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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't win.... I already go out of my way to spend more time with her but it never seems enough, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - I've been with my fiancée for over a year now and lately we've been arguing more. We're both full time students and still live with our parents and I try to spend as many nights as I can at her place. Lately every time I go back to my place to take ...

No one else will make me feel this way. How can I get him to notice me as a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I've fallen for someone and I know that no one else will ever be as special to me. I'm originally from Ireland but live in Mexico City, and I have no one to discuss this with and feel desperately lonely. He's dating some whore right now, and...

My friend has taken me for granted. how do I deal with him in a nice way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I used to be friends with this guy in my class. We were really close, but then fell apart after I went through a difficult time with my parents and lashed out at him. Since then, though, he's been borrowing my bike, money, headphones and getting ...

His ex has wrecked our relationship and now he's left me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - hi, me and my boyfriend have finished it has been hard from day one but we have been though so much. it all started a few months into our relationship, his ex kept emailing me saying she was still with him, and then it was he was still with his b...

I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have pro...

I need some relationship advice. I don't like the way she behaves after an argument.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - why does my girlfriend always have knee jerk reactions and go overboard, over trivial matters? I am a not happy that every time we argue she adds men to her social network site, she has deleted them before but now says there is nothing wrong in...

I just hate him, but I love him. His behavior is driving me away. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - So... I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We have a lot of unresolved issues but we really do love each other at the core of our relationship. ANYWHO! My dilemma is this. He aggravates me like no other! He is like my annoying so...

Do you think he cares or not? Will I hear from him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I have a question. Why do some guys admit when they have done something wrong, but they don't do anything about it? This man I know admitted that he thought he had been treating me badly lately (he said that to me, and to a couple of his friends. he ...

With all of his problems, what can I do aside from leaving him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I'm completely confused as to what to do. I have no doubt that we completely loves me and wants to have a future with me, but he is unemployed and has been since I started going out with ...

Is the apology genuine, am I being too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Hi good people! I have a friend who I regarded as more than just a friend. We went through a rocky period, more on my part, we had little contact, and what I regarded as little effort on her part (not replying texts, not returning calls, not ...

B/f keeps cheating and lying and I've had it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - This is not a good day. Okay, where do i start? I guess i'll have to tell you everything so you can get it. This might be long.Sorry. I've been dating this guy for 4years now. We've been down some pretty tough roads. The first year he seem in...

Boyfriend is lying to me about having his ex's underware!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend keeps lying to me about underwear. Hi everyone, I would like some advice on what to do! A month ago i had a fight with my bf about him telling lies and half lies about his ex. Not only when i confronted him did he didn't come clea...

How do I get my bf to move out of my place when I am pregnant...he won't leave??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I am currently pregnant about half way through. My bf - 41 is currently living with me but I am thinking it would be much better if he left. Last night we were having a good night together, I cooked him a v tasty meal and we watched tv for a bit. ...

He puzzles me. Why Can't he show love for me? I miss his smiles. He doesn't listen and ignores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Hi I have been married for 3 years, blessed with a son. The only problem is my husband.. he rarely smiles at me now, doesn't talk a lot with me, never spends his precious time listening to my "evening chat". When I married him 3 years ago, he wa...

Other people have good relationships. How do I get over a relationship that I ruined, learn from my mistakes and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Over 5 years ago the relationship with my then girlfriend of 3 plus years ended very badly and I have still not been able to put it out of my mind and move on. Before I go on I would like to make it clear that I do not want to get back together with ...

How can I rebuild our relationship before her deadline is reached? I feel I walk on eggshells to please her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Good Afternoon Aunts. I hope you can help me as I do not know what to do. My Wife and I have been together 8 years, we have lovely children and a great life style. We also have argue often and have been in a very up and down cycle for a whil...

DId my girlfriend fix herself up for this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - im in a relation with a girl since a year. and cos im dark, shes not so much into me. im a singer by profession, im 6'2" tall, great physique, but im little dark. i guess for that reason shes not able to adjust with me. she works at a place, a gu...

Will she put up with this and be patient? I failed the exam and now I am so worried I will lose my Gf over it/

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and my gf is 23.. The thing is recently i failed in my recent examination to get into my final year at my university.. It was really depressing and demoralizing as i have truly burnt the midnight oil for it..however slow...

Does he not care any more? Should I try to mend fences, or is it too late after two months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Ok, I dated this guy for a few months. Things got off to a slow start, but then they started to pick up and I really thought that he liked me. Our last date was probably the best...but that's just it, it was the last one. We just stopped talk...

He broke my heart today. I feel alone and sad. How ever will I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - My ex broke my heart about an hour ago. I ended up deleting him from everything, erasing all memories of him, basically pretending he never existed. but I'm so sad i feel so sad that he won't be there anymore. I can't just call or text him to say ...

Getting over work crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I've worked with this guy for a while. We're so comfortable with each other, touch or even talking wise. We play fight most of the time, talk about random stuff, insult each other playfully. Well, I stupidly fell for the guy. I guess the way he ...

I have the hots for my older Land Lady! Does this relationship have a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - I feel confused by my land lord. Shes 64 years old and not married. I'm 36 years old. I feel something for her; she likes it when I buy her gifts sometimes she lets me kiss her on her lips but that's it, nothing more. I feel I want more than that. ...

My girlfriend wants me to chat with her friends, but I'm not comfortable doing that. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend been dating for 3 months now and lately things have been feeling off... At school she wants me to sit with her and her friends but I don't say nothing when I'm around them and she doesn't like that..matter fact she hates it! ...

My friends have all turned against me and now I'm afraid to go back to Uni!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I have fallen out with my friends at university, they have been leaving me out for months due to my depression. (Long story but basically they see me as a psycho). Anyway, we have all recently been on quite civil terms verging on friendship again ...

My sister's child is calling me mama...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - my sister got pregnant by a fool and lives at home with my parents and me and my 2 other younger siblings. She goes out when she wants and pays for nothing for the child and has no responsibility for the child. I babysit it quite a bit when my ...

Why is she so distant with me lately?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Ok so iv been with my gf for almost a year now, she and I have grown up much faster then we have both had to, due to family problems when we were younger so we have a very mature and open relationship. However she has seemed to be a little distant ...

My self image is shattered by BF's obsession.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - All I want is to feel good enough for someone, ever since I found that my boyfriend looked at loads of pictures of women with large breasts I've never been the same. I have quite small breasts, and have always been a bit conscious of that. But when ...