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writes:Hi allI fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he.What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told me he didn't fancy me and told me I couldn't hug him again until he was satisfied that I didn't fancy him anymore. I accepted this and wished I hadn't been as intimate. Anyway, I let him and his best friend stay at my house that night, during the night I heard giggling and I walked out of my room to catch him and his best friend having sex. I turned to him and reminded him I said no sex in my house as this was my brothers bed. He just laughed and said "See I can tell you still fancy me as your bothered about this". I let them sleep the night and kicked them out of bed the next morning and gave them 10 mins to leave. I didn't even get an appology. Seeing as I wasn't even allowed to hug this guy I was really upset. What you guys think of this? do you think I have been fair chucking them out or do you think I should have looked at this a different way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYep, I haven't spoken to him since. Me and his ex are now friends and getting on with our lives without this parasite!
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (13 January 2010):
DiamondGirlx is CORRECT! That was really inconsiderate of him to have sex in your brothers bed... even though (I'm assuming) you told him no sex in the house.
Not much of a friend, and I'd guess he wouldn't be much of a boyfriend either.
Time to find a new friend.
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (28 November 2009):
 I can definatley see why u threw them out, it wernt the fact that he did not fancy u bk it was the fact that he was shagging sum1 in ur brovas bed, thats way wring especially for a friend.
He shud be apologising not say that ur doing it because u fancy him!!!
Maybe u did get more annoyed because u fancy him but u still had every reason to kick them out because it was ur place, anyways this guy crnt be a decent friend if he is doing that 2 u, sounds like ur beta off without him,
:) D.Gx
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