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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Divorced Parents & Graduation: Advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hey all, I have a bit of a family dilemma.. It is my graduation in September and my parents are both to attend, but I would also like my grandparents (dads parents) there too as I am very close to them. My mum is not happy with this as there is...

Does love trump progression in a relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we are now 27 years old. We currently do not live together, I live at home because I just finished university, and since he dropped out of highschool, the job he has does not give him enough money to ...

How do you help someone who has really low self esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is so negative, I really want to help make him see the brighter side some more. He clearly has low self esteem and no matter how gorgeous I tell him he is it clearly just just doesn't sink in, he just doesn't believe me I guess ...

How to get over a girl, and remove the breakup jealousy I am having?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Hey, About a week ago (tomorrow it will be one week), i broke up with my girlfriend, she is a very free spirited person, and a very independent person, she told me i was being immature, and that i am needy, insecure, possessive, controlling, and...

If they were just friends, why didn't he fess up when I asked him about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Here is my question A couple of days ago I found out he had been having a phone relationship with someone. First he denied it then when I would not let it go he said she was an old friend, was going through a divorce and since he had just been thr...

Our stormy past has isolated him from my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for two half years,we are both fifty,we are very young looking and young minded. We get on so well together, we never argue, he is my true soul mate,before me, he was single for 14years, so his life has been women and the ...

Should I accept my bf's faults or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi, Are these reasons to end a relationship? *we only get to sleep together about 4 nights in every 2 months due to work commitments, even though we live 5 miles apart! His excuse is that i wake up far too early as he's a late sleeper and i fidge...

Does he mean what he says, or do you think he just said it to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi all you great agony aunts, just a question, what does it mean when your man tells you he loves you to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me. does this mean he his saying he wants a future with me? he doesn't tell me often he loves me ...

I am getting mixed signals from my best friend. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost stalk someone until that person has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I ca...

Was it wrong to ask my boyfriend what he thought of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - hi good people please help me here. I've got a boyfriend that i am going out with for seven months now. he does not tell me he loves me not even when i ask him. he is always busy that i only see him twice or once a month. when im with him he is ...

Should I leave the husband I don't love and never have loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My situation is a simple one: I married a man I've never loved. We met at 16, started dated at 18, we got married at 26 and now, at 33, I just want to end it all. He is my best friend, I like to hang out with him, but I never loved him. I kn...

We say we love each other, but we are both bored in the relationship. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have just gotten back together. This is the third time, ever. And I feel as though she's quite boring, we've talked about it several times. And we suggest to hang out more. kiss more, etc... It turns out she doesn't like to kiss ...

Should I stick around and get my needs met without any commitment? Or break it off and lose my best friend at the same time?

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19 May 2011 (F) - Hi everybody, I met this guy about 10-11 months ago. Let's call him D. So D approached me in a coffee shop and we instantly became very good friends. At the time I had just gotten out of a LTR with another woman, and was convinced I wasn't ever goi...

He talked of marriage and children, and I took him back. Now he has walked out again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me again for the second time. he came back to me after 8 months of being with someone else promising all of these things, telling me it was the worst 8 months of his life and he's lost me once he never will again. that he ...

I want to get close to him again but I'm terrified of rejection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - First of all, I would like to state that I am in no way vain or conceited, just genuinely confused on what happened here. I am 27 years old, I have a Master's Degree, I work at a publishing company, and I'm fairly attractive. I met a guy back in ...

Room mates 3 cats are stinky and too furry! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - i have a bit of a dilemma, although it's not necessarily about a relationship problem. i have a roommate who's a great person to live with. she's a good friend of mine, we get along great, never argue, she always pays her bills on time or early. o...

Have we messed up? Or can we make this affair work after his divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My situation right now is that I feel like am at the bottom of the pit and that I struggle to be back up and out of this. I am staying with a couple who are in the middle of divorce right now. I've been staying with for a year now. Am I a foolish ...

He doesn't think I'm keeping my options closed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - We are seeing each other and getting to know each other. Let's put it this way, we are in the process of becoming official and agreed to close our options..One day on my facebook, he saw another guy comment on my status about going somewhere to hang ...

The wedding is so close and I know I love this guy but why do I keep focusing on reasons why the wedding shouldn't happen when the date is so close and there is a kid involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - The man I am with treats me very well, and treats my 7 year old kid just the way I would want a step parent to treat her, but there is no heat in our relationship anymore and I am SOOO infatuated with a guy I used to work with and constantly see him ...

Topic suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have trouble finding topics to talk about. Do you have any suggestions for me?...

Is it normal for guys to have crushes on other women even in a dedicated long-term relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - So I've had a pretty rough past two weeks here. My boyfriend of two years (lived with for a bit over a year) just broke up with me after a big incident. We'd decided we decided to move in too soon, and we figured a break would be ideal. We still ...