A
male
age
41-50,
*by1
writes:so weve spoken about me and her restarting our relationship after we split and ive made all the improvements she wanted, but she has now said. 'if i want you back ill let you know, but for now its a no'should i hang around or am i being messed around. she has had me round for sex now twice in the last week. i was gonna play it cool and make no advances towards her or ask her back again. let her think im ok with it and sex with her every now and again is ok, until i find somebody else, which i dont want to do really as i want the woman back i love.i think deep down she loves me, there is serious passion and warmth in her kisses and love making with me, but is obviously not wanting me back (yet if ever)confused!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): If she has been honest about not wanting to get back together you can hardly accuse her of messing you about. She probably assumes that, as a man, you can easily separate sex from love (men keep telling us they can) and understand that what you have now is a friends with benefit arrangement.
If you don't like this arrangement then stop having sex until you're actually in a relationship.
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