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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel silly for falling for it all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have just come out of a 15 year relationship I am 33 years old and met a wonderful man 3 months ago. He has recently split up from his wife 6 months ago and has 2 children. We met through work and I spent the night with him not thinking anything ...

Can you change a "commitment phobic" man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Can you change a commitment phobic man? He keeps coming in and out of my life. He has not had a g/f since me just retreats to his cave or goes out to dinner with his older friends. I know he loves me but his fear is so great He had been deeply ...

I'm so disgusted with him that I don't want him to touch me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have been with a guy for nine years. we just had a house fire and my grandpa died. But hes more worried about himself so i told him to move out. He moved out than I find out from his best friends girlfriend that he slept with another women a ...

Neither of us are happy that we broke up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I posted a Q previously bout my bf and I - we broke up a wk ago *Sat 11th*. We had a good relationship and then when his financial/work life didnt seem to be goin good - it seemed he knit picked at our relationship despite the fact his fam liked ...

I'm not sure which guy to go with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Het[: I'm tara, and i went out with this guy [ill call him #12] #12 was very sweet and always making me happy, i always gto into trouble though cause iwould have to sneak out to see him and my parents didnt like him, so i was grounded a lot, but...

He's younger, I ran after him, then gave up, now he's texting me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - right theres this guy that is known to be a player and is all about fun yet wen i wanted to have fun he wasnt into it.. he knows i like him alot and ive been told he likes me.. so afther chasing him 4 months and been to needy and desperate basically ...

I really messed things up a lot so how to I make it better?

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18 July 2009 (M) - I messed up with my fiance so bad .. She said she has been Unhappy For months since a lil after the baby was born ..that she doesn't love me like she used to .. I work 6days a week 10hrs a day and we recently moved a hour away from work for bo...

Should I go back to my ex-girlfriend, or stay with my fiancee who lied to me, and has a shady past, I do love her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - This is a mess of a problem... and after reading this, you won't like me. Partially because I'm discussing cheating on my fiancee, and further because I end up passing sweeping judgment on people who've slept around. Ironic, right? That said, if you ...

This guy used me. Am I crazy for still loving him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years, he wasnt what you'd call a decent bloke, i was on income surport bringing up 2 girls, he was working and at the begenning he bled me dry, he was a rite womaniser, really bad wandering eyes, but ...

How can she tell me she loves me and be with another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - This is a complicated situation… and this might be long because in order to understand the situation many details must be given out. This is the warning. My Gf and I have been together in a relationship for 7 years. We had many good times and m...

I don't know if he was using me or just taking things slow

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Well I am back again. Had a great b/f everything was fun but when an ex of 5 months saw us together he went crazy and became a stalker. Bottom line b/f didn't beleive me that it had ended. We split up but we got back together but I had too many ...

I have been stealing cigs and smoking at night because it makes me feel better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - hello, well i am 13 years old and lately ALOT ALOT of people have been walking out of my life and been treating me like worthless peice of trash. im very depressed i try to act happy when i am by my sister or mom, but lately i have been stealing ...

How do I make distance between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - My boy friend is not nice to me anymore and I think he is ignoring me in way or another , just making himself busy in anything and that annoying me and makes me sad , one time, I asked him what’s wrong , he said nothing and he said if you ask ...

Am I right telling him not to cross the line?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend recently and i cant just get over it by myself, so im seeking help here. I have noticed my boyfriend keeps checking on another girl's page on a networking website, whcih shows the list of recent visitors. Right ...

He didn't stop his drunk friends from pulling my top down because he didn't want to ruin the fun!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and me to a party together. He wanted me to wear a tube top cause he thought I show off my body more often. I wore it to make him happy even I don't like to feel expose (I just wear his clothes or shirts that are 3 sizes to for me). ...

Could he be making a fool out of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - A guy who i love and who i have had an off thing with is really starting to confusing. It hs been 5 years now. A few months back he said we needed to stop sleep together as god didnt like it. Then we started again. He has been going through a ...

Jason or John?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy named Jason*(who is also my older brother's best friend) for about 6 months now...once I met him I instantly felt this really strong feeling...like I'd known him forever and that in a sense...I felt some belonging. His ...

Now when I call he won't pick up the phone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - hello, i met a friend on the internet for like 3 yeras we was very close he was sweet too but he only wanted to be just long time friends, but i felt inlove with him and the only thing he use toido is flirt with other girls but he never flirted ...

I am having a problem communicating with her, how can I improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - It's me, again. It's like I can't stop. I just has sex with her, taking into consideration everything you all have said. I made her come twice and then asked her why I can not make her come like I've made every other woman (48) come (internally...

I don't understand why he became distant and changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy and I liked him from the moment I saw him. He was a friend of my best friend's boyfriend, and her close friend too. When I told her I liked him, she was glad and she started telling me about him, about how nice he is and that he is ...