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writes:Ok I have asked a few questions on here before and I got another! I got to start off saying I love my boyfriend very much all and all we have a good relationship! Except he has lied to me that I know of once involving another girl! He was not sexually involved with her but I do have my thoughts! Ok but anyhow the past two weeks he has not came home from work until 2 hours after he calls and says he's on his way home... He don't drink he don't believe in gambling! So I don't understand why it takes him so long to get home when its a 20 min drive! He was engaged once before and he started hanging out with another chick and dumped the one he was with for the one hanging out with him! I am so scared it will happen to me! We just bought a house have three kids and "I" was planning our wedding. He just picked out the colors! Anyhow what are you opinions on this what should I do? I have asked him what is going on but he tells the same story! EVERY TIME I ask! I got to know before I get screwed like his ex did... Please help me out he won't even have sex with me! He says its because I'm being mean!
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (22 May 2009):
 No i dont but i still think you need to find out why he is 2 hours late you deserve a proper reason and he just ain't giving you it so follow him like i say, if you cant do it have someone else do it.
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLast night was a bad night! He came in his normal 2 hours late and I was mad! Then he took off bitching! When he came home I told our kids to tell daddy bye that we were leaving! He got all whiney swearing he has not done anything wrong! So I did him how he does me I made rules for him! Do you think that was wrong to do?
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (22 May 2009):
Ok tell him you need the family truck your at home with three kids and you say you have no means of getting around so why is he taking your only means of transport? is he being cute here knowing that if he does do that you are stuck where you are therefore allowing him to do whatever cause he knows you have no way of checking up on him? i would call his bluff i would be adamant you need that truck dont take no for an answer, if for any reason his work truck is broke or whatever get it repaired.
He has you where he wants you and i would not allow him to get away with that, maybe the threat of leaving him with the three kids would be enough to move his mouth!
He has to tell you why he is so late if he doesnt follow him whatever means you can get do it and you will find out there and then what he is up too.Cause stuck in a house with three kids and no transport is like being a prisoner in your own home!
Gina
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reader, 48years  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 Wow, you are in trouble,,,and you've got 3 18-year contracts with this bum.
Trust your perceptions...you've seen this behavior before with him... you know what's coming.
Do whatever you can to protect your children and ensure that they have a good future. Get documents of his to copy, and then get out. ESPECIALLY if you have a daughter. Don't teach her to be subservient to a man nor to accept whatever crumbs he cares to give her.
You can do this...I did.
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reader, ez4u2say +, writes (22 May 2009):
You can spy if you want too but if a guy doesn't want sex he is getting it somewhere else. Sorry but that is harsh reality. He is not worth it apparently this is a history that he will repeat over and over again with whomever sticks around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's hard to do because he hasn't been taking his work truck he has been taking our family truck so I have no way to leave our house at all! And yes I had been being mean but its only because he is feeding the same story of his where abouts! I mean he don't tell me he loves me. I get nothing from him! I tried getting all dressed up one day to maybe spark something yeah that was a waste of time! I'm lost on what to do!
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (21 May 2009):
I would get someone to watch the kids and follow him after work one night to see exactly why it is taking him so long to come home, the only way you will find out is by doing this cause he wont offer up an explanation if he is up to no good!
Arrange for a friend or a family member to take the kids and go to his work an hr or so before he finishes and follow him you will soon find out what he is up to then.
Gina
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