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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

On and off with my boyfriend, but have frustrating feelings and desires for a woman? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Okay, I'm really confused at the moment as to what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years, although we've been on and off quite a lot. I love him to bits but recently we both decided to take a break from eachother, not break up so to ...

I'm terrified of relationships and dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I avoid relationships and I'm always worried about them. I'm extremely paranoid, though I've never been cheated on or actually never been hurt. But I see my friends and the relationships they've been in. The online dating or physical dating. People ...

Why wasn't he able to sort himself out at home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - hi my husband of 13 years left a week ago, after i told him too, he has an anxiety disorder so he didnt work, i work 4 jobs, have 2 children the youngest is his and a month ago my eldest moved out to live with my mum when asked why she was unhappy ...

Boyfriend says "he doesn't do family things"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of just over a year was invited to my nieces birthday party today. he said he would go 3 weeks ago when asked, then the day before it said he couldn't make it and made up a lame excuse about the time it started conflicting with ...

I do not want to live the rest of my life never being french kissed and having that closeness and intimacy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I am 29, and have been dating a 40 year old for a little over 6 months now, when we first got together, he joked all the time about sex, but never made a move. Said every other relationship he was in, he was in bed in the 1st week and he really ...

Wife just admitted to sleeping with my friend when we were dating!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am a 33 year old man who has been married for almost 9 years. When I was 19 and gettign ready to go into my second year of college, I met what would end up being my future wife. i was instantly attracted to her. She was amazing. ...

Former "friend" with benefits said he wants to sleep with me, that I'm "hot" and doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (?) - I ended up having a "friends with benefits" type thing with a guy "friend" for nearly a year. He lives hours away so when he was in town we'd meet up etc. I ended up (stupidly) liking him, which was a shame because I found out that he was a complete ...

I give him oral 24/7, but NEVER has gotten it in return, am I being selfish?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Hello, I am a 18 year old female and i am mixed. I am native american and black. I been with my boyfriend for a year in a half and i have done everything to please him. I even pay for every single damn thing. I wait for him all the damn time ...

Why are guys reactions rude when they hear I don't have facebook, or drink alcohol!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Right. So I'm 18 and i don't have facebook or drink by choice. Many guys tend to find this strange or don't believe me! And I don't like the reactions they give! But whatever, it's my choice right? I'm just not interested in facebook like ev...

I gave out TMI to a gossipy friend and now I'm afraid my b/f won't forgive me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and this guy I was sleeping with for a while is 20. We were really good friends and he told me alot of things in confidence. He told me his ex-girlfriend miscarried about 8 months ago and it hurt him deeply. Well I found out the other day I'm ...

She doesn't trust me anymore and won't be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - So ive been with my gf for two years. And she doesnt want to be with me no more because she doesnt trust me. Because her parents don't like me. And because I messed up too many times in our relationship, she always getting hurt. But I just can't let ...

He never tells me that he loves me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - i love my bf like COMPLETELY, i have never met anyone like him, we have been going out for a year. he has never cheated on me or anything, we are the same age, and we see each other almost every week for example we like going to the movies, mall, ...

My friend that I like has a mystery girl but I don't think its me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - im 18/f hes 19/m okay so i really like my bestfriend, alot. and for the last 6 or so months we've been extremely close. he got out of a 5 year relationship 7 months ago, and he wants to enjoy singledom. but at the same time he told me of this ...

She kicked me out and I'm absolutely devastated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - April 24 after a 3 1/2 years relationship I was told "leave". End of story, have had no ability to contact in any way. I go between depression so deep I'm suicidal then I go to anger. I will flesh out the problem. Met this person and it wa...

Don't want to live in my bf's parents house anymore but don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I don't think I need any advice as such... I guess I just need somewhere to say how I'm feeling about things at the moment. I'll warn you now, this is going to be very long. Just to give you little insight - Me and my boyfriend met over the int...

What should I say/do in this situation?

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14 May 2011 (F) - I was seeing a friend of a friend over the summer. He was staying at a friends house. The guy my friend was staying with must be in his fifties/sixties. He has two daughters, one is a teenager, the other is 10. But he only sees them on weekends, as ...

I can't live without him but can't live with him either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Me an my bf been having alot of problems. Im super jealous but i have reasons to be. He has been caught talkin an texting other woman in the past but i never saw anything crazy. About two weeks ago i saw a number with no name in a text an asked him ...

The one girl I truly love, but I keep hurting her somehow

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - Okay so I've been with my girlfriend for almost tow years. We both lost our everything to eachother. She is the type of girl that never lied to me, she never tried to hurt me. In any way possible did she ever disappoint me at all. So where is the ...

How do I handle this. My mom is traditional and doesn't understand my friends with benefits relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - My mom doesn't understand the type of life I'm living. I'm 20 and I tell my mom everything since I began wanting to be full honest with her. I decided that relationships aren't my thing right now but I do like the feeling of sex and the role I get ...

Why has she turned cold on me? I thought we had possibilities.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - Im just curious. why is it that a girl i have been friends for quite some time (appx 6 years) is all of a sudden cold towards me. She would rather be a groupie and chase musicians to various states, then have the nerve to say that it was just ...

How can I best show support for this girl? I love her to bits. What can I do to get her to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Hello, my friend who is 18 comes from a very broken home. She is pretty stressed out about her life. It started when she told the police what her step father did to her in 2007. Her mom does not believe that she is telling the truth and thinks that ...

I want her back but how do I regain her trust and convince her I will not lie to her ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - So my ex girlfriend just broke up with me a month ago after 2 years together because I lied to her and kept the secret for a while. I REALLY want her back, but i dont know how I can get her to trust me again...I've tried telling her how I felt and ...

Please tell me, is this repairable, how I can fix my relationship with my friend who is the sister of my Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - my best friend of 4 years and i have lately had a falling out, it happend about a year ago, and i was wondering how to fix it? here's the the story, all names were changed My friend 'A' and I have been best friedns for forever. Her older brother ...

My desire for good sex is taking over and ruining the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I am finding things difficult with my partner. He hasn't been with many women. He always insists we have a bath just before sex (I am the cleanest person so this is ok) and everything is very mechanical. He says he wants to be really good but ...

There is a rumour being spread about me and I need to know what to do to contain this rumour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so one night i hears from some friend that have you heard about a rumour that is spreading about you, i'm like no, but then i have some weird feeling in my stomach and have an inclination to ask, what rumour, and i am right. Somone said that...

He's cheated before, and I'm wondering if he's cheating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I just took my bf back and now i feel as if he's cheating. Every time we're around each other, we're always arguing or it's just silent. When he leaves out of the room to go to the bathroom or anywhere else, he takes his phone. When he leaves it ...