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Archived questions from: 8 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I married but want to be with others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I have been married for almost three years. I do love my husband, but there has been many times when I find myself wanting to be with other people. Is that normal?...

In love with 1st cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster is asking for HELPFUL advice...Not to be BASHED. Aunts please answer according! i need some real help and not judgment plz! ok so i don't really know where to start...its a long story so a few years ago i fell in love with my 1st c...

Getting away from him after the summer will be a huge relief in one way, but in another, I won't be able to stand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - long story, so sit down, get a cup of tea or something, and get ready to read. me and toby have known each other since we were around 12. we started dating, actually, but obviously it was nothing serious. after a very difficult break up (he did...

I feel like my boyfriend really doesn't care about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - i feel like my boyfriend doesn't really care about me. he says he loves me everyday but then his actions seem to say otherwise. now we're on summer break and we had been in diff countries so we hadnt seen each other in a few weeks and it always ...

Why is he now so cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - [Mod note: this seems to be a continuation from an earlier question, but there was no link provided.] the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when i meet first he wss so nice ,war...

My bf harassed me, insulted me, cheated on me and made up terrible stories about me, why does he hate me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - My story is long and it proves how stupid I was to stick to this damaging relationship! but I want you also know about it. I met a guy from Toronto in May 2006 in Montreal where I live. He offered me the same day to be my bf and returned to Toronto ...

Just found out I'm pregnant, boyfriend is still grieving over the death of his daughter and wants me to have an abortion. Please help... I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a couple of months but we decided to end it after I found out he was still seeing other people behind my back. He lost his daughter just after we started seeing each other and has two other kids. This was a really hard time ...

Should I confess to my boyfriend my insecure moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I am now in a great relationship that started off a little bit rocky. I grew to care about him and he went back and forth with his feelings about me as a friend and we dated for a minute before he realized he wasn't in the space to do so, so we ...

I'm stuck in an emotional rut! I need help handling this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I was with a guy for two years in high school and lasted into my first semester at college. He emotionally abused me and during our relationship, I had a lot to turn on how to be a good girlfriend. But I never cheated nor did I lie! I was just ...

He doesn't seem bothered anymore, and I'm beginning to wonder if our relationship is over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating him for over a year and am so in love he's the sweetest person I've ever met, but im beginning to think our relationship is over, he doesn't pay attention to me like he used to or really even talk with me anymore.. I mean I try to ...

We're not as close as we used to be...help! I don't want to lose the love of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him to pieces, I don't think hes cheating or anything, its just that we're not as close as we were a few months ago. We don't talk as much and he's been a bit snappy, but every time I ask ...

He makes me hate myself. I don't know what love is anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend say things to me and turn me against myself. I am good person, I know it. Last night I try to speak with him and tell him that I hate me because of him and was crying and he told me to be quiet and stop making a show. I don't know w...

I pushed him away before, so is he playing with me now as revenge?

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8 July 2009 (F) - Does online relationship really work?? Hello everyone. First of all I really want American guys and not guys from our country because I love tall and white guys. I met this guy on an chatting site and he is a marine in Japan. I will prefer c...

I find my 19 year old step son attractive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm a 32 year old woman. i recently found myself attracted to my 19 year old stepson, and i am seriously trying to fight these feelings. i would never pursue him or make any moves, because i think it's wrong, and i love his dad too much, but i ...

I love a married girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - I trully love a girl, now she is married. We are very close friends also, but I don't know that she loves me or not. How I know that she loves me or not. We are talk through phone just as a friend. In this situation what should I do?...

He won't leave me alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - this guy started calling me,never telling me he was about to get married,tells me later and lets me know he plans on keeping me,if he hears of a gu liking me ,he runs them off, i will not sleep with him. he wil not leave me alone. he tels me all of ...

He smokes so much pot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Ok so here's my problem .. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 3 months we're very happy with eachother and are definently in love.. But he smokes sooooo much pot.. I do it with him sometimes but its never been a problem for ...

He's playing favourites but I don't think its intentional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - I have two best friends, a boy and a girl. We're all inseparable however there are a few problems. The girl, I have no problem connecting with and she has none with me. The boy, however, mostly doesnt open up to me, but he will to her. He also tells ...

He says "men rule the world"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Hi. For the longest time I have thought that I wanted a man who believed certain things, otherwise I was not being true to myself. By certain things, I mean in equality of the genders. He has been saying things that disturb me lately, but I...

Afraid of moving in with boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - can anyone help me? i'm 19 yrs old and my boyfriend wants me to move in with him and i'm scared to bc i dont know if he will be able to take care of me and the house....