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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me very much.but i rarely get to see him coz he is very busy with work,we live miles away anyway there's this new guy who i have recently met and he also tells me he loves me yet he is very close what can i do?i love my boyfriend very much.
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reader, catchingbubbles  +, writes (27 November 2009):
The question here is does the long distance love really love you?
I know that if i love or care about a woman a lot i will make every effort to see them, if he is not then what future is there with him?
This long distance love seems to love his work more then you, would you see more of him if you lived closer together?
If so then one you will have to move if want a future.
Have you sat down and spoken to the long distance love about how you feel and what you want if there a future an is so how can you achieve it?
As for local love, do you love him? he may love you but if don't love him don't string him on, nobody likes to be a second choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): Well it seems fairly obvious to me that you need to break up with your boyfriend, you are not being fair to him if you have feelings for another guy. Let him go, i think you want to be with the other guy, you're just finding it hard to admit it to yourself. You're not wrong to like the other guy, you can't help it, and long distance relationships are hard. I think you should be fair to you, your boyfriend and even the other guy and just be honest. Good luck!!!!
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