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writes:I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are too close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to me to see them so close and I know they will fall in love in the future...my girlfriend and I still 100% in love we have being dating for five months and is great...but my best friend is really annoying me because he keeps getting close to her...and sometimes my girlfriend turns cold to me...i always see them laughing and happy...i love my girlfriend but I thinks every day the love she feels for me turns to my bf...what should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2016):
 Could it be that they are good friends and you are jealous? Do they flirt with each other or are they just friendly? What kind off information do they keep from you? If they are hiding things from you then she is not a good girlfriend and he is not a good friend. What makes them think you are bad? Do you not want them to be friends? Do you want your girlfriend to yourself? I guess we need more details so that we can help you further.
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reader, N91  +, writes (19 November 2016):
 Can you give us examples? This is a little vague.
Maybe you need to question whether this girl and your friend are the right people to have in your life. If you both love each other as much as you say then there shouldn't be any competition. If you feel like your GF and friend are falling in love then do you seriously think you and her are 100% in love? Doesn't sound like it.
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reader, Eagle'sfan1986 +, writes (19 November 2016):
If your girlfriend really loves and cares for you, then she wouldn't be flirting with your beat friend at all. Does she put her hand around him when they're sitting by one another? If she is going go cheat in you while flirting with your best friend and still be dating you at the same time. Then she isn't worth dating at all. But do talk to her and your best friend and tell them that you don't like what you see when they are together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2016): I have been in the same position before. First thing you need to do is man up. Stop being emotional about the situation you need to be logical. I'm gonna be frank and it may hurt but the truth is the truth. Your gf probably isnt AS in love with you as you are with her. which is okay because people fall out of love that's part of life. but she is emotionally cheating, if she hasn't already physically cheated, with your best friend and this is definitely not okay. You need to make it clear that you are not okay with this to both your gf and best friend. If she acknowledge her wrong then theirs is hope for the both of you. But if she gets defensive and attacks you about bring it up then youre relationship is finished and you need to move on from her and cut your "best" friend off because he isnt a real friend.
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