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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm in love with a girl who every other guy has made love to! How can I get over her past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, but we've had a thing for a year. Only problem is now that I'm with her, all I can think about is how she hurt me countless times before we officially started dating and how much it hurts to feel so ...

How can I make him listen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he ...

Don't know what she means, please help me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - Please help me! I just don't know what she means now or she really doesn't want this relationship anymore? Really sorry for the long post but i'm really out now and don't know how to explain it... Thanks so much if u can help me! The questions ...

How could he say this to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - My husband and I fought over something stupid on Mother's Day...we have not talked to each other about our child since then. On Monday our son had his last soccer game. We all went and some man held the door open for us as he was going out. I said ...

I'm worried about my daughter

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Is a parent who is really concern about her daughter. My daughter has a baby, she's not with the father, she has another child of 8 years, and she not with the father of either children. The baby's father wanted her to get rid of ...

I think my best friend is mad that I'm dating her ex! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - My friend and I have known each other since we were like 7 or 8. I started to really like one of her ex-boyfriends. I asked her how mad she would be, on a scale from 1 to 10, if I liked him. She said about a 2, and told me she wouldn’t care if I ...

My boyfriend spends a lot of time with a woman in her 60's. I think he should spend more time with me. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Can someone help me with this question? I don't know of anybody being in this situation ever. My boyfriend of nearly 7 months chooses to spend his time with a lady in her 60's rather than with me. He goes to her house every night and through ...

He has photos on his phone of another guy.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - Hi I wonder if you could give me advice. LAst night I had to work late and I checked my BFs phone (we are a gay couple) and seen photos from another guy which he recieved the same night. THe pics are from a guy who he met up with before we got ...

My partner wont help with the finances......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I have been going out with this guy for over a year. We get on well most of the time. But he constantly insults me - he doesn't mean to but it offends me. He doesn't make me feel special anymore. We work togethere and no...

Why is she acting so cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - About four weeks ago, me and the girl whom I love has disconnect me completely by kick me out of her friendlist on fb and ignore me during school time. During these four weeks I did send her messages for asking for forgiveness since there were too ...

He is on holiday with his ex wife and kids, and I havent even had a text from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - My partner has taken his ex wife and children on holiday this week. He went on Monday and is due back tomorrow. We don't live together officially but have been seeing each other for about 18 months and I love him and he says he loves me. He stops at ...

The choice between self-respect and love.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - i need help in making a decision, i dont know whether me and my boyfriend should be apart, my family have come between us. my brother accusing my boyfriend of sleeping with his wife, which is absolutely ridiculous, as he doesnt even know what she ...

How do I get my unambitious too laid back boyfriend to move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I have this live in boyfriend. We have been together for 17 yrs. He's a caring guy but he doesn't want to hardly work. I care about him and I was so in love with him when I first met him.... But he just don't have drive to want anything in life...

I'm tense about my husband talking to our neighbour, a lady.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - My husband talks to the lady who is our neighbour by hiding from me. I m really tensed about it. He says me she is just a friend. Her husband is also unaware about it....my husband tells me that she is just a friend an now they have shifed to ...

If your ex is trying to make you jealous, does it mean they want you back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - If your ex is trying to make oy jealous, does it mean they want you back? He up with me after an interferring relative made him believe I was bad-mouthing him behind his back to her. He never confronted me about it he just ended the relations...

Why is my ex acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I've known my ex for 4 years now, we met in 2007, were friends with benfits in the end of 2007 after being friends for a year and also in 2008 and sometimes on wards if we didn't have partners but he would always want me over anyone else. so i ...

Dating him for 4 years but he is flirting with other girls! Why am I not enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I've been dating him off and on for four years. I peeked at his phone hes flirting with other girls and trying to hire hookers. Why arent I good enough? Why is he so verbally abusive? ...

Why wont he tell his family about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Can someone please tell me why my boyfriend of 7 month would not tell his family that he is going with me. He hasnt nothing to be ashamed of about me. I just dont understand him. My friends and family know about him and have met him. We even live in ...

Confused boyfriend....what to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I've got a confused boyfriend...the last 2 weeks hes been distant with me and today was the icing on the cake, ive tried to be patient but in the end i had to cut to the point and tell him hes been distancing himself and if he wants to end things he ...

Will I lose him it he continues to text his ex? It really upsets me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I have a problem with this girl texting my boyfriend and would really appreciate some advice on how to control my emotions over it. My boyfriends been with me for 8 months and things are okay. The only time we argue is over this girl. She's...

Should I go to tell him I'm sorry and get back to him again? Or should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - well, I knew the guy who from Europe. he's in the same school with me. Last Friday he gave me a booty call at 3 am. I took my friend there, he was so mad at me but later he took me to his room and grabbed my boobs.He realized that he did a wrong ...

Our relationship ended. but now I want to talk. How do I open negotiations to re-start our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I want to be happy. Im going to be happy with my boyfriend, we're going to be happy. And we're going to shut everybody else out. But right now, i need help, okay he's called all that day when i ended it. And now today's the second day and no call...

My love story...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 16 year old boy living in a very popular city. 5 months ago i went with my family to Mexico for Christmas vacation, and i fell in love with a girl. :/ My parents actually introduced me to her when she started crying over a mistake she made ...

I'm not sure if I love him for the right reasons. Should I marry him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Here's the thing... my fiance and I have been together for a year and a half, and have lived together for a year. We are planning on getting married in October on our 2 year anniversary. But... I have many doubts about marrying him. It's not wedding ...

I need help !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I need some help and this is my last resort. I'm 14 years old, and well things have been building up in my head for a long time and now its starting to come out. My whole life people have made me feel like scum people who clamied to be my frien...

Is anyone else annoyed at Facebook?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - I hate Facebook. There, I said it. I hate the way most people use text messaging, too. I do not participate on Facebook, but most of my friends and family do. That's fine. It's a nice way to connect with a lot of people at once and share thos...

Why does he think he can control me just because we have a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - okay my ex and i have a child together he is with someone else which is fine cos i am now seeing someone to. but he won't see our baby he says he tries but he dumps her when he has something better to do. well anyway he was supposed to mind her...

Please give me suggesstion what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - i am female of age 20. i am in love with man who is married and has three kids. he love me first and put proposals. i refused and said its not good. then he said me he cannot live without me. he will die, but still he says me he wants his family as ...