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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I sort out my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My life is so rubbish right now :( I have a boyfriend whos been really great to me as I have a few anger and problems but hes stuck with me. The thing thats bothering me is that I always have to make an effort to contact him, I can bet if I didn't t...

I cheated on her but I still miss her, she even misses me too...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hello, Summing it up and asking for words of wisdom; was in an 18 year relationship- I cheated. I left and she found someone right away and they live together now. We have had lots of "conversations." Not too long ago, she contacted me and said...

My life is not good ...I'm stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - i really need a friendly ear. i hate myself and i want to feel good about myself. 7 years ago i split with my ex-im not a horrible person but he was too laid back for me he never really showed he cared, i would be like a mother to him a...

Can I win her back or is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - im 30yrs of age been in a 5yr relationship with a girl who means the world to me we lived togeather ive got a 6 yr old boy by a previous relationship which wasnt a problem to her she accepted him and was like a mum to him every thing been good with ...

I'm I a slut? How can I forget!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - If I look at this on the funny side I'd say me and my boyfriend have a horn problem.. But on the not so funny side - I feel like a slut. Me and my boyfriend have done things in places we really shouldn't have. I regret it afterwards and n...

Why does she want to fight over everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - hey guys i'm a 27 yr old man with an 42 yr old woman she seems to wanna fight with me over every thing.i'm always being accused of cheating (never have though it's been 5 months)i love her,sex is good but i can't really stand all the fighting ...

I can't keep waiting for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old.my b.f jst turned 24. we knew eachother for 3 months always chatted etc we met of the net. he always use 2 chase me. finally i said ok we can meet... since that first day he became my first b.f, had my first kiss etc. he's muslim...

He always says he's sorry afterwards...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - MY boyfriend has never punched, hit or attacked me. But, he has squeezed my arm so hard it really hurt ( he said it was bacause he thought i was going to hit him ) and he pushed me off the bed when i was 3 months pregnant. (didnt hurt myself) Bu...

He sends sexy texts to strangers but says hes too embarrassed to send them to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hello again, I got some really good advice here recently and wondered if I could ask for some more. My original question is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-sends-and-receives-dirty-texts-from-random.html Basically, about 3 wee...

There is a bad atmosphere between me and my boyfriend's sister. Should I do anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together nearly a year and we got pregnant pretty fast (after 4 months) but we are happy about it and have kept the baby which is due next month. Anyway everyone was fine about it except his sister. She started telling ...

Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could ...

Whenever a problem arises, I get angry for what he did during our breakup. Am I too uptight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend recently came back to me and we decided to give us another chance. Now we know our problems and are trying to work things out and actually getting along well. However, whenever a small problem arises, I get disappointed and...

Girlfriend doesn have respect for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - Let me start by saying I am very much in love with my girlfriend, and I believe she is very much in love with me. The problem is I don't think she has very much respect for me. She has a history of lying about little things, she gets upset with me ...

Is watermelon a weapon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I am a 27 year old with a 50 year old boyfriend that I met two years ago. We met as I moved into the house he was subleasing, relocating far away from my friends and family, and have been dating him for a year. He is by far the best guy I have ...

Stuck in between friendship and a relationship...Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a complicated relationship with the man I love for 2 years. We started off friends and as we got closer, we fell in love and we started dating, it didn't last very long, but a couple of months after we broke up, we got back together and ...

I love him but I'm not attracted to him...he has hygiene issues!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hello Reader's My boyfriend and I been together for 4 1/2 years when I meet him I was only 18 and he told me that he was 26. After a year into our relationship he started looking older then he said he was. After snooping through his wallet I...

I think I upset her, can our friendship be saved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - I met a great girl through unusual circumstances about 18 months ago. We hit it off great and while at times it got a little personal, it pretty much always remained just a friendship. She's a great girl, smart, funny and we have a lot of similar ...

I don't want gifts, I want his love. Why has he gone off sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Ok, this is a long one... I'll start from the begining... Two years ago, I just entered highschool as a freshman in highschool... I met Lukas, a senior ready to graduate. I'll tell you a bit about him. Before me he only dated two other girls, non...

I'm scared he'll move on, but I won't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a on and off relationship for the last while. It seems like forever since I've had these feelings for him. It feels like he is all I know. I feel as if without him, I will never be happy again and I hate feeling lik...

Really forgiven or a panacea for her pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for 25 yrs. My wife is 57 and I am 45. Our marriage has gon stale in the last 5 yrs, which led to me seeking love elsewhere. I left my wife and the other woman to start a new life. My wife found out about the affair since ...

I've fallen for my co-worker...but I'm married with 2 children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - what do i do next , iam married with 2 chldren but i have been seeing someone else who is also in relationship ,. but i have fallen for him and cant get him out of my mind. but when iam with him its so comfortable and i fancy him we have slept ...

How do you stop thinking about a lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hello. I am married to a man that I have happily been a relationship for almost nine years. We are extremely compatible, both make each other stronger and have a very high level of trust in our relationship. Three weeks ago I cheated on him, for the ...

Is it ok for me to seek attention from other men if my husband watches porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - This qwuestion is in relation to another asked on DC. Is it ok for me to seek attention from other men if my husband watches porn? I mean dressing provocatively and flirting just to get stares and compliments.. after all my husband enjoys t...

Husband wants sex without tending to my needs...?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - This story is so long, but basically the short of it is this: My husband and I have 3 kids, the youngest is 6 months old and co-sleeps. Whenever my husband wants to "get off" he has no problem getting the baby to sleep and in his own bed, but if it ...

Overprotective parents and a confusing relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I have strict parents who make me scared 2 try 2 begin a relationship, they don't let me go out much, but now its this guy who I have known 4 a year and I want 2 be with him, but he stay an hour away from me, but I'm not sure if he's the 1 for me ...

My bf said I could have sex with other guys...WHY?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My bf of over a year told me last night that if it ever came up that I wanted to have sex with another person that we would talk about it and it would be okay... I lostmy virginity to him and haven't slept with any other guy .. Does he telling me ...

Why is she playing these games why doesn't she just leave with this dude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - By the way im in iraq while all this is happening, I'm 40, my sons mother is 30, my son is 10. we have been togther for 12 years, I do love her. we have been through so much fighting and arguing, anyway last dec I decided to break up because I was ...

Rumours pushed us apart but I love him more now, except he gives me mixed signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - i really need some help as im so confused, a few months ago i met this boy, we started talking, texting and got to know each other, he used to ask me to go out all the time and i wasnt really bothered about him. He used to tell me he loved me and at ...