
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reader, kurtyz  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 well im your age and a guy ok so i think maybe that your bf saw you with another guy and you might have been gettin along well with him and your bf might have got suspicious.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (21 July 2009):
 I kinda had this problem.. just it wasn't as bad. I spoke to my boyfriend about it. I asked why did he suddenly not trust me, what brought it on, what does he think I'm gonna do and so on.
So personally I think you should ask him about it. Don't start an argument with it, just calmly ask why and then move on from there. If you leave it too long, he may get used to it too much and then he won't change.
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