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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Long and complicated affair with my bro-in-laws wife has left me so confused..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I am a sad old man, please help me to solve my problems. I have sex with the wife of my brother in law,we have sex at her age of 36 and me 40yrs old,in year 2000.we have sex in the time when my wife and kids back home to my mother in law at 300km aw...

Drinks gets drunk and turns into Mr Hyde!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok so,iv been with my boyfriend now for over 2 yrs.i love him so much and i know he loves me ha tells me every day but the thing is,that when he gets a few drinks into him i never know what he's goin to do next.the way he treats me is so mean and ...

Is my boyfriend emoitionally unstable or just nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have just, for the second time, ended my relationship with my emotionally abusive ex who is 50 and I am in my early 30's. When I first started going out with him he was exciting, funny, devoted, adored me (although he was still seeing his ...

My wife cheated while I was away. Everyone knew but me! How do we get past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My wife cheated on me with a friend that I engaged to do some work for me while I was away from home. He had to keep contact with her to ensure work is completed and he even visited my home in my absence. He spilled the beans to someone close to...

Why stay married if I don't feel loved? Then again, is divorce always the wrong choice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - What is the main reasons of staying a marriage if it does not work? When is the limit of bad things? What if it's not bad enough to leave, but not good enough to stay? I have security, and stabilty. But I don't have affection, joy and fun. Am...

How can I get my children's father to step up to the plate?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my children's father off and on for 18 years we are both in our early 40's but he won't commit to us. We have two gorgeous daughters together. We have had our share of trouble along the way. I have lived with him before but he had a ...

I do care but I just don't trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Should you continue a relationship when you have trust issues and know that it is not going to be the white picket fence situation that you want? I mean I guesse you never know but.. I mean I think I should walk away on it but dont because I d...

Shouls I ask for her forgiveness and hope she will take me back or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I'm so confused about my feelings and think I've made a terrible mistake! I have recently ended a relationship with the most wonderful woman after 2 years! We had a really deep connection and in the beginning the excitement was fantastic as I ...

Fallen out of love with my controling boyfriend and can't stop thinking about this other man!

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13 July 2009 (F) - please help, i am deeply confused. i have been with my partner for 14 years and have 3 children, we are not married. i am not in love with him any more, we argue a lot and i feel i am just sticking it out for the sake of the kids, there is a...

I wasn't nice to him when I bumped into him at a party. Should I text him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I thank anyone who helps( in advance). I broke up with my boyfriend of twelve years in January. He asked for no contact and I did this. I found out that he has a mutual friend who has been keeping him in touch with what I am doing and his mutual ...

I don't want a physical relationship, I want something meaningful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I meet this guy well over 1yr ago, we exchanges numbers 3 to 4 months ago. We went on two dates within the last two weeks and basically went all the way last night our third meeting. I’m 26 and at this point in I’m tired of dating for sport. I’m ...

Should I leave my cousin because he won't marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well I've been going with my third cousin for almost twelve years. I have tried to date other men but I can't leave him. Right now I'm still in love with him and all I want for him to do is marry me but I think he is afraid to do it because of what ...

I'm not happy but don't wish to end relationship just because I am depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hi I am in a relationship, with someone i met around 9 months ago. he moved to my area when he was made redundant and got a good job in the catering industry. (i let him stay at my house, until he was back on his feet but because of my last relat...

Is he serious or just joking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half has, in the past, said multiple times that my friends are wh*res, n*ggers, and handfuls of other derogatory names because of some threat that they pose to him. I am not friends with bad people, I am not friends...

He cheated, will these feelings go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Dear cupid.... I have been with my partner for 5 years. About two years ago I found out that he had had phone sex with another girl, I found out by snooping (not by him telling me). When he was confronted he was extremely upset, all tears and sai...

Should I give her some space or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - alright here it goes. i was talking to this girl iv begun to develop feelings for over the last few months. one night she and i were hangin out and she and i ended up in the bedroom were we did a little fooling around. now she keeps blowing me off. ...

I'm worried I'm not attractive enough for my boyfriend. Should I be so bothered by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I love him very very much. The problem is I'm so insecure about my looks and I can't bear the thought of him looking at other women! It started when I read a message that my boyfrien...

Jealous of another student!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - i was the smartest girl in class just after miss intelligent came over im alittle jealousd and all the teachers like her now even though i'm better than her in everything other than studies, what do i do? ...

Is he trying to put space between us to stop any feelings developing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Very confused. In a very close friendship with a married man whose marriage has collapsed, or so he tells me. About two weeks ago we met up and discussed feelings for one another. however we decided (mainly his decision) to just try and remain...

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

Is this just a phase or have I gone too far?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have a problem and it's quite weird so I don't quite know who else to talk to. Background: I've been going out with this lovely man for 2 years now. He is 28 and I'm 22. I've always received a lot of male attention but I never met the person I ...

Do I stay with her and be shunned by my family or stay with her and be unhappy?

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13 July 2009 (M) - hey every one, i've been in a relationship w/ my girlfreind for over a year now, i don't feel loved anymore and feel like she's only with me for physical reasons. But i do love her and don't want to lose her. i'm unhappy and am becoming very dep...

How does anybody forgive someone that has cheated on them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of 8 months cheated on me. The girl he cheated on me with is suppose to be one of my good friends, and her boyfriend told me. I didn't talk for like twenty minutes, because I just sat there in shock. Apparently thus ...

Pregnant and betrayed by my porn loving boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months. I am 8 and a half months pregnant with his baby. We are both young (i am 16 and hes 22) and He has told me, not just told me but promised me and looked me in the eye and said "babe i dont need ...

My best friend and boyfriend hate each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - A couple months ago my boyfriend and my best friend got into a fight over facebook. I had a picture and my best friend, (he is a guy btw) commented on it, saying "You are so beautiful, I love you!) My boyfriend responded to this very negatively,...

I want my ex to leave me alone to let me get on with my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - hi I am a 45 year old bloke. My problem is 2 years ago I met someone whilst i was with my partner of 7 years and as we weren't married and i paid all the mortgage of our joint house, I wanted her out and my new g/f in. So I told her she never pai...

My boyfriend is too selfish to tend to my needs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hm, where do I begin? I've currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the past six months, we are not in a LDR any longer as he moved back to my hometown. I feel like he is the most selfish boy on the planet yet I instantly can forgive him with...

My anger is harming our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - okay so i have been with my girlfriend for two years now and in the beggining i was the complete shy, nerdy guy that would never dream about getting angry at her. no matter how mad she made me i wouldnt show it and i would just bottle it up so i ...