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*am44
writes:Me and this girl dated for just over a month(but felt like a year). She was extremely verablly and emotionally abusive, and i still dont understand why she insulted me, belittled me and harassed me so much because i treated like a queen, gave her the best of me. So i ended up breaking up with her in a swift... i didnt even give her time to negotiate, i just told her never to call me agin or whatsoever.But earlier on before our breakup, she applied me a job at her workplace.. dropped my resume, in a different branch location and she was also my reference. I got the job today starting tomorrow.. should i call her and say thank you? I feel guilty for leaving... my conscience is my biggest weakness, i care for other people so much!
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reader, sam44 +, writes (21 January 2011):
sam44 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Caringguy and Blonde68, i will just focus on my life. Thanks again.
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (21 January 2011):
If she treated you in that manner, then to me that is the least she could do.
By the way, she didn't get you the job... she only referred you like she could have referred several other people. You actually got the job yourself, so I wouldn't beat yourself up about it.
Move on and enjoy your new job!
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2011):
Don't call. Just focus on the fact that she treated you badly at other times, and call it quits there. Leave her in the past. You'll be better for it.
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