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What do I do about a bf who doesn't listen to me, respect me or do anything I want to do?

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Question - (12 April 2011) 9 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, *oxochrystal writes:

I have a bf--i think....well, we have been fighting heaps and he has been treating me like crap, doesn't do anything i ask. Anything i do he rejects...... I have done everything for him. Hell, i gave him a threesome with another chick....he doesn't ever respect me, listen to me or do anything for me. What do i do?

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2011):

fi_the_tree agony auntWell if you want to be walked all over then that's fine. I was in a similar situation not to long ago, i was with a total loser, but it took me a long time to realise how bad it was and i broke away. To be honest i've never felt better hun!!!

I hope for your sake that he does try, will save you alot of heartache in the long run..

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A female reader, xoxochrystal Australia +, writes (14 April 2011):

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xoxochrystal agony auntAww i have bent over backwards and we are bavk together he says he wamts.to try and i just had a fight over him textn other gurls and teenchat and msn...omfg im a loser....think is i love him and dnt want to lose him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011):

This is awful. If he wanted a threesome, chances are he didn't have feelings for you, as threesomes often risk a lot with relationships. Do not "bend over" for any man (Figuratively speaking). They arent worth it. Best to you when moving on here miss.

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A female reader, xoxochrystal Australia +, writes (13 April 2011):

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xoxochrystal agony auntThank you guys well we have broke. Up....yaya i feel better anf thabks...

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (12 April 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou think you have a boyfriend??? How do you not know if you're in a relationship or not?

I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like you're in a relationship with him. He doesn't respect you, do anything you ask, much less listen to you, and you even sacrificed a threesome to him. That doesn't sound like a boyfriend, just sounds like an asshole.

I suggest you walk away from him, because this "relationship" whatever you want to call it, isn't happening.

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A female reader, sunandstars United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2011):

This guy doesn't sound worthy of your time, and it doesn't like either of you love each other, get rid! You should wait for a guy who respects you for you are and loves you, get rid of him before it's too late.

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2011):

fi_the_tree agony auntYou walk away from him, right now!!!

He clearly doesn't respect you and you could do so much better hun, truly!! Tell him what a waste of space he is and tell him you're gone for good.

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A female reader, Battista United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2011):

Is there anything positive about the relationship?

I would leave him. If he has no respect for you then you should move on and find someone who does.

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A female reader, Snow841 United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2011):

Snow841 agony auntI think you pretty much just answered that question to yourself. He's not worth you, get rid of him?

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