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writes:I have known this guy for quite sometime and he told me that he was filing for divorce but I heard rumors that he lied about it. We have gotten reaquainted online; by calling each other. The last time we spoke was 3 days ago and he told me that he loves me; I told him the same that I love him, too. But my concern is this..If he says he loves me, wants me next to him but cant return my calls or emails then wouldnt you be concerned if you were in my shoes if he is back with his wife or that he is with another woman? I called him today and left him a message stating, "If you really love me as you say you do then you would call me daily when you have time and I wont be calling anymore because you should be calling me. I truly love you."Can you please give me advice of what I should do? Im hurt emotionally; feel like Im being lied to and kept in the dark because we were talking honestly on the phone just recently.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 I think thats a red flag straight away if he lied to you about getting divorced. It does sound to me like this man has something to hide, it is possible that he is still with his wife. If you both love each other then he should be putting time and effort in to calling you and taking you out, but to me it sounds like he has another motive. Talk to him openly and honestly and tell him how you feel. Goodluck.
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