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female
age
36-40,
*cockerham
writes:I was wondering if you could please help me.I dont know if my boyfriend loves me anymore! We have been together 2 and a half years and moved in together with each other last weekend. I expected it to be really romantic - cuddling up on the couch to watch tv and cuddling up in bed and lots of kisses instead my boyfriend seems to have gone the other way - he sits at the end of the sofa not touching me and i hardly get any cuddles - he hardly ever texts me during the day anymore and when he does i only get one "x" at the end and it has always been our thing to put 3. Does it sound like he doesnt care anymore? Our sex life is OK and normal but he seems like he doesnt care anymore.Please help - what should a relationship be like when you have moved in together? Am i just expecting too much? Is it because he feels like he doesnt have to try anymore now we live together? Im feeling really down!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): COMMUNICATION! Don't be afraid to talk to him. Start the relationship off right, by opening the lines of communication now!
Show him affection. Get playful...etc.
If you leave this unresolved, the wedge between you will grow. If you talk about it,it may improve, There is a chance that he isn't aware of the change and will respond positively!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): I'm sure he still loves you. If he really loved you before you moved in together then the move wouldn't have automatically changed his feelings. I think that maybe he is just feeling overwhelmed about the new living arrangments. Let's face it. It's easy to imagine what living together will be like but the actual reality is always a lot different. It's a bigger commitment and sometimes that can be scary. I would say to just try to keep the lines of communication open with him and try to be receptive to any answers he can give you about how he's feeling even if they sting your feelings a bit. Give him lots of love but from a distance of sorts so he doesn't feel closed in and then maybe he'll come around. Hang in there and good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2009):
Why are you asking us?
The fact you aren't able to ask him shows to me that you have communication issues and that is probably the problem. He feels he can't talk to you about it either.
Just ask him what is going on and if he is ok.
Good Luck!! xx
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