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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His parents are driving him away from me, literally!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4688 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Today I have a emtpy feeling and I'm bored. I want to go get my hair done. I want change. Because im going through a change with my bf messing up and it's suddeningly over. So it's day 1 he hasn't tried to call yet today. Im looking to change since ...

Is the long time friendship finally turning into love, or am I just afraid to lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Ok, so there is this guy, and he's had feelings for me for a long time. I know, because he flirted rather obviously, though he never actually said it straight forward. I've known him for years and only seen him as a friend... up until now. I've ...

Did he watch gay porn? Or was it spam? I'm a nervous wreck, please give advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - I'm in a bit of a state. 2 weeks ago, I found on my boyfriends internet history that he'd watched gay porn. I went further back in the history by a couple of months and there was straight porn and also another one link to gay porn. I freaked ...

How can I show him how truly sorry I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Hello, Sorry for this post being so long, i did try to shorten it. So this guy started talking to me a few months ago on facebook, I barely knew him but he seemed alright. After about a week of us talking on fb he asked why 'how does someone as...

My boyfriend is jealous of my friendship with my daughter's teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Hello I need advice on how to handle my jealous boyfriend we live together I have a 18 year old handicapped daughter who recently as of March started with seizures she is now home schooled on Tuesdays and Thursdays 4 to 6p.m and Saturdays 9 to ...

He wants a baby - is it a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - I am a single mom of 2 boys ages 16 and 10..I'm 36yrs old and have been dating a man for 6yrs who has a daughter who basically he see's every other weekend!!He's been asking me to have a baby so that we can be a family cuz he feels that he has ...

I have been turned down so much that I wonder f my husband prefers his hand to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - I don't know where to begin. I guess its quite simple. My hubby and I have been together for 7 yrs. Married for just over 1. In the beginning we had sex non stop. Then it went down to a few times a week, then once a week, then once a month, then ...

I'm SO confused about my sexuality it's killing me. Is this normal? What on earth do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - I'm 21 and I have come to accept that I am gay. I've had a long term girlfriend before and was sexually attracted to her. But now I'm single I barely see girls as sex objects anymore. I am only attracted to guys. Now, I can't see myself having sex ...

I've been hurt and I'm not sure how to proceed with this new relationship..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. I need quick help with my situation. It might be a little long but your time and attention would be most appreciated. Some background information (I have again and again posted on this site about myself and in my profile too and got ...

He has urges and wants me to let him go through with them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a very satisfying sex life and I was surprised when he began asking about threesomes and open relationship. What irks me about this is that this only started when we met a friend through a friend, and she happened to be ...

How do we get my husband's 14 year old daughter on the right track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - My husband and his ex wife just found out that theyre 14yr old daughter has been ditching school,smoking weed and having sex w/ a 18 yr old.When all this came to light I finally spoke out letting them know how this lil girl has no manners bad ...

Why act jealous if she just wants to be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - this girl i liked said that she didnt like me.....i am kind of getting over her....but i still have a feeling for her and its hard to get over it but im trying. Things were getting very awkward between us when she found out that i liked her....she ...

Post-abortion relationship problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - I had an abortion about three weeks ago. I was feeling fine about it the first two weeks but now I'm not feeling so great. I feel like I see babies everywhere, and I'm sad about it. I want to talk to my boyfriend about my feelings but I'm real...

Short tempers in a relationship, can it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - What are some tips for couples who have short tempers? My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years now and we love each other very much. The only problem is our tempers are short and little disputes can heat up quickly. We both...

What can I do to address these demons from my past relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - I really need help. All my adult life I've had disatrous relationships. I was always too trusting and have been cheated on, lied to, used, even raped, the lot. 8 months ago I met a woman and begun a lesbian relationship. We hit it off straight ...

Am I a potential husband or Mr. right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - I have a question about what i am going through right now. I am about to graduate high school and move to college about an hour and a half away. I am seeing this girl who i dated 3 years then we broke up because of some problems we had but as of a ...

Why am I to blame for everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - why does it seem that i am to blame for everything in my relationship? Any argument that we have, any fall out it is always me to blame, even when its not my fault ! My girlfriend and i have been together for a few years and on the most part have ...

Why won't ex partner let me move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Why wont he let me move on. My problem is my ex partner we were together for 7yrs and had 2 children together, we only lived together a short time and he moved out in july last yr. The problem was i suspected he had a thing going on with his ex. I ...

I cant stay with her but I can't be away from her either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - Hi i am 29 yr old.. i met a girl over internet 2 year back and became close to her . she confessed me about her past relation ,that time her ex bf had ditched her.we became very good friends and spent more time to get to know each other. gradually i ...

Desperate to fix my relationship with a single mum. When do you introduce the new man to the kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - So my esteemed aunts and uncles, perhaps you can help me with the pressing issues surrounding myself...I have written before about my on again off again relationship and its gotten worse to be frank - when we split up its terrible, worse than can be ...

What did I mean to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - Sorry for my grammar. I met a girl recently online and for a few weeks we literally spent half the day talking to each other and watching movies etc. We got close very fast and I got strong feelings for her very fast. She returned them and ev...

Should I stop replying to my ex's texts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - It's been two months since my ex and I broke up. We broke up because we had some communication problems which we both believe we could fix, though we decided we both don't want a relationship right now. He has said he wants to give us another ...

My bf is now bi curious and a x-dresser....help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Ok so... my bf and I have been dating for over 3 years now. He has admited to being a crossdresser. I have seen it, was fun at first now hes really into it. AND now is bi-curious. We had talked about him trying a tgirl and i was alright with it....

Relationship Problem, seriously confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - I have a fiance who i have been with for 3 1/2 years, we have both cheated before, made our peace,and moved on from it. My best friend just returned to the area,and I have always had a crush on her,for about 9yrs,recently she seems to be sharing ...

Verbal abuser feels he too was a victim and I'm the bad person

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - im confuse i broke up with my boyfriend for 8 months he called me names like ugly, crazy , stupid i told him to stop but everytime i upset him over small things like he doesnt like the way i snob him for small reasons he yells at me. hes ...

Why would my crush be mean to me on purpose? I thought he liked me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - My crush told a mutual friend that he hated me. My crush and I have had fun together and talked and laughed. Why would he do this? He never acted like he hated me. I have done so much for him. Why would he do that and what does it mean? Thank you....

I'm a mess and not sure how to be happy again... Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - I can't take it anymore. I was in love with my cousin for 2 years, but when I asked her if she shared my feelings she said no and told all her friends at school. Now I'm being picked on by every one... Even most of my friends have stopped talking ...

Old boyfriend had cancer and I want to start it up again but I'm scared

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I think i need some opinions because am at a crossroads! Sooo I will have to start from the beginning so it makes sense. When I was 14 I went out with a lad I went to school with and afterwards we generally stayed in touch. He got diagnosed wi...

We broke up because of other people, how can I get him back?

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12 May 2011 (F) - I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. we were together for 4 month. We broke up because people were saying shit. It's been about 2 months. He has a girlfriend now, but we have been talking. He told me he still likes me. I really want him back...

My girlfriend slept with a guy we work with before me...and it's really bugging me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months. She is 7 years older than me and we work for the same company. I heard rumours before we were together that she slept with a guy at our works party. He told people the filthy details a...

How I forget about a guy who used me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

12 May 2011 (?) - I'm a person who worries a lot about what other people think and tend to base my own self esteem around their opinions of me. I hate the feeling of someone ignoring or disliking me because it makes me feel like there must be something wrong with me. ...