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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His texts went from "i love you x" to "night x" to nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

26 July 2009 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 weeks, everything was going great we were spending loads of time together and texting 24/7. 10 days after we started goin out we were spendind our last day together before he went on holiday ...

He has left me, but still wants to control what I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am having relationship difficulties with my boyfriend at the moment. I felt as though I wanted to be more committed to him and spoke about moving in together. This immediately caused arguments as my boyfriend does not want to...

He's too thoughtful and considerate to his family! But it's not mutual!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i don't know where to start... I am married with kids. my husband is like a little puppet or puppy whenever things concern his family. he loves them too much he is too thoughtful and considerate when it comes to them. the thing is it is not ...

Should my man be contributing more towards the house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi Can you please help me: I have a boyfriend of 9 years, we have lived together for 7 years. I have three children who are now 17,18 and 19 years old. I have my own business for 6 years now; which has been very good but is getting harder. ...

How can I prove to my boyfriend that I'm making an effort to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My b/f and I have a lot of problems lately. He said that he couldn't take it anymore because I supposily changed. I think I changed alittle but not a lot. But he don't see me trying. He said that he is only going to give me one last chance. For me ...

I can't get rid of my ugly self image!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi So me and my ex were broken up for a year now. NO contact at all. I loved him, and I knew he loved me, but there were family issues and I think me, being lile overly jealous at times (he was too tho) made him leave me. Problem is. I have com...

How can I make her believe I care for her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - ok so i met this girl on a trip. we spent the whole week talking and we got together. problem is she doesnt believe i care about her. i dont know how she doesnt because if she fell as i was asking how she was and all. she fainted and i nearly had a ...

I have expectations which my boyfriend doesn't fulfill but the other man does

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who loves me a lot, and has sacrificed a lot for me too, like he quit his job which was 2500 kms away from me..but during that period, i met someone else who i was kind of attracted to..he bought me gifts (which my boyfriend never ...

I think his ex has some kind of hold on him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi There I have a problem. My boyfriend of 2 years has been telling me approximately every 2 months now for the year that he doesn't love me or we are not commpatible or he is confused about his feelings. We are in this stage right now where ...

"Go find someone else to treat bad!" ...that's what she said and it hurt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend was in a bad mood after work which is understandable. I was being nice and asked my friend to leave so we could be alone. She started taking out something the dog did that was not my fault. She thought she heard me say something under ...

He says horrible things to me because he doesn't like my past!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says he says things he doesn't mean when he is mad, and i should not take them personally. here is some examples : slut, whore, dirty, i am going to throw you off this balcony, you deserved to get raped no one is going to want you now, ...

I can't stay in a relationship where I'm not trusted!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I'll try and keep this short, but there is so much to the story. My boyfriend is extremely jealous, insecure and controlling. This is all getting better since he has been seeing a therapist, but one thing that has gotten worse it his trust problems. ...

We fight alot out in public

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I am a 26 year old male who is dating an 18 year old female. We have fun when we hang our and have talked about a long term relationship. The problem is we fight alot out in publid bars/friends parties etc. we are seperated right now but i still ...

His controlling behavior is tearing us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about eight months now. We haven't had a steady eight months, we have been on and off numerous times. Sometimes he can be the most loving boyfriend ever. Some days he will treat me good, and other days he won't. ...

I thought we left too much unsaid; she doesn't want deep conversations; should I reach out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - My gf broke up with me after a fight. We kept talking as friends but she couldn't bring herself to see me. I had a feeling something else wasn't right and after 3 months she finally told me exactly why she was so aprehensive in seeing me. One ...

He's great except for the sex -- should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years now and living together for just over a year of that time. I feel as though I really care for him but we, like every relationship, have our problems. The biggest problem is that he never wants to ...

I had my heart broken in the past and became cold-hearted. Then I opened my heart to this girl...but she is pulling away. Why is this happening?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

26 July 2009 (?) - So, I never in my life chased after women. Just a male ego. I had fun with girls here and there that came my way but never chased after one, because i've been heart broken in the past and i'm not ready for that again but it seems like its happening ...

How can I end this abusive relationship safely? And is there any way I can restore the self-esteem he has damaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hey everybody. I don't know what to do. I have recognized that I'm in an abusive relationship. It's a mixture of extreme control/jealousy, verbal abuse, slight physical ("play hitting", has hit me 1 time, threatens to punch/hit me if I dont do somet...

I love him so much, but I feel like I am single in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My problem I don’t know how to approach or to deal with my boyfriend or to discuss this issue with him cuz its not very clear to explain it to him ? I feel that I love him loads more than he does, no no its not feeling its true , I keep missing...

Help me get her back! I don't want to lose her to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - hi after 2 years with my girlfriend(who lives next door) we had a pathetic argument and she finished with me, ive told her how i feel and that i want her back , but she isnt having any of it she is 19 and im 26 , we are friends at the moment,s...

I am badly bullied!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (?) - I am badly bullied. I have a black eye because a boy punched me for disagreeing with an idea of his. I'm scared to sleep. Girls have threatend to do things... bad things. The throw stones at me. They, hit and kick me. I don't ride my bike ...

Are there other women out there that are like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - what's your take on this? my girlfriend doesn't like french kissing, giving oral, handjobs or anything else sexually towards me. When we have sex its all up to me. It's ok for me to touch her during foreplay. She just doesnt really get in to it. I ...

Did she cheat on me? Emotionally? And with that kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I am involved with a girl in a lond distance relationship and we've been together for the past 2 years. I was with her for the first year but I had to move abroad for work for a yaer on contract. I've been in touch with her onthe fone for literal...

Girlfriend isn't getting a job. Should I get involved or stay out of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 4 months. Everything is wonderful between us. We get along really great. We laugh all the time, the affection and sex is great, we love the same movies, and we're both are very light responsible ...

How can I ask my guy friend if he hates me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - How can I ask my guy friend if he hates me? He never talks to me and ignores me. I have this feeling that somethings wrong every day. I dont know the right way to text him! I've asked him before if hes mad at me or hates me and he said that he ...

How do I let him know I'm here for him and how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been broken up w/ my bf for 2 wks or so. We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it" although during are whole relationship up until the end - he called/saw me daily, told me i was better than everyone he's dated/had me meet his family, ...

Help! He said he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and everything was going great untill he told me that he doesnt know if he wants to be in a relationship. he use to tell me that he loves me but he said that he really likes me. he said that he ...

Opinions needed. Should we stay together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been living together for a while now and we just broke up. I screwed up in the past while out with my friends(not cheated or anything)and lied about it. So we came to an agreement that to gain her trust back I wou...

Help! What can I do to get my mind off this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - This is basicaly my last option to ask others out there who might have been in the same situation. I've completely fallen in love with this girl who I've known for almost 3 years. I am a girl too by the way. I am bisexual. When I actually talked to ...

My boyfriend's gambling problem...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and till now things have been pretty good, we've had our ups and downs like any other couple but we have been good together. The only thing that we tend to argue about if that he likes to gamble. ...