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female
age
30-35,
*tsallcool
writes:I cant get over my friend who is not interested in me.she a beautiful girl (she says she isn't but she is)shes bit of a tom boy she very sweet and caring.We are very good friends and I've been in love for her for a very long time and even tho i plucked up the courage to tell her how i feel she told me that she wasnt interested in me in that way and made it clear she never would as she is straight. (me myself being a girl and bi)and every time i think im over her i find my self getting annoyed with her if i dont get attention from heri normally dont find myself after so much attention from other friends and i still think of her often and find it hard to control myself around her (not flirt and to think of her as only a friend)how do i get over her? and how do i control myself?i really dont want to lose her as a friend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Me and you are in the exact same position until I figured out it was never going to happen. There is no miracle answer to this but to only say that you have to accept the fact that she is just not into you and become a little distant and not lovey dovey. When you catch yourself fallen for her then just keep telling yourself she is straight or whatever.
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