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writes:i'm 19 year boy and i'm in realtionship with a 18 year girl,we are having a relation from past 7 months...its been a great time with her....i love her a lot....lot means ..how much i love myself i love her...before few days my friends and i were talking about the their respective realtionships with their gals...i came to know that each of my friend is getting something in return..don't take it in terms of money but....i keep giving choclates and gifts to my gf regularly...since these 7 months i have spended about 10,000Rs on her...i'm not an earner dependent on ma parents,i'm a student...i keep giving her gifts but nevr got nothing in return...:(whenever we go outside its always me wo has to pay and this she never understands...she never even pretends she wants to pay...past month i was having my b'day but i received nothing...........nothing from her....her friends keep telling me that dude you can buy her that and that........i say yes i will.... and i do buy her ..but the irony of my life is that i never recieived anything from her....now days this thing is getting my mind swinging....i found myself in a shitty situation...it appears to me as she is properly exploiting me.......don't know hether she realizes or not ...but i have started feeling bad on this :(i concerned my friends they said its not fair you deserve a gift on your b'day...whatever it is but you deserver something it you have spended this much on her....i don't get what to do...plzz help me what should i do
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 Relationships are two way streets and that brod is driving down the wrong way on a one way... get out of the path. Yeah she doesnt appreciate you and therefore not worth your time.
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 Dump her. She's just taking advantage of you. She's only thinking about herself. Why be with someone like that? You deserve better. Dump her and find a respectful girl.
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