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female
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41-50,
*urtin 4ever
writes:Hi thereI was in an abusive relationship for 10years and was ready to end my life when i had an old boyfriend call me up. He is also in a married . He told me that he couldnt stop thinking of me no matter in which part of the world he was in and he still loves me although we havnt seen each other for these ten years.He googled me and searched for me in every school in the country as i am a teacher. Ironically his wife had spotted me when she came to the town that i was living in and she told him that she had seen me. She would also tell him to speak to me when they would walk pass my place of work but he wouldnt even look in my direction.Eventually he called me at work and thats when it all started.My husband half killed me the last time he hit me and because i had this person in my life, i had the strength to get out. This guy even confessed to his wife and in laws that the loved me forever and couldnt live a lie anymore. In the mean time his wife became pregnant and she separated with him. I made him promise to be supportive to her in this time as i myself am a mother of three. After she had her baby she tried to be with him until she was with him for three days when she found a letter he had written addressed to his mum. In the letter he told her that i meant everything to him. Naturally she became hysterical and left to go back to her mother with the baby. We were still in touch and in the mean time my husband was trying to trace our calls although i had separated with him(my husband)This guy and i decided to "lie low" but i needed him becoz i was an emotional wreck. I would call him and eventually speak to his voicemail. I would text him and he wouldnt reply. I felt betrayed and then he said he wanted space. After i continually texted him he replied to say that he will always love me but we are star crossed lovers and that he doesnt think it will work because his mother said she will never accept me.He said it was a losing battle but he called me that night and i didnt beg him and he did say that he needed time to sort his life out and his worse fear is that if he were to marry me his wife will not allow him to se his child. I moved back with my parents and am in the same town as they are. I hate being there because it reminds me of him but in my religion if you separated with your husband, you shoulkd stay with your parents until you are divorced. Her mum called a few months ago to tell me that they have not been intimate from last september and now that i have come back to this town it is worst. He said he will never go back to her . What is the deal? I really dont know what to do. I really love him and couldnt marry him before because my parents didnt approve. Help please im hurting big time
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