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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's always too tired and I feel so alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm so sorry this will be a long post but I'm desperate for advice... My partner have been together 3 1/2yrs and have 2 children together. When we 1st got together,I didn't realise but he didn't work-he managed to fob me off for months,moved ...

Very troubled relationhip, on and off again, is this worth the effort??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Ok. Known this guy for 1year 1/2 who had a problem commiting so we was friends w benefits. He is also an Alcoholic. Broke up Dec 08 He try to contact me but I would not respond. In March he showed up at my house. Guess he has been sober since ...

Need more emotional maturity in the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I don't even know how to organize this question, but here goes. My boyfriend and I broke up in mid-May then three weeks later we decided we wanted to be together again, however, we can't until I go back to college in August (He lives in the c...

He said "I guess I could call you every day but I really don't want to!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I can't believe my boyfriend just told me that he is 'JUST NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON WHO WOULD CALL HIS GIRLFRIEND EVERY DAY!' He would felt like he is reporting to me if he has to, it's not necessary and why would he? After a while, a big discussion. ...

We are attracted to each other, but both of us have families

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - please help, i am deeply confused. i have been with my partner for 14 years and have 3 children. i do love my partner but i am not in love with him any more, we argue a lot and he can be very hurtful with the things he says to me, which i wont g...

She never calls or texts first

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Well here's my scenario... ive been with the girlfriend for six months, i went away on holiday for 2 weeks a month back. I called, i told her how much i missed her and that I couldn't wait to see her. We met up as soon as I got back and she was ...

I don't want to lose my family but I'm not happy in the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (?) - hi, i need your help/advice im in a relationship have been for seven years we have two children, this is my problem, i love my partner to bits but theres another man that i really like i think i maybe falling in love with him!! i dont want t...

Partner has become extremely jealous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - i've been with my partner for nearly 3 years. things are pretty great at first but after some time, he's jealousy starts kicking in. he became paranoid, and cannot stand if i was even talking to a guy in uni. he can't stand if i have male partners ...

I don't want to move but he does what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - hi this might sound a bit confusing for some people!! well me and my partner met 4 years ago in scotland!! i was 16 from scotland he 22 from england! we were together for 4 months and decided to move to ireland (my mum lives there) to get a better ...

Why does my friend allow this guy to treat her so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I have a friend that for the past several yers has been involved with a man that has done all kinds of horrible things to her(MIA for months at a time,having other women in his house playing it off that thehy are just friends etc...). Each and ...

Am I wrong for saying no one time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Can someone please tell me what I've done wrong. My boyfriend doesn't come around me or talk to me as much as he use to. I asked him why and he says its my attitude. I don't have a clue what he's talking about because the only attitude is his. ...

LDR and when I go to see him he spends all his time with his family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - ok, I am in a long distance relationship (I am at university, and do my best to see my partner when I can). When I go back home to see him, he insists on spending most of his time with his family every weekend (I don't get invited). I find myself ...

I keep worrying thinking something will happen to us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (?) - Hi I am dating the girl of my dreams and she is my 1st girlfriend and i want her to be the only one because i believe in true love. But i constantly worry alot thinking this cannot happen something will happen to keep us apart and end up thinking i ...

Its always about her and what she wants

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Hey all, I have a bit of a problem with my girlfriend of about 9 months. My problem is that I get the feeling that it's always about her and what she wants. To give an example, on Sundays, I go to church with her like she wants; and then I go out...

He's insecure and tries too hard all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I love him and we get on well, apart from the fact that his insecurity and need to overcompensate is killing the relationship. I need someone to help me understand it all. My boyfriend is someone who tries too...

I'm afraid to be near guys because they have always mistreated me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - i am wondering why is every guy i like and nice to .hurts and insults me and call me names when i am only trying nice to them. almost aggressive like behavior. now i am afraid of guys, now i won,t go near them, because i am afraid they call me nam...

I gave them a test at the church and was escourted out and will not be allowed to come back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Before last sunday I had never been to church. My friend finally convinced me into going, but I am not big into religion and I don't like it when my friend pushes it on me. So anyway, we get to the church (it is methodist) and I overhea...

He likes looking at other women and will not have sex with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I am 48 and my boyfriend of 5 years is a very young 56. He enjoys very much looking at other women and watching movies with naked women but he will not have sex with me. He has pushed me away so many times that I do not even try anymore. We go 6 ...

I didn't want him to hurt himself so I'm going back out with him...but I'm so confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Okay So im like 15 i know a bit young but i really need advice. see ive been going out with this boy since the beginning of may, but ive liked his friend all the way through the time weve been dating, and well at first i really liked my boyfriend, i ...

He broke up with me through facebook, then got his parents involved in moving his things out and now wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I am a 24 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. I have my own apartment, work full time and I am a full time student. I allowed him to move in. I was not concerned about the financial piece of things because I ...