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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why am I so upset by this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) - A guy I used to be sort of "friends with benefits" with, and who I still like a lot, wants to sleep with me even though he now has a girlfriend. He's been with her for nearly 2 years but he's been coming on to me for about a year and a half. We he ...

We're losing the spark and arguing alot! I don't know how to stop it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i really need some help, my relationship is really loosing its spark and i don't know what to do, i love my boyfriend so much and i cant walk away from everything we have together, but its just i get annoyed so easy and i pick little petty arguments ...

Why is my friend behaving like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Hi, this is not really a relationship problem its more about friends. So i have a feeling one of my closest friends is going to hve a problem with me being friends with other people, we havnt really been good friends that long about 6 month, a...

I just found out my fiance is bi after finding an on-line ad he posted!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 6 years and I just recently found out that he is bisexual because I found his ad that he put on craigs list to be bottom/host. He loves to play on the computer when I am sleeping alot. I love him and I know that he ...

How to fix something that's half-broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are quite serious, planning on moving in together this year, and marriage in the works in the next year or two. We really are a great couple and both of us love eachother more than should be possible, but we have a problem. ...

Should I just ignore him or make an effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4677 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I've quite liked this guy for the past couple of months or so, and we talk all the time. The trouble is; he keeps sending me mixed signals on whether he feels the same or not. For instance; he's always saying how pretty I am, plus last week he ...

I'm too jealous and I'm worried it will ruin my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I'm scared that I've become to obsessive with my boyfriend, not too bad. But I'm quite a jealous person, and I get pissed off quite easily. For example, if he talks to another girl online, I'm weary, althouh not annoyed. But if say I find out he's...

What if one day we have absolutely nothing in common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - OK, so after near 7 months, he said, "I love you." I know just how serious this was for him, given his past and the need to be sure he was ready and meant it. He even recently said I should start leaving clothes at his place so that I can stay ...

Can someone shed some light? Why do I like her romantically, but not sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I have been having feelings for a girl at work for some time now. We don't interact outside of work, I only see her there. The thing is I am not sure if I actually fancy her. I really like her, I think she's pretty and cool, but I don't feel any l...

I miss him and still want to talk to him, but I am afraid of what will happen if I do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I met a guy 3 months back from a friend of mine. We got acquainted and later on we found out that we shared a lot of common, however, I am married and he is married. We both have problems with our respective partners. He has a very controlling and ...

If it is just friendship, why is he sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i met this guy and he says we are just friends. We had sex twice but we keep reminding we are just friends. My feelings for him have died down to friendship level and now he keeps asking me have i told any of my friend girls about him. I'll say ...

Her husband comes home late and won't say where he has been. What should she do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I have a friend who have been complaining that the husband always come late at night, then when she asks him, he says thats none of your business so she asked me what she should do. ...

Will the age issue be there like a sore that will not heal and eventually destroy the relationship? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) - Hello, i am a 43 year old man and for the last year i have been in a relationship with a wonderful, beautiful, mature acting 22 year old woman. I am very happy with her, i've hit the jackpot at last.....but there are problems and i would appreciate ...

There was an incident with my BF's brother and it has ruined our relationship. Please give me some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - hello, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now an we have had it very hard. he was married before before but wasnt getting on with his wife. he also still lives in the same house with his wife STILL). i have had numerous rows with ...

Should we have a break? Will this pattern continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Im in need of some insight right about now!! When i was 15 I was in an abusive relationship that lasted 3 years with the person who i feel was my first love. I endured all abuse possible being talked down upon, being accused of things i never did, ...

He had an emotional affair, but he wont accept he cheated! How can I make him understand?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we get on like a house on fire, I've never felt like this with anyone before, everything just worked. Before christmas he was having a tough time and I supported him best I could not giving him any ...

Does he have feelings for her or are they just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Hey, sorry this is going to be a long rant but I need to get it off my chest. The names have been changed. I'm really confused and don't want to discuss this with anyone who knows me because friends always seem to want to reassure me and Pauls' fr...

She has stopped texting me, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I told my classmate that i like her but through text only. She said that she only likes me as a friend, and after that she stopped texting me. What does it mean?...

I can't seem to have conversations with people! I overthink!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I'm an 23 year old guy in college, and every time I have a conversation, I consciously think of what I'm going to say next, rather than just listening to the person and expanding on what they say.My conversations aren't natural liked they used to be ...

LDR Got back together after break up, now she is acting weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Hey Everyone, So about 1,5 month ago my long distance girlfriend broke up with me while I was there. She told me she couldn't handle our fights anymore (didn't have many) and that this distance wasn't working out for her. I told her I understood...

A close childhood friend doesn't like my girlfriend - we got invited to her wedding...should we go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Some very good female friends of mine, which I know since we were young, were really mean (to say the least) to this other girl when they met her in college. This girl now happens to be my girlfriend of almost a year, and soon to be my fiancée. ...

Why is my g/f so frigid? Am I that repulsive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend (27y) of 9 months and I (26y) have never been intimate, never discussed sex (she gets extremely uncomfortable), never ventured our hands between each others' legs. I always respect her comfort level. I feel unwanted. I feel...

Is she cheating again or is the past just making me uneasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are at what I consider to be a crossroads in our relationship, either this is going all the way or it needs to end while we're young, we are both the same age, 25, and we just recently got back together after about a year apart ...

I'm in love with him, but he seems to be using me as a business arrangement

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - It's been hard for me. I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with a man who's much older than me and never married. I was so attached to him and loved him. He cared a lot about me too. He's been good to me when we are together. We talk,...

He wants me to be one of those women who cleans the house and have dinner ready for their husbands; but I have a full job with a lot of stress and responsibilities.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My relationship is going downfall. My bf and I don't get along. We disagree on pretty much everything. He is conservative, I am liberal, he plans everything, I live by the moment, he likes to eat at home, I like to eat out, he watches reality ...

Should accept the fears and limitations of my parents or move on with my life as the adult I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i'm a 20 year old woman who still lives with her parents. i have a 25 year old boyfriend who lives in another state. i've been planning a trip to see my boyfriend and go with him to a convention since december of last year. i spent around 200 ...