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I love him really inspite of how he treated me

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Question - (27 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2009)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello! i just want to share with you 0n what i experienced, honestly because i really d0n't understand....

i have 24 at age going 25 next month. i have a live-in partner for 3 years and having him helped me lot to changed in a way that i am before and because of that i expected too much about him, but in goods. it feels like everything is good on him or let us say it never comes to think that his hiding something, same like i dont give more attention in to something that bothers me. i kept blind because of loving him.

now that we are about to separate, it is really hard for me to let him go easily like the way he think, that everything will be fine after separation, that i will be more happy living alone, all his given reasons never convinced me. and then i try to recall...

that was before for him i never did something good to make him proud of me, every thing bothers for him. and when i offered to talk when we are in a good mood, when i saw that he is really willing to discuss about the thing that bothers, yes he listened but it always ended ``nonsense´´ if he is not interested. but in terms of his own, his stuffs, on his band, u will see the sparkle on his eyes to discuss and i feel the same way, willing to listen and responce with all his questions with sense. in short in his part i showed and did the best i can, but like always ended for nothing.

and you know what more cupid, when we are in bed, honestly grabbing my tits and directly in to my butt, which i really hate because i am not in that way it hurted me a lot, i just gave him once, because he is begging like hungry, because of my partner too. but why is that cupid, because instead of romance first and then kissing i never feel that honestly.... he dont give more attention on kissing your lips, ur neck. and it surprised me because he got horny too fast.

and it make me puzzled more because, before he got inside i have to move in a dog position for him to ling my anal and used his finger to play on the hole... he really enjoyed more in that part of anal.

sometimes it caught my attention too when he swayed his hands talking so smooth, when we have fight he speak louder than me, which obviously it is more on for us(girls). comes out on his mouth that he knows me more than in my ownself.....

cupid as i recall of all these, it ended that he is a bit gay. or im just mistaken? cupid i love him really inspite of how he treated me and what he is. please, please, please can u help me cupid, so that things will be easy for me too.... to really set him free but from the bottom of my heart, like the way he want, please i want to know your opinion too about him. i need your advice.

i will wait for your responce and it will be appreciated.... thank you and i hope you like my story...

thank you cupid and more powers to all of you! god bless...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009):

Like I said, talk to him to find out what's really wrong with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

Errr...you didn't have to explain every detail here, just the main issues..umm if you feel that he's not being honest with you, then why don't you talk to him out of it so you know what's really going on with him..eventually find your way through on solving things and movng on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

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maybe he just want to live alone and be on his own self.

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