A
male
age
26-29,
*herno
writes:I am 16 years old and I have no confidence in myself whatsoever and I am a vain person. I am shy of girls, and intimidated. I do not know how to "be myself" because i just don't. I always find myself trying to be someone else...that is just how I am. So...i get social anxiety when I am faced with girls, no experience whatsoever with them. The fact of the matter is I am able to be confident when talking to so called "ugly" girls. On the other hand, when it comes to "gorgeous" girls, I just can't talk to them normally. I end up sounding like a total nervous wreck...The reason is because I do not feel a need to impress ugly girls, as oppose to hotter girls. So I am in a hole. No help or support...nothing!!! If I can't handle getting a date, I definitely won't be able to get married, I am scared of girls...
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reader, helpOut.GuY  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 i had the same problem at your age. but my first gf liked that. for some unknown reason. anyway it will eventualy become easier. dont worry. try practicing on a "hot" female friend . GL
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