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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel like our family together is second best to his "other" family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I'm not sure how to feel when it comes to my husband what I mean we have a daughter and a son on the way. But anyways he has two other kids that don't live with him but he has visits with his older son he takes him to the beach park museum and he ...

How do I make him forget about the lovers in my past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - when me and my boyfriend started going out he asked me how many people id had sex with before him and i lied and said it was only 4 when its really 9. (he was a virgin before me) recently he found out the truth and said he still loves me but he ...

Dealing with major failure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I thought I would write a post about failure. I know failure is a part of life but realizing it exists and dealing with your own personal failures is very different, and the latter is sometimes impossible to get over. These past four years ...

I think my boyfriend talks about his ex too much... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - At the beginning of our relationship, he mentioned his ex a couple times, and I sort of took it as a compliment because he was so willing to open up to me. He said she put him through a lot, blah blah blah, and basically I'm pretty sure she broke ...

We agreed to date other people, now I'm obsessing about what he does on the nights he's out of touch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now for 9 months now. Lived on and off w each other for 6 years before this. When he moved for employment we agreed to see each other once a month and date other people(his idea)he does not want ...

He tells me he loves me, we text all the time, but he never makes a effort to come see me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend txt me every day. We txt talk for hours at a time. He tells me he still loves me and he made a big mistake leaving. He says he wants to get back together but yet he never makes an effort to come and see me. He lives only 35 miles ...

I don't know how to get out of this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years now. Since we first had sex (a month into our relationship), he started calling me bad names and telling me I'm worthless. He's my first love (first boyfriend really) and at first, I ...

I'm pregnant and he doesn't meet my sexual needs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and we have been dating for 5 months now. He is 36 years old and I am 25 years old and I am 4 months pregnant with his baby. When we first meet we had sex a few times a day, everyday. When I found out I was pregnant we ...

My boyfriend loves his computer more than I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend seems to be more in love with his computer than me. this has only been a recent thing but im really getting angry and frustrated over it. when i try and make plans with him its like im bothering him and he cant even talk on the phone ...

He's in a dilemma with his ex-wife, daughter and myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this man for about 2 months but we have known each other for about 7 months. When I initially asked him out he said yes but then said he was already seeing someone but it wasn't serious. He said he didn't know what to ...

This teeter totter relationship is driving me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Hi -I just wanted an opinion from some one that does not know me or my husband. I am sorry how long this will be.. About 6 months ago my husband left me for a week and moved in with his parents. He told me he was not in love with me anymore,...

I made a big fat stupid mistake and I'm scared my boyfriend will end things with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) - Hi there Could really use some advice here. I was seeing a guy for a few weeks after Christmas but it was only casual. He left to work abroad for a few months and i met another guy who happened to be in the same crowd as the first guy (i.e they al...

Starting to develop feelings for my ex again, but I don't want to end up hurt again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I have recently just started seeing an ex of mine.. We dated when we were 18 for about 3 months, so nothing major or to serious.. At the time I was head over heels for him.. He was amazingly good looking and had all the perfect things to say.. being ...

How to get my abusive fiance to leave me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - i got engaged 4 months ago to a guy 5 years older than me who neither my family nor i knew. His family were friends with some of my parents relatives. It wasn't quite arranged - my family arent quite the typical muslim family - I grew up in ...

I'm insecure and I wish he wouldn't talk to her anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Hi i've been in a relationship for over 3 yrs with a guy i really really love. He loves me as well. We live in different cities and cant meet on a daily basis but talk for over 3 hrs a day..... I do not have any past-he's the first guy in my life....

He told me he loved me and I couldn't say it back and now I miss him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My (ex?)friend is extremely made, or hurt, or something by me. He told me he loves me, and I just couldn't say it back at the time. I think of him that way, yes, but I'd never really thought I was in love with him, as he says he is (or was) with me. ...

We broke up and now she's finally over me but I'm alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - hello people, i broke off with this girl 3 months ago because it had no future...she loved me from her true heart and cribbed and cried over me for many weeks ...she couldnt believe that i was gone and we went back and forth ....my mental illness ...

Paranoid and always thinking I should let her go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) - I really love my girlfriend and she really loves me.For some reason I think something is going to happen all the time and I keep thinking I have to let her go to keep her safe im paranoid i no but i want to deal with it. And the thought of it reall...

My wife admits that she's addicted to viagra but I don't understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - I found Viagra tablets (about 10 bottles, 5 consumed!) when cleaning the house the other day on a day off from work. My wife was out at work that day. When she came in, I told her what I'd found, and asked her sensitively and calmly if there ...

Am I overreacting? Was it the alcohol making her behave this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - Question: Am I over-reacting? I know is that I have been in a period where I have cut myself off from friends and family. I think I've been trying to sheild them from how I have been feeling - or maybe I feel embarrassed. In any case I haven't f...

He doesn't seem to love me as much and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 and a bit months now, but we've always had a thing for about 3 years before this and he's always been absoloutley inlove with me! for the past week i've been getting this weird feeling from him that he ...

Gaga for Lady Gaga!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My husband has become completely obsessed with Lady GaGa. I mean obsessed!! On the computer are hundreds of pictures and files about her, and even emails arranging to meet with her! We barely have sex anymore, because he feels I'm not enough ...

Six months of dating and he wants us to get married. But I think it's too soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (21) and I (19) have been dating for six months. He's in the army and in two and a half years he'll probably get shipped elsewhere, which is problematic for where I live, but not an immediate issue. He signed on for this station again ...

Long distance woes and the meaning of love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months. We met in college, both first years, and we were in a relationship pretty quickly. She's my first girlfriend, and I'm her second boyfriend. We are really compatible, as we have the same se...

Sometimes she calls me lots of times a day, and sometimes not at all. Is she taking a break from me on those times?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - My girl makes me worry so much about us. We are a bit of an LDR. I see her on weekends, sometimes more, for over 3 years now. We are very serious and intend to marry. Plans are set to move in together into a place real soon. But like right now I ...

My guy hesitates to take it further with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hello everyone u could called me chibi, so here the deal i meet this boy on june 13 on a simple boat ride, we get along quite well. but we jump into the relationship to soon. but i thought it was ok because we both like each other so much and...

I love sex and it's something I love doing every day, but my partner isn't nearly as yielding

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - Am I oversexed and compulsive for wanting to have sex every day? After a number of days of my partner not wanting sex I start to get stressed. Basically I can't cope very well going through the week without sex. I could releive myself twice in ...

Does he love her more than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - It's been a while since I diminshed contact with my ex husband. However, we were seeing each other for some time on and off. I still had feelings for him. I'm unsure if he had feelings for me. The story is that I confronted his new girl friend ...

Should I feel guilty? Can my friend and I remain friends? I'm trying to save my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I have been married for over 12 years. During this time, my husband has been unfaithful, or has tried to be unfaithful, numerous times. He has a lot of fidelity issues and the person I once considered my best friend is not the same. During all his ...

I'm just scared to death he's going to rip me apart again like he did just seven months ago!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Hi, my ex and I broke up seven months ago for the second and final time after a two-year relationship. We broke up because he was a douche who emotionally abused me and I just couldn't take it anymore. But at the same time, we had some really nice ...

I'm pregnant, want to marry, but he's unsure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - ok so 3 days ago i found out im pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby and we dont really know what to do! i think we should get married and so do many of my family members. my gramma says she will drive and pay for the whole thing but we are scared ...

Am I right in being loyal or is it time to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - I'm 19, going on 20. I met my boyfriend nearly 4 years ago now, and we've been going out for just over 2 years now. He is 17 going on 18, which made him 15 when we started going out. This being relevant because his family are very homophobic and ...

Her stories aren't adding up and I think there's alot going on that I don't know about

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - Hi I am in a 3 month relationship that was going good till a few weeks ago. Recently my girl has stopped anwering calls and texts. She does get back to me after awhile but its weird. She was supposed to work one day and she left my house for ...

I feel so guilty, but should I be?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are constantly arguing. Lately, we have been arguing infront of all of our friends. This is very unusual for us, because usually if we have something to say to one another - we take it somewhere else, but lately I have been blow...