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Archived questions from: 10 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I poured out my heart to her and now she won't talk to me. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - i've been friends with this lady for over a year. we are in the same college. in this one year that we've been friends, she has always come to me to help her with school work. it got to the point where i felt she was always trying to make excuses ...

Something is missing..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - What can I say? I was seeing this guy over the past 9months. We have been on and off a couple of times..and all in all we possible saw each others as much as 15times in all that time (we were living 1h away, both with long working times and ...

He's put me down and I want to show him I'm improved...should I show him a picture of my new living space?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I met a guy not too long ago whom I thought was really nice and cool. He was very sweet at first, and came on very strong (falling for me hard within a couple of weeks). He eventually changed, and started putting down my apartment (it wasn't the ...

My boyfriend called me a slag even though I lost my virginity to him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 to 6 months and have a good relationship we were getting over an arguement that was his fault so i was a bit heated at him when the question about sex came up. he was being abnoxious at the fact that i l...

Breaking up was a big mistake, how do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - hey,, i had a relationship for about 2 and a half years but broke up with her because i thought i liked someone else but i really want her back and i totally regret it. her parents and friends find that even talking to me is not to be allowed but...

I can't let her go. Everything is out of control.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - I'm 15. I fell in love with this girl and then I made my first mistake: I became best friend with her by sms; we talked by text messages but on school she totally ignored me. It hurted so much when I was playing with her and I got screamed at, w...

Am I wrong not to want to take my husbands child on our Holiday?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - A couple of years ago my husband and I went on holiday and took his child from a previous relationship with us. During the holiday my husband did absolutely nothing with the child and I ended up doing everything for him so it was no holiday for me. ...

I hate my home life, should I run away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - im 15 and i hate it at my house i dont want to be here no more the only reson im still here in my lil sister , she is the love of my life but im not happy and home these always fight with my mom and her boyfriend and she all way picks him of me , on ...

How can I bring us back to life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 and I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is pretty much perfect for me, he's lovely, caring, understanding, witty, funny etc etc etc. But recently things have been getting a bit monotonous, nothing is spontaneous or ...

I am getting anxious when we go out due to his constant looking at girls in summer clothes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I have raead a couple of problems from women whose boyfriends seem to look at women way too much when they are out together. I have just this problem. It has got to the point where I don't want to get engaged to my boyfriend because when he is ...

My boyfriend doesn't like sex with me, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend never gives me oral but then again he never asks me to give it to him. Most guys I have been with enjoy oral and may ask for it but he never does I usually try to surprise him with some oral but he sometimes does not even get off from ...

How do I fix or get over these relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - I admit I'm not the smartest one when it comes to relationships. I've tried to get her to talk to me when we argue. Its like talking to a wall when I call her over to talk to me. She doesn't like talking on the phone she txts all the time. I've been ...

It's become so awkward. How am I to be around with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - i liked this girl but she never liked me....i mean, we were better friends before until she found out that i liked her....all the awkwardness started. We didn't talk and she started drifting away. All of this has been going on for a year now, I have ...

My co-workers flirting is driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I'm falling for a mate of mine , we both flir with each other a fair bit and like to have a joke around .. Thing is I've just found out from another collegue that he's got a girlfriend , but thing is hes still really flirty and continues to be re...

Is it a bad thing to want more sex from your bf in your relationship when he doesn't want it so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I'm pregnant and bf never wants to have sex. I don't think he thinks he will hurt the baby or any of that. I think its cos we haven't been getting along as well as we used to before baby came along. He then has no interest as I think he needs to be ...

Should I end with him or try to talk to him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I've been chatting with this guy I met on a dating website since the end of February. At one point he asked me if I wanted to meet each other and I said yes. Then he said, let's aim to meet at some point in May, because I will be BUSY in April. I ...

Is he trying to get revenge after I had sex with someone else? Or does he just not care about me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I've had a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half now, we have never actually called each other " boyfriend, girlfriend" but when him and I are on good terms, he doesn't mess with other girls and I don't mess with other guys. We have ...

My girlfriend says she loves me but she has feelings for someone else, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - Hi there, well me and my girlfriend have being going out for over 8 months now and there is a 2 year age gap, but it doesnt make a difference to be honest. I thought everything was going alright, then i found out that she still has feelings for this ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend show her feelings to me so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - my gf and i have been together for a while now and she means my life to me shes the girl of my dreams i never even thought i would have chances with her. well i did and im perfectly happy with her, but some times i wish she would show her feelings...

Should I wait for him to text instead of me texting him? Is he looking for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I had broke up with my boyfriend because his ex kept bringing drama towards me and we been dating for awhile and I feel bad because we been best friends but now its like he doesn't talk to me like that! I really love him its just I couldn't take all ...

I'm worried his lack of success and ambition is going to cause problems in the future.....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - Im falling in love with a man that treats me like a princess and who i can tell loves me very much.... He has never been in love before and im scared i will end up hurting him. Im a very ambitious woman and want the best out of life, i work ver...

Why would she lie to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girl are very happy together, we spend nearly every day together and love each other too bits. However today when she was in college she rang be by mistake when her phone was in her pocket and i listened =[ I heard her friend shout her ...

Does this mean I am being dumped or what does this man mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I am 50 years young and a have been a widow for 2 years. I have start dating . So I meet this man 5 months ago who has been divorced for three years, he has two children age 16 and 13, he spends a lot of time wiht them, becuse the X wife's job ...

Surely if he loved me he would accept some of my requests?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (?) - Ok so i am 21 years old gal, have been with my boyfriend for two and half years now, we want to spend our lives together and I like the guy, he is sweet , caring. As a lot of time has passed now, i guess he has started to show his true nature. He ...

I think my 12 year old cousin has a crush on me, how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I am a 20yo guy and I have this problem with my 12yo cousin. I just dont know what is up with her. First, she seems to always try to catch my attention. You know, teasing, etc. Sometimes it becomes annoying such as blocking my way...

I need help with my girl friend. She's upset. I don't want to lose her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - ive been in a relationship for 1 year. it's been mostly a long distance relationship. im 27 she is 23. i live in one city she lives 5 hours away in another city. we use to live together 8 months ago but she kicked me out for having a big fight with ...

I still love her. How can I be positive and get over the biggest break up in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - to whoever wants to listen, this is going to be a bit of a long story, but for those who take the time and read it, I would appreciate your thoughts, especially from women readers. Back Story: Story begins with a girl and a boy. I, the boy...

My wife is cheating and I don't know what to do, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - i been marry for 18 years with my wife we have 3 kids and she cheated on me with some guy about 3 years ago the in November last year i seen her texting some one she got nervous and hid her cell phone so later that day i found it and was checking ...

Things feeling different between my boyfriend and I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - Okay im 29 weeks pregnant. and her latley i have been feeling like my boyfriend is cheating on me.im not sure if it's hormones or what it is. but sometimes i get a gut feeling and then i feel like im gonna drop down and cry i know it probably...

Do you think my married friend has feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I have a friend that is having a hard time in his marriage. We always talk on the phone; but it has gotten to the point where he talking to me while she is at home also. Today, we were talking about his children when he said, ''In another lifetime, ...

He wants me to look like my bestfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend loves me and I know he thinks I'm beautiful, he tells me every day, but he always makes comments about how he thinks my bestfriend is hot. she is absolutely gorgeous in every possible way..he drops hints that I need to be skinny like ...

He acts interested, but breaks plans everytime we are suposed to hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I'm in my early 20's and found through dating lots of guys that most guys my own age aren't looking for relationships, but just for fun and casual dating, which is completely fine, but not for me. So I started dating men older than me, late 20's. I ...

Which Mr. Right is right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4688 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating guy A for a year and he is perfect in almost every way. I started dating him though after a breakup with a boyfriend of almost 5 years. There was no time in between for me to be single. Guy A is madly in love with me. We have ...

Does anyone believe in subconcious bonds between two people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I am just curious if anyone believes that it is possible to be so connected and in tune with another person that you can feel them even when they are away from you? This is how i feel about the only man that i have ever been in love with. Rewi...

Will I regret marrying him if his family hates me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - Is it my fault my in laws hate me? At first they were ok with me but I knew straight away that his brothers wife instantly didn't like me and has always been a total cow including saying nasty things to my son any chance she gets, she refuses to ...