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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want my teachers to be more friendly than they are!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Disclaimer: I realize that the topic of this question is a bit of a stretch for this site, but my rationale is that it has to do with relationships, in a sense, so it IS applicable. ;) Now, to actually get down to business. To get right to the ...

Why does my boyfriend act so weirdly about food?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hi everybody I do feel embarrassed about this but here it goes I am trying to understand my boyfriend we live together I have a 18 year old special needs daughter now to me he has issues with food he soon as start a fuss over nothing concerning this ...

Her family harping on her weight is undermining her self-esteem

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2 May 2011 (M) - Hey guys, So ive been dating this girl for 6 and a half months, and so far its been great! We love each other very much, we share intimate moments together (sex) and we get along super well and constantly know how the other is thinking. Un...

Issues with my girlfriend's past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - i have a girlfriend and she never told me about het past . she was wid dis guy in delhi in hostel he used to come here and take her to a flat and used to hav oral sex wid her thats wat she told me now how can i trust her why would she stop after ...

Our relationship is suffering. How do I compromise with my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hey. I'm a little worried about my relationship with my mom. (mother to daughter). We used to be really close, and i would be able to tell her everything. I can't do that since I hit the teens and there are horrible fights every single day. Over ...

I'm angry towards my FWB, but the sex is great. Should I end it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hi All. Please can I have some thoughts on the following!! thanks. I am in a FWB situation, and the sex is great. It makes me feel relaxed, happy and good. I am very highly sexed, and this guy is giving me exactly what I need. However, I am not ...

My marriage is void of intimacy and I feel I'm running out of time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - I have been married for 33 years. We (my wife and I) never had intercourse before marriage. Although we did everything but, before marriage. We have never been able to make each other orgasm or cum through intercourse. Masturbation seems to be the ...

Why did he disregard the conversation and not call back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I am wondering why my boyfriend just hurried to get off the phone by telling me he had an important call to take. I was just getting ready to break up with him and I had started the conversation and he was participating in the conversation with very ...

Should I try and make amends with him, at least on a platonic level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - My ex moved away and that is when we stopped dating. Eventually I stopped replying to his e-mails cause I was seeing someone else and was very busy. Now we're both back home and he ignores me completely, but my feelings never went away. I tried to...

I suspect my BF is cheating and need some advice as to handling the situation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - This is kind of a long one but i need to tell the whole story in order to get advice. A bit of history first. My boyfriend and i and been going out for 3 years. We are looking for a house to rent in June and this will be our first real home togeth...

I'm married. He's married. We need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I married for 4 years, no kids, my relationship was very good until I have to relocate to a different state due to work. After living away from my husband for 4 months I found out he was not sleeping at home (couple of nights), since then my ...

Am I wrong to ask my BF to hang out with me more often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - So well its almost summer time, we have 4 more days until school is out. My boyfriend lives three hours from me when were at our homes - he says we will most likely only see each other once this whole summer (3 months!). I don't really like that ...

Am I being too jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Why do i get jealous so easily?. I must admit, i am an insecure person. Recently, this woman came up to my boyfriend, and, without saying anything to him, she gave him a hug and he hugged her back, but then she went away from him. I don't know how ...

BF has been collecting nude pictures of girls off Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I have just found out that my boyfriend of 10 months has been collecting naked pictures from girls off his facebook the whole time we have been together. He says he doesn't understand why he did it and he has promised me to stop. He has deleted a...

My girlfriends are in a relationship and it's making me uncomfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - One of my close friends (lets call her M) who i've been quite good friends with for about 4 years, has actually decided that she's bisexual, and she has a thing for my best friend (lets call her A) . I know A likes her back in a way, but not so ...

His silent treatment is hurting me. Any advice to improve the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I'm going to try to keep this as brief as possible in explanation, to make it easier to understand the history behind this question. So, I had a friend who was my very best friend in school up until a couple months ago, when we both went through ...

I’ll respect that she’s happy with her BF, but I’m upset that I have lost a good friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - Me and this women from work used to get on really well spending lunch together etc. I saw her i few times out of work. she has a boyfriend which i dont think shes happy with, i started to get feelings for but didnt make a move because she had ...

Should I let my son's father continue to see him or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I recently split from my husband after he cheated on me with my best friend and we have a 10 month old son. My problem is he will only see our son a couple of hours a week. I have never stopped him seeing our son on the condition that he doesn't ...

Is this relationship worth working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - ok so....me and my boyfriend and father to my child have been together for 3 yrs we have been through so much together. From him cheating to being dirt poor. We broke up for a few months last yr and when we got back together in october it was with ...

I miss him. Please can someone tell me how to get through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for seven years and he has been in the army for the last 5. We are really happy together and love each other so much that we are ready to take the next step and buy a house. I've never bee...

I want to show her that I don't just want her for sex. I really care about her.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - Okay guys, So I'm back again, feeling really down at the minute as it's going downhill rapidly with my FWB, I've know her for about a month or so now (was introduced through my sister) and the first few weeks were great, we saw each other regul...

Any of you had bad karma in r/s?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Does karma in relationships really happen? Like if you lie/cheat on/ or treat your ex badly and get into a new one.. does karma really come back to bite you? Any experiences to share? ...

What bothers me is that I wasn't special enough. How can I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, same old tale... Fallen for a boy who doesn't want a relationship! Met, been seeing each other for few months, was totally honest about not wanting a relationship, which I respect him for and it's not even like I minded that he goes ...

It's been four years and I am still not over him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a problem. Huge one. I will have to start from the beginning and for that I am sorry...It's a long story folks... It's been over 4 years since I broke up with the ex-bf in question. We have spoken now and then. I have had oth...

Is it normal for him to continue looking at girls on the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a issue with porn and watching other women on the internet. we worked out the whole porn thing but for some reason he will not leave watching other girls alone. I've expressed my emotions to him about it but he just cant leave it ...

Is she playing hard to get? Cause seriously it's working if it is.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - hi kindly help me here please. i've been dating this girl i really like. we've known each other for almost 7 months. by the way she is korean and im chinese filiipno and we're on our 20's. we always text at each other everyday. she even calls me ...

Relationship advice......my BF can't forget about my past, plz help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hey! Im just after a little bit of advice, so any would be appreciated :)! I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and he wanted to know everything about my past relationships etc, so I told him everything, how many people I had slept with, ...

Please help. Boyfriend and I have serious problems with sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I’m in a real dilemma at the moment, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve posted on here a few times before. I’m a 24-year-old gay guy who has been in a relationship with the same guy for over four years now. We have serious problems...

Am I an embarrassment to him? Why is he doing this to me? One for the men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

2 May 2011 (?) - My best (male) friend never goes anywhere with me. I invite him to my party every single year and he says he has no money and whenever I invite him somewhere else he says he has no money. Just to make it possible for him to come I invited him to go ...

From exasperation to enthusiasm in 20 minutes... what is he doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - For the past few months a guy and I have been having what I can only describe as a staring contest whenever we're in the same room. We've been friendly in the past and when I started feeling sexually attracted to him (because of his intense ...

What can I do? The girl I love is ignoring me and took me off her FB friend list.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - Please help me! The girl whom I love had killed me out of her friend list on facebook and ignores me in school. About three weeks ago, I stupidly sent her a goodbye letter due to I have accumulate far too much negative emotions in my head. Ever...

Friend has been lying and using me for material gain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - ive recently discovered a close male friend has been using me for material gain and has told me some serious lies. i dont understand why ive been there for him always when noone else has and the other day he told another lie and i just snapped and...

Is this emotional abuse - so confused!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hope someone can help me. I've been with a guy for nearly 2 years now. He has always had a kind of 'firey' nature and tends to sulk a lot. I suffer from depression and when I am happy he gives me loads of attention and love. However wen ...

Boyfriend has been diagnosed with schizophrenia. I'm sexually frustrated and feeling guilty.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hello all Please do not misunderstand my intentions. My boyfriend is struggling with Schizophrenia, he has also been mentally and physically abused by a cruel sadistic woman. I know this is very hard for him to deal with but he wont be close wi...

Why don't my girlfriend send loving texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - me and my girlfriend, yes we are lesbian couple shes alot older then me. she never sends loving or romantic texts and i do for her all the time but she never replies to them. the type of text she sends me are just about what shes been up to and ask ...

My boy friend's parents will not speak to me. I need advice on what to do please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Thank you Andrew I'm using this site because my boy friend's parents have put the gate on me with no reason given to me. They will not talk to me and I need advice on what to do. My boy friend is in the middle of all this. I also want to say than...

Can I repair this misunderstanding? My Boy friend's sister hates me and is trying to ruin my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I need help with my boyfriend and his family. I met my boyfriend through my best friend. My boyfriend is her brother. My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few weeks but I feel like I want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is ever...

I don't know if boyfriend is hiding me or ashamed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Here goes ... Boyfriend and I been together for six months and I can't decide if he's ashamed of me or hiding something . I don't have a phone and have been sharing his complicated smart phone.. I keep finding messages to and from "old friends " ...

Where have all the good men gone? Any suggestions on how to find them please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I've been actively dating for the past year. Overall, I've been extremely disappointed by the experiences I've been having. I've found many to be extremely selfish, immature, and have no respect for women. I've found that some men treat women li...

He asked for time off from the relationship...

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2 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a very long time(10 to be exact) we have a child together. Recently, he came to me and said he is confused and wants to have a time off. So I've made him move out and he did. For about a month he didn't live with us b...

Should I fogive him one more time or has he gone too far this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I met my husband at a club nine years ago and within a week he moved into my home.. I didn't live there at that time but within two weeks my kids and I moved back into our home with then my boyfriend. Things were going great... the kids liked him ...