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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I marry this bad boy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - How to deal with possibly marrying a bad boy who is slow at shaking his bad boy image......

Boyfriend doesn't want sex now and he says he's scared of the dark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - This is a really weird problem that I have never experienced before. I've been with my boyfriend for a while and we have always have a healthy sex life. The other night we had sex. We had a cuddle for a while then I turned out the light. Things ...

Is there any point in telling these roommates just how inconsiderate they are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - sp im at uni in london living with my boyfriend and another couple who were once good friends to us. They have become un-friends because things just change when you live together. We have had arguments throughout the year on pulling weight and how ...

I can't have a relationship because there is always someone new! I need to break this cycle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hi there , I thank you in advance for any help you can offer me at all. Its pretty hard to explain but I will try my best. I have an obsession with men. To the point where it takes over my life and I can't think of anything else. I was never give...

Can I trust his feelings or does he propose just to make me happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I've been living together with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other and are very serious with this relationship. Last christmas I asked him to marry me and eventhough he said yes, he later the same week didn't seem comforatable with it. ...

His first love really hurt him and broke his heart, so why does he still want to be friends with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (11 months) and it has been a great and solid relationship for the most part. However, something I could just never quite get over is the fact that he still remains with his ex. Like many of you ...

Why is he taking so long to make a move on me? Is it something to do with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for 4 years. His crush on me was obvious but he wouldn't make a move. I went out with someone else for the past 2 years and we broke up 3 months ago. The guy just broke up with his girl one month ago. I think they broke up ...

What does his slience mean? Why is he not calling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - well...my ex came back to me after a long break up.But at that time I refused to mend up because he left me for another girl. Anyways I accepted him and everything was going smoothly at the beginning. after 4 months he again started avoiding me. ...

Living with my boyfriend and have a young child together, but thinking of meeting up with my online guy. Should I meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone each other constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we ...

When a girl stops giving oral does it mean they are no longer into you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Hi Just looking for some advice really Ive been with my partner for nearly three years now, things are great except for one aspect. We still have sex regularly, but the oral sex (from her) has gone from frequently to hardly ever- even as...

My girlfriend cant even be bothered to talk things through and always wants to leave at the first sign of trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - whenever my girlfriend and myself have a disagreement her first answer is always well maybe we should just end it? or well shall i move out then? I almost feel like she wants me to say yes. I have been there for her through everything. Look...

My girlfirend suddenly doesn't talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - I have a problem with my girlfriend. We are toghether for 7 months, and everything was going perfect, until this Friday. This girl really cares about me, and loves me a lot, I know it and showed it many times. I love her too, and actually, I can't ...

Is there anything I can do to decrease my libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Ever since my girlfriend started her new job more than two months ago, our sex life has gone through the floor. Three times a week to one time a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and that one time she wants to do it is often when I don't feel ...

Will she ever go back to being the loving affectionate person I fell in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend came to me as her cheating/violent ex partner of many years finally beat her so badly that he put her in hospital she was to scared to go back and i offered a place to live. A few months later we started getting on well a physical ...

Boyfriend's ex wife is stalling to sign the final papers - not sure why this is and how to be around my partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Bf is currently going through a divorce - his ex-wife is stalling and delaying to sign the final papers. I am trying to understand why she is doing this. I believe this is down to them spelling her middle name wrong which I guess could possibly ...

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys I just want to know that Ive done the right thing. I was in a sort of LDR with a guy who worked in the military. Before he went away we were kind of seeing each other but it wasnt serious. We kept in touch via facebook and texts but I know ...

Does it sound like my ex is accusing me? And what should I say when I respond to his text?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Right, so I went through a break up with someone called, lets call him D, I was heartbroken because I really did like him a lot, I was actually properly upset for a few weeks, like to the point where I stopped my studies and just stayed home in ...

In a relationship with a married man....where is this going?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm a confused, single woman, no kids, and living independently. But i am in a relationship with a married man for more than a year now. it's not like what most people think of when they hear of this type of relationship. we are not ...

Why is it the second you ignore a guy, he comes running?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - First off, I apologize in advance to any decent guys out there; know that I'm not trying to stereotype you, I'm just really frustrated. I have had this on again/off again thing with a guy for over a year now. He'll do the most amazing things s...

My friend is afraid of getting hurt....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Help for a friend ? I've been giving advice but I'm clueless on this one...she meet this guy..been together a year and living together 6 months.she has never trusted a guy so much he's always straight forward when asked but at the first 6 months ...

Help me make a decision about this guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I need all the answers I can get here as this going to be make or break for me. Ive asked a couple of questions about this guy but now ive got to make my mind up once and for all and need an outside opinion. I met this guy over a social network ...

My relationship and life has little meaning. Where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - I had a rather troubled childhood which affected almost all areas of my life, particularly my schooling and studies. Along with our family always being in financial pitfalls, my parents weren’t really of the loving type, so I had to deal will all ...

I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love ...

My boyfriend of 2 years didnt acknowledge my birthday....am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - hi there agony aunts, may i just say, i so thank you for all your help when i post a problem on here, and here i am again, i am not sure how to start this one but here i go, i am in a relationship and its LDR well a couple of hours away, we are ...

My boyfriend is sending flirty messages to his ex and is very distant with me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months and things have been fine expect this problem with an ex-girlfriend of his, however she was from 3 years ago and is a friend of his family. A few months ago, she started to randomly text him in the ...

What should I do to my bf? Keep him around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start but to simply put this into a shorter way is that I think I might be a psychopath. I know people keeps saying that if someone really is one, he/she wouldn't be looking for help or asking this question here. I keep wa...

My boyfriend was in bed with another girl but claims she is just a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I caught a girl in my bf laying on the same bed with my bf, the door was locked. My bf is now telling me that the girl was just a casual friend, what do think? ...

My LDR boyfriend is not paying any attention to me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - i m in committed ldr relation since 2 years. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me. At the night he calls only if i will msg him something. he...

I need help deciding on which love to follow: The love of my life or current girlfriend that I love dearly, equally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Okay, I know I'm young, but I'm in love. My situation: I am 19 and in love with two young women. They are both 18. So let's call girl 1 Lisa and call girl 2 Tina. Lisa (girl 1) and I dated for a little over a year with the addition of a few mont...

Is it selfish that I don't want my boyfriend's 2 kids to live with us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has two kids from a previous marriage. One is 7, and the other one is 5. They are two very hyper boys. We have a 9 week old together. I never knew his boys were living with their mothers grandmother. So, not too long ago, she told my...

Will my boyfriend change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Is it possible to change somebody in some respect, i mean to say my boyfriend had many girlfriends in past but he did not settle and I don't want to fool myself with the hope that he will settle this time. But I want to know if there is a chance ...

My mum split us up, but I still love him one year later! Should I go to see him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I fell in love with this guy that changed my entire life! he made me believe my dreams were going to come true he made me the happiest girl in the world hes something god brought me!(tears) he loved me too I felt it deep in my heart !we lasted 8 ...

My girlfriend is too controlling and needy, we fight a lot, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is often needy and controlling and I am not sure what to do about it. We often fight over small things due to this and I want to have a healthier relationship with her. Please help me. I will give the following background: We have b...

Did my married lover ever really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Does my married man really love me? I also involved with a married man for almost over a year. we were ex-coworkers. At the very beginning we are just friends, I have no feelings for him at all. however, I had problem with my own marriage, was th...

I got revenge on my cheating gf by cheating myself...but now I feel like a horrible person!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I'm new here. I'm in a bit of trouble here. I'm 21 and I just cheated on my gf of 3 1/2 years. I feel really quilty now About 1 year ago she cheated on me and didn't feel guilty or anything, and the anger has kept burning in me...

I need advice to get over my ex lover & focus on my family...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I had an affair w/a married man that lasted 2 years. He is my co-worker and was my husbands best friend, what makes it worse is that his wife was also my best friend. We were "soulmates" and very much in love. I got pregnant and asked him to ...

Is my friend's ex trying to hurt her through me? What's going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - My best friend and I have been friends a really long time ( 4 years) , and she is a really good friend, but she was dating this guy for a while and ( he was controlling , and couldn't stand that she stood up for herself) I never met her boyfriend ...

Boyfriend's friend is trying to beak us up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone, I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, hes 21 and i'm 20. Everything is great. However, when we first started going out he was really close to this mate of his lets call him John. John at first was really nice to me we use...

Should I meet up with this guy I have feelings for? Or should I stay in an okay relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone eachother constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we ...

His Gf is blaming me. What should I do? I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost amount to behgavior that is like to stalk one until one has forgiven him. When I w...